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There's a situation that I hope you guys can tell me what should I do and advice me. My friend,xxxx xxx xxx keep on forcing me what to do..argghh..And when i put her favourite anime,final fantasy x 2..in msn ..she say..i put you favourite cartoon o if u don't change your pic..that is,shaman king and ryoma..This makes me more hate her..she's just controling me what to do..Tell me what should I do..after you read this...Please..*kneel down* |
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by
 
on 2006-06-01 20:06:02 |
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Does she do that often? Or just sometimes? If she only does it a few times, you should tell her to stop and explain that you want to include your own pics, and that you have the right to do what you want. If she does it often, then why are you still her friend? True friends don't boss their friends around. Don't worry, I've had experience with that too... |
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 DaedalusMachina
on 2006-06-01 20:07:28 (edited 2006-06-01 20:15:15)
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| Simple, she's either too naive/immature/inept to know what she's doing, or she was never your friend in the first place. |
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on 2006-06-01 20:10:00 |
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Or just listen to a less complicated explanation up there. -_-;^ |
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| Thanks for you guya advice,hey.."~ .::::%u706B%u795E::::. ~"..so how do u and your friend ends up..still friends?I hope you guys are still friends..Yes..my friend do this quite often..I can't explain to her and can't tell her what my feeling is...She will sure say:"Don't put eh..If you put,I put your shaman king and ryoma lor."But actually I'm the one who introduce her final fanatasy x2 and last year she's a new user of MSN and I teach her how to add emotions,chat,type email,and even all the basic steps of playing MSN..And if she ask me to introduce er MSN friends..I also intoduce to her..but if I don't share with her my friends..she will say:"yerrr..why yous o stingy o."And make me want to give her all my friends email..But now if I ask her to introduce me some of her friends..she will say:"No..all my friend is I find them so hard de o.."I know everybody in my class like her..and nobody likes me..cuz they think I'm ugly..but my primary six friends does not think so..they just say that they are my friends..I wish my primary six friends are here and always be with me.. |
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Heh?? Well, from ur explanations, I assumed that she owed u a lot... right? But if u don't like her, why don't u just stop being friends with her... because it just seems like she's using u.. no offense.. ^^  |
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DaedalusMachina
on 2006-06-01 22:24:43 |
| My bet is on immature, actually. People just don't fully realize that they are bossy. I'm pretty sure that I've been guilty of that at some point. Most people just grow out of that. |
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by purpleblue_scarlet
on 2006-06-02 01:37:48
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Ya know, If I were you, I wouldn't listen to her anymore. You should just gather all your courage and just really talk to her. If you won't nothing would happen. She'lll just keep on repeating everything shes done bad to you. From the things you've said about her she seems like a greedy person who wants everything. I think that shes just jealous of you 'coz you know more things than her. And about your class problem or something like that, just don't listen to them. Even though I haven't seen you yet, I don't think you're an ugly person. Everyone has their own beauty in different ways. Remember, physical appearance doesn't always count! ^o^ |
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O.O So childish lol So just pissed her off dont care what she says just block her man |
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by sesshoumaru-xxx
on 2006-06-02 02:22:05
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| yeah it should be a problem of immaturity cause your friend is like wanting to take control of every possible situation she can find.If she really is your friend i suggest you try to talk to her about her attitude or if you want to,stop being friend with her. That is my only my view point so don't follow to much of it ^__^ |
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Thanks for all of you guys advice..you guys' advice make me change my mind..I'm so grateful that you guys did reply me..:) Hope that next time she will change her attitude... |
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Don't let her tell you what to do, put your foot down, it's your pic on MSN anyways, who cares what she thinks. This problem happened to me before to, and ya'know what I did, what I just told you. It works, depending on who your friend is! 
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-06-04 17:42:28
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| wtf is wrong with ur freakin friend!!!!? of course u noe wat u should do, it's in ur heart..^_^...dink it over n u'll find an answer |
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I think you know what to do, there VivieN, but we are just a little shy to do so. You can't continue to do this. You can only take so much until you break, right? You need to tell your friend to back off, but not mean, but firm enough she gets the point. If she retaliates, and gets angry, and looks like she is going to fight you, stand your ground. A black eye is worth standing up for what you belive in. Keep you ground, and walk away and be the better person. This girl is no friend of yours. You decide what is right though. good luck.
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