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Is there such thing?
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by AkumaDsaint
on 2007-01-17 07:45:22
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 Hello everyone, I just want to know something because I believe everyone has there own piece to add to it. I’ve been in a lonely slump for a while since school started and well the reason why is that its been 3 years ever since I haven’t had a girlfriend (The first one we decided it didn’t work out as well and only remain as friends the other one cheated on me I broke it off). So ever since then I’ve been trying to get with other girls and that is failing, badly I might add. So at first I gave up then a good friend of mine said that I shouldn’t “hang up my hat†just yet, that I should ride the waves of love and wait for that time to come. I did and well, nothing happen. So I ask you, people of gendou, should I still ride the waves of love or should I give up on love until I hit college?  |
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on 2007-01-17 08:09:49 |
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true love waits... ^_____^ |
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by
 
on 2007-01-17 18:36:10 |
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Well...i think it's better to have a GF/BF when your'e older..like you said, in college. First of all, the relationships you have when you're younger are harder to maintain because some ppl tend to be "jeolous" of the ppl who HAVE BF/GF, so in order to feel "one of them" they force themselves to get a BF/GF. of course, i'm not saying that you're like that but yeah...=P second, when the time comes for you to go to college you might not go to the same school as yoru BF/GF, and therefore unless you have a way to see him/her everyday, your relationship (in my opinion) won't last... i dunno, that's what i think. of course, you might not want to listen to me cause i'm only 13...=P |
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on 2007-01-17 23:17:09 (edited 2007-01-17 23:18:21)
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first of all... how old are you? Suzaku spilled out good points... nah... dont give up... as long as you dont rush things... & dont force yourself to love someone... as Mamaw said there is at the right time... love will find its way to you.. & good luck... ^^ EDIT: and oh... your siggy's height is pretty big... better change it before someone zaps it... ^^ 
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by ℓ٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ
on 2007-01-17 23:56:18
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don't you worry finding your true love has patience but (i'm sorry if i do this but.......) if u want to impress a girl i'd say "be yourself!" then you won't have any problems!  |
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Personally, I don't go looking for love, I'm waiting for love, it's just only a matter of time when I got myself stuck in either a love triangle, or a love rectangle (if there is one) tebayo~ All I know is, at least 2 persons have feelings for you in this world disregarding blood-related people~ I dunno if it's a fact or just another myth dattebayo~  |
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on 2007-01-18 05:55:41 |
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Devilish Saint, Judging from the current academic level you are in, I can tell that you are still very young. Considering "hanging up your hat" as you would say it, is really premature. Speaking from experience, being a quarter-century old already, rushing into a relationship just for the sake of having someone at groping distance is foolish. Not only are you ill-prepared for it, you end up hurting that other person, which makes things doubly painful. But it is understandable for people your age to want someone near. It's the hormones. Listen, enjoy your life. Do what you have to do (your top priority being your schooling), and things will fall in its proper place at the right time. Don't worry too much. I wish you all the best. Feel free to PM me if you have any other things you wish to ask. beauseant! |
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on 2007-01-18 06:03:37 |
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Enjoy your life... because it is the most precious gift... everything will fall in the right time.... True love can wait even it will take an eternity  --> |
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well, i agreed with the rest.... true love waits................ just enjoy life for the moment!!! school life is possibly the best year of your life.. so relax & have fun.... ENJOY! finding the ideal one takes time... don't be in a rush.. yeah? enjoy school..... =)
- It's NOT.thecolorofyour s k i n.|BUT|.thec o n t e n t sofyourHEART.that reallymatters -
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just like the people above me said, there's no need to rush into things for now, just live your life as it is, and be content of what you have. being in love isnt the only way to happiness. you can also be single and loving every moment of it. so people say, you dont have to wait for love, it will come to you~ anyways, i've known some people who'd date for fun during high school. like, because the guy is popular, peer pressure or just want to "feel" how is it being in love. so yeah, thats what they did when they're still young and immature. i guess if you dont mind hurting people or being hurt, you can live with this life style. |
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by
 
on 2007-01-18 09:34:46 |
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Exactly! Don´t rush!!! Love comes at the least expected time...:) Don´t look for it, it will come by itself... |
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on 2007-01-18 12:08:45 |
Love is like the waves. To ride the waves is an analogy in the fact that you'd rather move from one love to the next. To flow like a wave in the waves of love, you'll end up on shore. Like the beach, the land and water compliment each other. So when you hit the shore, you've found that love adn will sink back into the water with him/her in your arms. That's to my own thinking of course. Basically speaking, wait for it. you'll hit the shore eventually.  |
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on 2007-01-18 13:49:27 |
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Exactly what Pame said... Don't force urself to get a gf just because u see everyone else has one... Love is suppose to come naturally^^  |