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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2007-11-28 20:17:40 |
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Hi, I'm new here too... I've been feeling so lonely lately...but it's not like I don't have friends...it's just...I feel lonely on the inside..and although ppl help me a lot and tell me they care about me...I just feel it on the inside..I'm lonely. thnx guys -I am not emo, I'm just going through a phase..and I kinda need help ^^- |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2007-11-28 21:45:15 |
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hm...shino chan.~ i suggest u socialise more and stuff. go on the chat and stuff. msn people and stuff, and go out wif ur real frens...and stuff. xD i do feel like taht at times, and i will usually arrange an outing wif my friends, and then enjoy the day together. hope that helps~   |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2007-11-28 23:18:31 |
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i feel depressed,again its all about my bestfriends.i have three of them.lets name them as K,F and J.xD K=my 1st best girl friend ever,she understands me alot and i tell her all my secrets.But now,since I live in boarding school,there's a gap between us.I know we should hang out often but now she's in her hometown.And now,I couldnt tell her all my secrets.Its not like I didnt believe her but..I dont know what's going on between us. F=He used to be my boyfriend.okay,shh.He's my ex and now he's my best friend.When we were together,he used to say about death and now,he said he wont online after 4th Dec(I contact him through myspace and call) and he changed his phone number.When I asked for his number,he didnt give it to me.I do ask him why he wont online and he said he have something urgent to do.I'm afraid if he's going to have a surgery(coz I heard his conversation with his mom about his illness) and he wont tell me about it if I ask him.When I get sad,he's the only one I'll call and cry.He's very understanding and I get depressed since I dont have his number and he wont be able to online. J=He used to be my crush.lol.He moved to UK and we seldom contact each other.He's my bestest friend.The point is,we dont know each others number and we dont know how to contact except through MSN.When I get depressed,I always tell him what I feel after I told F.He'll cheer me up and bring me back down to earth.But now,we wont be able to chat often like we always do before. I only have my faith in them.I cant trust anyone else and I dont know why. |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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by zparticus27
on 2007-11-28 23:58:21
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hmmm that's a tough one esthar...to break connections with the very people that you can depend on...but look at it this way...are you going to depend on them forever? i mean we all have to go our separate ways now do we...think of it as a test to try to cope up with life's lemons on your own...think of it as something to help strengthen yourself to face the challenges ahead...dont know else what to say...when i get depressed i just pour it all to one man that i know will protect me...God (crap i sound like those religious fanatics >.<) but really it works for me...you'll find a way somehow...BELIEVE IT hahahahhaah @Shino we all feel lonely at times...just dont think about it too much...hahaha laugh it out hahahah |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2007-11-30 08:24:24 |
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Hmm Lady, ur frens (pardon te shortcuts..) r very good to eu n im happy for eu.. i know its a sad thing to part with ur best frens... i experienced tat..but u could try having new frens at ur boarding school n tell them ur problems n all... well u could ask for J's number through msn..lolz.. im sorry im not sure wad m i saying im feeling down these days... Good luck Lady ^^ signing off, Hatsu Yuki~(virgin snow) |
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Lady Estherina Esherina, It's always hard when friends separate but eventually you will find someone new to help you who will listen to you when you are down. It's hard to open up to new people. I have been away from my social circle of friends for nearly ten years and outside of my sister in law I can not talk to people around here about my personal feelings snd even with her I can not share everything because my wife would get crazy jealous. I talk to my friends from high school on the phone every few months or so and they are still the only people I really trust and discuss my worries, my doubts, and my fears. You are lucky to have so many best friends. The good thing about good friends is that those friends are friends for life. Time is going to make it where you have to be apart from your friends for a while and years may pass before you see or speak to them again, but when you do, it will seem like no time has passed at all. Your good friends will still be your good friends and they will make time for you. Shino, is there any particular reason you feel lonely inside?  Good? Bad? I'm the guy with the gun. - Ash, Army of Darkness |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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by melanie1993
on 2007-12-03 04:12:02
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my parents want me to be an acountan when i grow up...i like acounting n stuff but i really want to be an interior designer.when they ask me this question i didn't answer so they keep telling me to be an acountan...then 1 day i told my dad that i want to be an interior designer n my dad looks really sad n disapointed n ask me why would i ever want to be an interior designer...which 1 should i choose?acountan or interior designer?i like the both of them but i really want to be an interior designer but i don't want to disapoint my parents,which 1 should i choose?  |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2007-12-03 05:55:12 |
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hmm...since u aspire to be a interior designer, be an interior designer. if ur parents really care about you, they will accept ur decision. i know accounting is great and all (i take accounts. :D). even if u do take accounts, but in ur hearts of hearts, u know that u want to be an interior designer, u will easily lose interest in the accounting thingy. i hope this helps mel. :D btw shino, if ur still feeling lonely want go out sometimes? xDD |
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by melanie1993
on 2007-12-03 06:24:03
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thanks yat...i do take accounts that's why they want me to be an accountan... well i hope that they will accept my desicion. |
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mel, Do what makes you happy. People will tell you what they want you they want you to do but ultimately you have to do what makes you happy. As a consequence your parents may not support your decision. Good? Bad? I'm the guy with the gun. - Ash, Army of Darkness |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2007-12-04 01:01:20 |
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I feel better now. Healing of anger seems progressing now... @Doraemon thanks for the advice, I even heard recently from the TV holding much anger may result to unhealthy lifestyle. @Adeline you didn't cause any trouble, were just in point of conveying our argument till we come up with the point of convergence Thanks to everyone...Advance Merry Christmas!!        |
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by zparticus27
on 2007-12-05 23:59:24
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@mel hmm accountancy and interior design huh well its your call...choose one or heck choose both if ya can handle it take interior design then after you graduate get a degree in accountacy or vice versa... sure your parents only wants the best for you but sometimes what they think is best is not always the best for you... in the end its your life...thus its your call choosing one of the two aint the end of things...weight out the pros and cons and go by your gut feeling! good luck! |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2007-12-11 12:56:25 |
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Shino- >< I told you...if there's something that you wantta talk about, I'm always there but um, I'm not that surprised if you don't wantta talk about...after all it's a life that we're trying to live through. Sorry, for the last few months, I've been buzy that's why I lost connection with most people... Mel-My mom's like that too...she's makes her on plans and then she's sorta forces its on me. It's annoying but really, trust yourself...if you want to be interior design, then go for it. Sure, you're parents will be mad about it but after a while, they'll accept the fact that this is what you want to be. It's your life, Mel, take control of it and make the best out of it. -Emily/Snowfire |
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by melanie1993
on 2007-12-15 01:22:05
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thanks yat,doreamon n darkemily^^i think i'll think what's the most important thing to me.thanks for the advise,i love u guys^-^ |
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Where are my old depressed buddies and what are they up too? I wonder if any of them did any hilarious suicides. Drowning themselves in jello, slicing their wrists with french bread, or jumping off a 1 story building into a pit of thumb tacks. I could go on and on like this for hours.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2008-08-03 04:47:24 |
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hahaha Jomunga!! hilarious suicides XD well, at least is good that nobody seems to be depressed since december 2007 !! O_O woow!! Jomunga bring back a dead thread XD   |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2008-08-03 04:49:59 |
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*gives depressed people anti-depresant pills* hahaha! dont be sad people! life is too short so make the most of it o.o" 
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2008-08-03 04:52:44 |
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i might gonna need it..the anti depresant pills all type of family problem n school problem coming to me too bz at times luckily i still have friends..school,gendou.. depresion is nothing already to me 
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2008-08-03 05:18:39 |
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is good to know nobody is actually deppresed, i'd better if we don't need this thread =D but of course this thread is to support those who can be depressed ^^ |
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Re: The Depression Thread V4
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on 2008-08-03 05:20:09 |
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jo-chan!! wee wee thats good!! u always hev us ^__^ and when u nid sumone to talk to im always on u know where D=
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