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The Depression Thread V4
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The Original Creator: Nightmare  (sorry to forget you, buddy~!)Lol, Imppy again >¦3 I'm on a mission to create newer versions of popular threads...imppy all the way tebayo~!! This is the V4 of Depression thread, this is a thread where people go emo (or sad), and other people try to comfort them and giving useful advices. So whenever you feel like you want to die, STOP, POST and READ~! And...live (o3o) There are people here that are very much helpful whenever you need some advices...these people are: Nightmare   jOMunGa   WolfEep~ okay, fixed it...anyone else I forgot~? O_o If I did, tell me NAW~! Anyway, these people are posting helpful stuff in this thread, so if you ever need personal help, you can PM them, or preferably post it here tebayo~!! Whut~? Me? I'm helpful too ¦D lol Remember~ be nice, and no spam fest >¦0  |
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by S-a-c-h-i-e-l
on 2007-02-10 09:56:09
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...2 things, Young One. 1: You forgot to give credit to Nightmare for making the original thread. 2: The Depression Threads belong to Nightmare, not you. Thou shalt not let this thread be thine; it shalt be Nightmare's, for it was his from the beginning.  |
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EEp~! I forgot about Nightmare, so sorry about that~ yes...I shalt give credit to him right away (o3o) *edits* there, giving credits is always the best oωo |
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on 2007-02-11 17:16:43 |
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helo! i'm here again!!! new thread..wahhh.. it seems like this thread is going to be the most famous thread.. lol |
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by night_link
on 2007-02-12 14:51:27 (edited 2007-02-12 15:10:50)
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| This is the 4th thread? It's certainly be one of the longest continuing threads but I don't know about famous. |
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| Wow V4 who woulda thought it. I'm here to wish everyone a warm and cuddly V-Day. No one go and get sad if they didn't get hip-busting chocolates or sinus-congesting flowers. Best wishes for the happy times to come. Cheers. |
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on 2007-02-14 17:29:55 |
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ohh.. i'd a bad day on valentines day while everybody is happy,i'm on duty. i've to settle all prefects problems. kyah! |
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I had the best valentines day ever. Well it wasn't grand and spectacular, but I got to spend it with someone at least. Basically we got to talk using webcam and mic. Send each other ecards. Show things we bought or made or did for eachother. It was the best valentines ever simply by not being a lonely one. T_T Though I still don't have chocolate... maybe I will just get some later since after valentines day they are always half price. And since my sister works at the chocolate store, quarter price for me.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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@ Jomunga Eep~ Well, you have a great time, but for me it's the exact opposite tebayo~ T-T I don't feel any love at all  sure I can feel it with my friends and all, but you know, it lacks something...I really can't point it out >_> |
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| bad valentines day... have a lover... but he isn't by my side... in fact... he is oceans away from me... so sad... feel like crying... |
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on 2007-02-18 04:06:04 |
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hey.. dont be sad at least u have someone that loves u very much.unlike me.. still waiting for someone that can accept myself dont be afraid to face the reality.fact is a fact and it wont change.hang on there,friend |
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| @dr.xavier: sometimes i don't even know if he really loves me very much... but... i hope you would meet the person who accept you and love you for the way you are... soon... good luck... |
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on 2007-02-18 18:43:00 |
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to narcissus:I've through this before.One of my opinions: 1.how about u ask him what is his feelings towards u?dont be afraid and shy!its for ur own good! As usual,you've to prepare before listening the answer.I'm afraid if the answer is not "good" as u want to hear so much.Sometimes,you've to learn something from this situation.You've to be frank in a relationship.Dont keep secrats between u guys.It is because,the secrats will make each other suspicious about him/her.In the end,u guys will break up. Oh yeah,I hope I can meet my soulmate. >_< |
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by zparticus27
on 2007-02-18 19:35:18
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@narcissus well hope things work out for ya @xavier you'll find your soulmate.... cheer up guys! |
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| Well here's my take on this whole love topic. While you're sitting there hoping for that "perfect" person to descend from the skies and sweep you off your feet, you're missing just how truly special the people around you already are. You will search and search until the end of your days and never find flawless perfection. What makes us special is not just our talents and good traits, but it is also our failures and our shortcomings. I cherish all of the people in my life because they are unique. They all have their own skills that baffle, entertain, and astonish me on a day to day basis. But I love them even more when they fall because it is then that I see they are trying their best to be who they are and live life the way they see fit. That is to say, when they fail I realize how much I care for them and it is that feeling that makes me pick them up, dust them off, and hold them on high just to see them through. No one else on this entire planet is or ever will be just like them. And it is with that respect that I realize they are perfect, just the way they are. I would never be so arrogant to ask for better. I will enjoy their company at every moment because the present can become but a fleeting memory in the vastness of time. I am reminded of an old song I hear on the radio from time to time but the name and artist escapes me. "Just love the one you're with." |
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@iwearpants17 the way you say things is a bit deep, but you are right... very right... @zparticus thanks alot... i hope you could find your soul mate so soon... @dr.xavier it's not that i haven't ask before... he said he loves me... but the way he acted... seems to love himself more than anything else... when i wanted to ask him to make sure... he'll be unhappy and say i shouldn't doubt at him... sometimes i really dunno what to do... |
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by zparticus27
on 2007-02-19 20:18:01
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@wolf amen to that!well said my friend!XD @narcissus i do hope so...nyahahaha |
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on 2007-02-19 20:39:28 |
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@narcissus:well,if he says that,u shouldnt doubt at him!he loves u so much! @wolf:yeah..i love everyone who is standing right beside me but sometimes i think that they only used me for fun.i mean,they didnt appreciate me at all.when their friends away,they'll start looking me and when their friends are here,they dumped me.they are using me for fun when they get bored.. |
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@dr.xavier: you're right... i guess... love couldn't exist without trust... i should trust him if i love him... thanks alot... ^^ but now i'm depressed for having a troubled family... and my boyfriend has so little time for me T_T have alot of complaints... it seems... but... this is life... |
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The complexities of human existence in undeniable. It is this variation that allows us to rise above the greatest of turmoil but at the same time create that same such turmoil within ourselves. Though the bonds of our physical existence are finite, the capabilities of our thought are infinite. It in that respect you can see that the inner working of human consciousness are contradictory at times but the pattern we can view in life and mindset translate into the identity of self and our own personality. The choices we make from moment to moment can be symbolized by our path. These paths lead through the infinite possibiliy of our existence. You may see many directions that are beaten and worn with many travelers and others that hardly seem used, if at all. The bonds that hold people together can be symbolized by two people walking along two close, parallel paths. It is in these moments of contact where we form relationships. Some may be as fleeting as a smile and greeting to a stranger on the street, as firm and rooted as the bond between family, or as complex as a blossoming love. Friends will come and go. It is the moments you spend with them that you will cherish. Even if your paths diverge it isn't to say they won't come together again. The test of a friendship comes when the paths split. Will you tolerate a compromise in the direction of your paths to keep the relationship going? The same can be applied to love and family. It is when we reach the limits of that toleration that the paths diverge and the relationship disintegrates. So it will all boil down to the choices you make that will decide to what end a relationship will come to. Will you blow off your friend because they truly bother you? Will you let love slip away because you are not together? Will the bonds of your family be broken because of a falling out? I cannot make your choices but I can lend my perspective but we must endeavor to remember not to project our opinions onto others. Their circumstances and life are much different from our own. Live your life the way you see fit and the people that stay alongside your path will lead to deep and fruitful relationships. Just do not think ill of your friends if they have left your side. Because the moments you did share were warm and if they were not then that friendship was only an illusion and one that should not be dwelt upon. The same is so for the infinitely more complex relationship of love. The relationship of family is one I have trouble coping with. It is my stoic ideals of family that do not allow me to comprehend a falling out. You cannot choose you family and if one should disintegrate the relationship with family then I see it as misguided. That isn't to say that there are not festering relationships in family, only that I cannot comprehend one because I have never experienced one firsthand. However I would seek understanding and mediation between the family members. For this you must intervene and let your opinion be heard. Lack of understanding will alway lead to self-serving mindsets which only repel that of others. I am sorry to all who have taken the time to read down this far and learned nothing from thoughts. But I would love it if you would enlighten me on your own opinions. This is the very spirit of dialogue. |