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on 2006-12-10 13:12:19 (edited 2006-12-10 13:23:18)
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Things like that are serious. If he's hitting you and mistreating you he can and most likely will get sent to jail for it when it is discovered. If it was me in that situation I would have already struck my dad but I don't suggest you do that in your case. Talk to your mom about it, if he keeps doing it and keeps hitting you then report him to the authorities or someone who can report him. Of course it depends on the situation, if he's doing really bad things to you then tell someone about it and they'll know what to do. @Akatsuki- The best advice I can give and that I think you should follow is this. If you don't like it and you know what he's doing is wrong then tell someone like a teacher. It may sound like a Elementary School suggestion but given the kind of person you are you should tell a teacher about it and they'll most likely make things right. You have rights like any other person, don't let anyone push you around and take those away from you.    |
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the problem is that he doesnt hit hard enough to bruise (abuse cant be reported) he has a master key for the house my mom is dead and he wont let me get a job (cant support myself) unfortunately for me he's very smart i feel completely helpless my only happiness comes from drawing, watching anime and the cooking he forces me to do ..........*sigh*.............   |
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on 2006-12-10 13:47:35 (edited 2006-12-10 13:50:56)
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I see. That's a tough situation then. Just try and get through it for now. We're all here for you and while it might not seem like that is something to take comfort in we really do care. Once your 18 technically he can't tell you what to do since your of legal age. All I can say is to stick up for yourself as much as you can. Once your 18 you don't have to listen to a thing he says since he no longer has legal custody over you. Edit: If you have MSN or don't mind e-mail I'd be glad to talk things over with you and help out however I can. |
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Akatsuki...I'm really sorry to read all of that. Your situation is really hard. You are a brave girl. Please as Jonathon said, whenever you need something, here we are ...I have an msn account. If you need to talk to someone you can pm and then i'll add you, and help you with anything you may need. Take Care |
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@Akatsuki, I can't imagine how difficult this must be. I have a friend who has to endure the exact same thing, and I absolutely hate that feeling of helplessness this kind of situation brings with it, for both you and us trying to help. If there is anything at all I can do to help, please let me know. It irritates me and infuriates me to no end to think of someone being abused like this, it is absolutely not fair at all. What good is family without love? Please hang in there. Focus of the pleasures you have in life, and count down the days until you're 18 and completely free. Life does not end here, it goes on to better days. Nothing is forever. @desertranger, long time no see, I hope for the best for Lady Rin. |
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@Akatsuki: I'm sorry to read about this.. YOU're a BRAVE GIRL, really! Just like what most have said, if there's anything you may need, we're always ready to see what we could do/help. Don't feel shy to ask... Hang in there! STAY STRONG, ya? There's always light at the end of the tunnel. Something i always believe in. Hold unto the little things that make you happy, who knows you might just become someone great in those little things like drawing? Right?? Happiness is a choice, don't let anyone take away the key of happiness from you.. We're ALL on your side... Take care!
- It's NOT.thecolorofyour s k i n.|BUT|.thec o n t e n t sofyourHEART.that reallymatters -
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@Akatsuki- Well after coming out of a 4 hour chat with you I have learned a lot about you. I've learned you have many talents which includes drawing, so hold on to those and like roq said just wait for the day when your 18 and no longer legally bound to your father. It's not long before you get to make choices completely on your own. Your a great girl, you have physical looks, a strong will and a caring attitude, you've got all that going for you so I'm sure you'll do great once your out on your own. That's really all any of us can do for you at this point, tell you everything will be okay, but you understand that and I've already said everything I could possibly say to you over MSN. So good luck and I hope to see you one day. |
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*sigh* . . . . . . . . . . . . . depression revamped once again . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . *sob* *sob* *sob* |
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@Akatsuki: depression revamped????? what's up? are you okay?
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I believe it's my fault she's depressed.-_- |
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@Jonathan: eh? don't quite get what you mean....? did anything happen b/w the 2 of you...? argument???
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I'm just depressed because I woke up...I basically ddn't even go to sleep...1 hour...that was it...damn...  |
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@Dark: insomia?? i guess.... it'll be better when yo have sufficient rest....... =)
- It's NOT.thecolorofyour s k i n.|BUT|.thec o n t e n t sofyourHEART.that reallymatters -
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hey guys...sorry, studying for finals is taking up all my time... oh my, Akatsuki, im sorry to hear about that...my parents were never like THAT. (i mean sure, they gotr mad and stuff, but never like that!) speaking of witch, i got mad at work today becuase the asst manager made me stay after i was supposed to go home...then i got mad...i had already had a bad day as it was and i had a contained blow-up when my dad got there to wonder what was going on...then some lady tells me that it was "unproffesional" to talk like that to my dad...GOD i had a bad day... but im home, i finished my work, and soon i will speel and everything will be ok again!!!  |
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Wow, I haven't been here in a long time. Between track, school, and homework I really haven't had that much time for this stuff. Nightmare, It was "unprofessional" of her to confront you about your personal relationship with your dad, frankly it doesn't really matter to her how you talk to him. Of course it's also "unprofessional" to slap her in the face, but she deserves it. There's only one kind-of person I can honestly say that i would despise to be near, that being a hypocrite. |
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@K-I-D- Nvm about that.^^; Something happened but it was just a misunderstanding. It's clear now. |
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@Jonathan: oh okie, good to hear it's cleared.... havent seen her ard.. =)
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whats up every one?! how have you all been? |
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on 2006-12-19 19:00:16 |
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@ketsuki *ah*. . . . . . . . *um*. . . . . . . . . . not to bother you, but . . . . . . *um* . . . . . . . . . . . your signature . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . just made me lose my dinner. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I hate killing. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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i guess there was something wrong with my sig cuz it got removed. sorry about making you loose your dinner |