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Help anyone!!!

Link | by :(*):Mangetsu:(*): on 2005-11-29 15:47:26

Look I have this huge crush on my best friend, I really really like him.
We are most of the time together and he flirts with me most of the time but I think he likes another girl, which everyone seem to be in love with. Even though he said he is not, he act like it. I'm totally confused can someone give an advice please!!!

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Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by night_link on 2005-11-29 15:56:59 (edited 2005-11-29 16:00:02)

People in the depression thread are always willing to help, but also post there too please. Well, someone also has a similar situation as you Mangetsu :(*):. The help I can offer now is not force him to focus his attention on you because that wouldn't help. Also be open to his thoughts and feelings. I mean if he in truth likes this other girl, do no burden yourself with that. Who knows how things will turn out?

Question though... does he know you like him? And what kind of guy is he? And this other girl, is she more of the popular type?

Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by :(*):Mangetsu:(*): on 2005-11-29 16:15:58 (edited 2005-11-29 16:16:21)

Well he like anime like me, he is funny, he is kind ( even if he says he is not), he tries to act like a bad guy but he isn't, he is a good friend.

Well my school is particular, so the school dosen't have too much students, so umm don't laugh but we are 25. So yes she is popular, have a lot of money but she is not preppy and she is popular because she is the pretty one. But I get along with everyone better than her, and I don't flirt with every guy I see.

Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by night_link on 2005-11-29 16:20:07

But does he know you like him? And how does he think of you? As just best friend?

Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by :(*):Mangetsu:(*): on 2005-11-29 16:26:20

Well I'm not sure if he knows, because one day he took a paper where a friend and I wrote about the boys we liked and I think he read it, but he didn't act different so I'm not sure, and I'm afraid that if I tell him he will push me away and I don't want that to happen. And he told me I'm his best friend, and I'm the person that he trust more and that I am a very good friend.

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Jomunga on 2005-11-29 16:40:19

What I advise is to just be near him as much as you can, and put a little more love in everything you do when you are around him. You don't need to confess or anything but at least show your love. He'll notice it and it might go alot smoother than a sudden confession.

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Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by night_link on 2005-11-29 16:42:02 (edited 2005-11-29 16:42:21)

I think to him... he's unsure about how you would react if he tells you if he does or does not like the other girl. From my view... he might just be wondering what to do too! I said "might"!

Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by :(*):Mangetsu:(*): on 2005-11-29 16:54:19

Thanks for the advices. So I'm going to do what jomunga said and see what happens. And I'll tell you the results.

Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by S-a-c-h-i-e-l on 2005-11-29 17:41:06

Hope it all works out, Mangetsu! And don't forget to give him an occaisonal small gift! Being extra nice is really easy, and you get good results.

Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by Kotuso on 2005-11-29 17:44:13

Let him make the first move, that'll show you if he really likes this other or if it is because everyone else does. Oh you should at least let this guy know your interested by giveng some small hint. s are usually good at that.

Re: Help anyone!!!

Link | by :(*):Mangetsu:(*): on 2005-11-29 18:22:39

I have gave him some hints but I think he didn't notice. And the gift is a good idea.

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