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Not Normal
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TO anyone out there have you ever felt not normal and play with the thought of ending your life. There are so many ways you could do cut your wrist or over dose on slepping pills. Having all the people who ever supported you turn on you. When you want to go into a sleep in which you will never want to wake up from the Darkness that surrounds you.Were all the sadness of your world is to much to bear anymore My question is there truly peace in Death. Or is it just a cowards way out of his problems. You decide |
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Re: Not Normal
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on 2006-03-30 00:34:25 (edited 2006-03-30 00:38:51)
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Well, for suicide, go here: Life vs. Suicide For depression, go here The Depression Thread V3 As to your question: Define peace. If you define peace as tranquility, I call that a hell I want nothing to do with. I would much rather feel pain than feel nothing at all. It is a part of being human. That's the pride talking. You cannot pick out the emotions you want to have. You cannot feel love without hate, joy without sorrow, contentment without unfulfillment, pleasure without pain. It's all connected in one singular piece. As to having your supporters turn on you: I myself went through a similar process. One of my closest friends chose to view me as a monster. She was one of the only people I felt that actually.... listened to me. One of the only ones I truly felt comfortable talking to. The answer was to find new friends, find people who valued LOYALTY ABOVE ALL ELSE. That is probably the most important factor in a friendship, for BOTH sides. Life is made up of wins and losses. You never quit, regardless of how dire things become. You LEARN from failure, you do not SUBMIT to it. EDIT: I was actually reading through your posts, and you have quite a knack for asking the tough questions. *chuckles* Good to see a great thinker asking good questions. |
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on 2006-04-22 13:31:31 |
people consider me crazy and a psycopath but i dont think its true......  |
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on 2006-04-22 13:59:00 |
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if i'm gonna die in the hands of other people and my death is something that i didn't want to happen yet, i am thinking i would definitely be not in peace at all. but how would i know when that happens. i wouldn't have my brain working anymore. if you believe in paranormal, you wouldn't be in peace once you die by killing yourself. in paranormal, it seems that spirits can still think and feel. i'm not sure though. but when you kill yourself to escape a problem, i don't think your spirit would be freed out from that problem as well. it will continue to feel and carry the burden you've had and it will never be in peace less the problem is solved. therefore, do not believe in paranormal. hehe... do not kill yourself, kill the ones who've caused you pain. hehe... just kidding. there's not a single burden that we can not carry, and no single problem that we can not solve. we can always think of better solutions. because what makes us superior above other animals here on earth is that, we can walk erect in two feet or in good posture and with our two arms behaving on our sides. lol! just have abreak once in a while. after knowing the daily toxins of your life, detoxify and never let the similar toxins infect you again. you can not have all the sadness in the world, no one can. there are more than billions of people around the globe who share them with you.  |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-04-22 14:01:00
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Peace is possible....but very hard to reach. But having pain and suffering lets us know we are ONLY HUMAN. 
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Death is sometimes a final peace to a life you don't want to have anymore.I agree with Dark15 comment about Having all the people who ever supported you turn on you. When you want to go into a sleep in which you will never want to wake up from the Darkness that surrounds you. I know this sound odd but Death is the greatest peace when your life is no longer yours. I went through a phase in my life were taking my life became a opinion for me.My older brother was kill in a car accident. I was in the car with him.But I survive but he did not. I luckly found a consular to help me throught my personal hell and I am better now. I just want to know has anyone went through something simalar.
All Alone in this so call World
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on 2006-05-01 07:16:32 (edited 2006-05-01 07:17:34)
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Only a total idiot would end his life. I mean, c'mon! It's not too late to change. Time passes by. You should never carry your burdens every time. Never carry other's burdens as well, there are no "others". You should learn to throw away those "burdens" and learn to start a new life. Some people take great pride not in never falling, but in rising everytime they fall. Remember, many people want true peace, but only a few of us ever find it.
What if I jump out
of this speeding jeepney? Fly without wings Reach for the grey-painted heaven And out into the sea of infinity?  |
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on 2006-05-01 08:24:06 |
| I agree with Nero, though removing all those "burdens" is still a coward's way. Death may be the final peace, but since you don't know what life is (since nobody on the earth does) what the hell gives you the right to think your life is so bad that you should end it? |
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-05-01 15:22:40
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actually, i would call a suicidal person a coward. they do not have the courage to live..lolz..i really don't know... |
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Re: Not Normal
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on 2006-05-01 19:35:28 |
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I agree with Nurii on a great many of those points. Placing them in a mental ward and putting them on suicide watch and placing them in a secure room only deals with the physical being... since the problem is not physical, it's mental, it really doesn't solve much. You have to get inside a person's head in order to get them to change. And yes, that is possible, I've done it myself. Everybody has done it, and it isn't like flipping a switch, they do it themselves, but they do it because they listened to you. Just as everybody has different coping methods/capacities, they also have different listening methods. If I studied a person long enough and came to the conclusion that they would listen to would be hard truth, then I would go ahead and give that to them. Just as with any problem, you have to get to the root, the core, the why of the problem in order to even have a chance of a successful solution. It starts with listening, and listening very carefully. You create your own life, this is a universal truth, regardless of your situation. All life is created by the person living the life, and that power is ours. If you don't want to live your life, change it. Simple. Difficult to do, but very simple to understand. You don't just ... forget all the bad stuff, you can't do that, and wishing to do it is a waste of time, you have to learn from it and grow from it. |