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on 2007-01-11 18:10:42 (edited 2007-01-11 18:11:05)
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@D-Ninja- I do agree with you, people will die, it is war and this is reality. It's good to look on the positive side and be hopeful but there is a cold reality. I am hoping no-one I know will die but I do fully realize that it can happen to anyone including people I know, life is just cruel that way.    |
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Re: The Depression Thread V3
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on 2007-01-11 19:56:19 |
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hey everyone thanks alot!!really appreciate it!! well,he has another girl(i named her m) when we were together and he clash with both of us(in the same time and using the harsh way by leaving a comment at myspace) but he said to m(using the harsh way also)that dont contact him anymore(and he didnt ask me to do that.) when i want to forget him,i cant.maybe its because he's still remember me??(i dont know). many of my friends says that we should couple back but i dont know if he still loves me.when i called him,his voice is so happy and he doesnt want to hang the phone.(lol). should i tell him that i still love him or not?? |
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Re: The Depression Thread V3
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on 2007-01-11 20:31:09 |
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Relationships are hard, None of us can tell you the answer to your questions, but even though i don't like the way how he rejected that other girl, i bet he also feels bad that the girl he chose is confused and is very anxious. If I say anything, it's probably hard on both parts, love is just very confusing. Don't worry, we all go through hard times, and we'll be there for you, the gendou section.  |
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@xavier, first of all, i dont think you should follow what your friends said. you should think for yourself. and i think that guy is a jerk. he was dating another girl when he's with you. and then he left both of you in the "harsh way". i dont think a guy would do that to the girl that he really loves. so yeah, my advice, i think its better to leave the guy and move on.  |
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Re: The Depression Thread V3
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on 2007-01-12 03:52:47 |
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hello mrtakeiteasy and angelyuki. thanks 4 ur advices.i really appreciate it. now,i just want to forget him and enjoy my life. and try to find another cute guys.lol thanks again!! :DD |
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Re: The Depression Thread V3
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| Esther Xavier, good choice. This guy sounds like he's got a few fries missing from his happy-meal. Also it's very possible that the reason you still thought you loved him was due to a little thing in your head called withdrawal. The endorphins produced while you were still in a relationship were cut off, leaving a chemical dependency in your brain. It would be the desire of your brain to have those chemicals reproduced, so what ends up happening is that you recall pleasurable experiences and produce those chemicals. This is why people often only remember the "good times" of a relationship shortly after breakup. This also has a side effect of causing a relationship in your mind between that relationship and that chemical to which you are dependent. Subsequently you are attracted, often to a greater extent than before, to that person. In short, the feelings you had for him are most likely dissipating as you read this and in a few weeks you will no longer care deeply for him. |
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Re: The Depression Thread V3
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on 2007-01-12 18:09:18 |
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thanks D-Ninja.. now,i can live happily..hehe but something is haunting me after we're break up. he's in every single my dream.every time I sleep,he'll come into my dreams.he's scared me right now.just now,i dreamt about him,again. my friend says if I dream about him,he's thinking about me.and I don't believe her.If I dream about him every night,it means he's thinking about me everyday?Sheesh... T.T |
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| not quite, superstitious ideas aside, dreams are simply bits of fragmented memories being transferred from short-term to long term memory. While I haven't done it in quite a while, I could try and interpret your dreams if you want me to. Dreams are also very good at seeing what your brain puts together, that's why there's a whole degree in dream interpretation. |
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Re: The Depression Thread V3
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on 2007-01-12 19:02:43 |
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okey..if he's good in dream interpretation,i'll make sure that I'll intrupt his dream back.revenge time.lol well,i guess my problem is solve now.thanks minna-san. i really appreciate it. if i didnt found this website,maybe my problem isn't solve. T.T thanks minna-san!! :DD |
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Re: The Depression Thread V3
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on 2007-01-12 19:21:11 |
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interpret vrs interrupt interpret is if you were to describe your dream and I tell you you what it means interrupt is if I were to stop you in mid sentence not quite the same thing but I can see how the mistake could be made |
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Re: The Depression Thread V3
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on 2007-01-12 20:21:31 |
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lol..sees depression everywhere.. cant seem to help anyone.. lol my turn to be depress.. here's my depression.. i have a friend..[ its a she..] she always have some problems with other of my friends.. i have no idea why.. ..then just 2 days ago... when i tried to help make peace between her and my friends.. lol..got scolded by all.. " who side are you on.. " why you always want to help [her] [ them ] zzz.lol..say until like im in the wrong.. shouldnt even help anyone at all.. 
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Hahaha Shinji - "zzz" I agree. ^-^ If they're going to scold you like that, then just keep your distance. It's hard solving complicated things like that, and most of the time they make no sense anyways [err...let's rephrase that: most of MINE make no sense anyways ^^']. Get your hands on some popcorn, sit back, and watch the fireworks. *.* ^-^  |
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on 2007-01-12 23:24:27 |
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hahahs..tori...nice one.. lol..but i dont like popcorn..so i switch to CHOCOLATE~!! XDDD
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on 2007-01-13 00:16:18 |
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hehe..its better if u solve this problem or it'll become worse. how about a lil talk.. |
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on 2007-01-13 00:21:05 |
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lol..esther.. when it comes to them.. -.-'' chat doesnt work.. T.T
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on 2007-01-13 00:39:02 |
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lol.. its to hard for me..if i in your shoe,i'll sit down and watch like u..take some coke and chocs. hehe :DD |
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on 2007-01-13 00:52:17 |
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LOL... share the chocs~!! *TRIES TO SNATCH esther choco./ esther whack shinji head.. ouchie~!
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lol.. is she keep making troubles with u?? the better way is be frank with them and her.tell her and them that you are getting annoyed and sick with this situation. is it ok??dont use the harsh way such as raise your voice..just calm down and be cool.. :DD |
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esther.. i am a very bad person.. :] i dont say im getting annoy.. i just say.. if you are not happy. then dont talk to each other.. :D done
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just a quick thing...sorry once again, i feel so silly comming in only now and then to my own thread and i loose track of everything i went to a dance at school, it was pritty fun and about the draft thing that my friend was talking about...im 18 too and i was worried about it very much for a few years. but this is the way i see it. if i go and die it will be for the best so there is no real reason to fear it. death is meant to be embrased and not feared...then again, ive wanted to die for alot of years. i just try not to think about it. but sorry to bring up an old topic again, ill be back later |
