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well i would just go with it...there are alot of people in this world that are going to do that to you. me and dad had a huge fight last night. all because i misunderstood something that mom said. she was just stating something whewn i thought she was yelling at me for the 7th time about me bying my psp. anyway, dad got really mad and backed me into a corner and started shoving me...it wasnt pritty and i dont really want to say what i did next. (and please dont ask) i still regret what i did. (dont worry, i didn't do anything bad or anything, i just dont want to talk about it.) anyway, dad cut my computer power again and took away all my knives. (which i found by the way, so its not big deal) BUT when he discoverd it was all a misunderstanding, he let me get a 1.0 GB memory stick for my PSP. so now i have like 200 songs on it. also, sience dad is paying the insurance for it anyway. my dad is letting me get m,y drivers liscence...but i wont have a car or still wont be allowed to go anyware. OH and im glad your back, rin, just relax and i hope you feel better soon!  |
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Happy sickness recovery day and happy belated birthday Ranger and Rin. Nice joke Ninja, that kid got bowled over by the teacher. haha. Its funny that now I learn the results of football games at gendou. I don't care but my mom was rooting for usc, I will go laugh at her. Koganei your sig is annoying, it makes me have to use the horizonatal bar. Align it left and make is shorter plz. Eman this may make you feel better. First of all when a teacher does that, kids aren't thinking your stupid, they are thinking of what an ass that teacher is. I had a teacher like that, he would always point out every mistake like an ass. I myself never got point out for mistakes, because I don't participate. One day he lets some girl have it. While he is saying all his crap I am thinking up all his mistakes and insults I can launch at him. I then blurt out what I am thinking, silence, I then use this opportunity and continue. He get furious, and then I see that his face turned bright red. Of course I make note of this and the laughs start coming in and my insults start becoming jokes at his expense. I keep joking when I am on a role the whole class is on the verge of losing it. He is speechless until he finally screams "get the F^&* out!" I leave laughing victorious and was switched to a different class.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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I want to reply only all of a sudden I feel weak. Ranger wants me to spend the rest of the day reading watching TV and sleeping, nothing interactive. He says that takes too much energy when you're sick. Do you think he's right? I'll come back this afternoon. Nightmare I'm sorry you had a fight with your father.  |
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I remember when i had strep I had a tough time even looking at a TV so I can imagine the headache you would get from looking at a screen and typing. as far as the whole teacher incident goes I'm probibly going to catch alot of flack for this, but I what the teacher did was not entirely wrong. reading your discripition makes me think that mabey this teacher did not mean to offend you. I know many teachers who would call you out on such an errror as having incorrect data. It is in part your falt as well, as the son of two teachers I understand fully why this teacher would be angry with you. If you didn't understand the topic then you weren't preparred for the report. I offer my sympathy for you but put yourself in the teachers shoes. imagine a student of yours has done what you just did. Now imagine that you have had many kids do the same thing repetitivly. By the time that student gave the wrong information again you would be pretty angry, at both the book and the stundent for not having the common sense to ask for assistance. So you see that that teacher has probibly made the same speach to many classes and one student who didn't ask in everyone of those classes feels the same as you do. In many ways I know I sound as if I think you're stupid, but I don't. I simply feel that this teacher is very stressed over what has happened. I garuntee that if you asked this teacher about what I just said You would get this response, "well you weren't the first and you won't be the last." So don't get angry just look at all the angles before you decide. |
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This is good, someone here can see both sides of this teacher argument. Did you not review your materials? Yes. Should he have blown up at you? No. Was he stressed out? Yes. Should you go around moping? No. Stuff like that will happen all the time, EmAn, whether you like it or not. The best thing to do is put yourself in their shoes, put yourself in your shoes, and then their shoes again. Make sure you see all sides of the problem. And keep in mind the fact that you do not know everything; for example, he could've had a friend die recently, lost his wallet, something like that. And that goes for the teacher, too. You're not perfect, so he shouldn't expect you to be. And he probably didn't know that you value what your friends think of you more than others, and that you have low self-esteem. So don't get mad at this whole thing, half of it was probably a misunderstanding ^_^ And Nightmare, was that whole argument a bad thing? Your dad realized he was wrong, you got a cool thing for your PSP, so it's not all bad. I'm just assuming that whatever you did was not good and that that may have some lasting effects. So you guys see, this whole matter with the both of you may end up with some good effects. Remember, there is some good in nearly every problem ^_^  |
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~Hey Eman, are yae in college? Tough luck! Some professors do suck in some colleges; they try to put so much blame in their students, especially when it is their damn fault. Did he tell beforehand that you can consult him with those references? If not, then it's his fault. He should have told you about that. I have professors like that, and you can't escape from them... ~sigh~ that's just the sad thing. You've made a mistake, and as a teacher, he should understand that and not embarrass you in front of everyone. He could've just called you in his office after class, well he's an ass! He may have been in a sour mood on that very day, or he may have been trying to cope with a problem, then he sees you, insults you..., well that's unprofessional. It is ok to cry though, but don't feel like not going into his class anymore! Koganei-san's right, you must prove to him later on that he's WRONG! You're not stupid! And yae can do something more. Do your best..., you wouldn't want to have another hella class with him, would you? So, be steadfast, meet his standards, and pass the subject! ^_^ And I'm sure your classmates wouldn't think different of you after what happened. They'd sympathize for you, then curse that teacher for being such an ass! See who's the real loser? Not you of course! ~Jomunga, such freedom yae have there. Unfortunately, we can't do that in here. Students respect teachers at all cost. If we happen to do those in front of the whole class, we might get suspended... worse, expelled. ~Lady Rin, he's right. You might tire your brain cells from thinking too much! XD Just rest for a while, and recover soon because your body's not capable of helping you do most of the usual things now. Please don't abuse it, or you might get sick again. ^_^ And please, call me Rukia instead of allured_chaos. |
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Your teacher may have been sour at the time, but I have teachers that have the same problem and handle it better. Usually when some one asks the same question that has been asked several times, they wouldn't single out any one, they would just yell at the entire class. Or the simple answer is if you weren't listening or didn't understand they would tell you to ask one of your classmates. I think only you can judge this teacher, whether it was just a bad time or he is a jerk. I wasn't there so I won't say this particular teacher was right or wrong. Normally I would have been drop failed from the class. However, he did this everyday and had numberous complaints against him. I had pretty much everyone on my side with that one. The asst princible went out of his way to get me switched. Schools in America are weird, lots of freedom. However, no order. Some classes get taken over like in Kodomo no Omocha. There are great teachers, weak teachers, and ass teachers. If you've watched Kodomo no Omocha you will get an idea of the kinds there are here. Lady Rin, your latest posts have been get my hopes up and then makeing them fall. I keep wondering what triumpant return post will Lady Rin arrive with, and its always I'm starting to feel weak and am going back to rest. Anyways get better, I am looking forward to when you get better and can post with us like always. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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Well I'm back, yes Rin I would say doing something like this while sick is probably not the best idea, it may be better for you to rest. Yes I'm finally back, not feeling better at all, I'm only feeling worse. I hate to say that I had to spend this whole week (including New Year's) in the hospital and it sucked horribly. It was so cold all the time, so boring and it was worse then being at home and not being able to sleep. They pumped drugs into me left and right so that I would sleep but I wouldn't sleep even on the strongest one, it only made things worse for me at night. I had several other problems while I was there. It seemed Rin and I had both caught strep. I had actually had it those two or so weeks ago when I first was sick, but it went away, but as my immune system got weaker the strep went into hybernation (or so the doctors say) and it came out when I couldn't fight it off. So I too had a high fever as well Rin, I know your pain. Thankfully I was in the hospital and they could deal with it properly. And even through the fever I still couldn't fall asleep, now I have to start seeing a therapist again and get some very strong sleeping pills (on top of the fifty some other pills I take) Not only did I catch the strep with the fever I ended up getting dehydrated and went into exhausted shock or something... I'm a rare case now. I had to have about 50 more tests done including one to make sure there was no threat of my lungs collapsing which that one scared the begeebies out of me, I didn't know that so much stress and stuff could cause my lungs to collapse (resulting in strangulation, not the way I wanted to go) They said that it wasn't common but they were worried because so much was coming on at once that they couldn't leave any test undone. But they also had to be careful about the amount of blood they drew (I think they said they ended up drawing too much, which was a big cause of my dehydration) Oh so much happened and I'm so exhausted. Sorry to make you guys worry Sero and Ketsuki and thanks so much for your concern. I really missed all of you guys. Rin-I'm so sorry you had to experience strep for the first time. Normally I get strep once a year, but then it stopped the year before they were going to take out my tonsells, but then it stopped, but now it's comming back again and I may have to have them removed. Normally it was nothing near as bad as that. I never really got high fevers this is the second time it's been that bad. I'm really sorry you had to go through it, and we'll recover together! This post is taking longer then I thought and I have to go back to the hospital for a check up of what ever they want to make sure I won't have a relapse. (I got back less then a day ago, I just couldn't post I was to exhausted)Sorry this post is a little late and I once again won't be back for a while. Jomunga sorry to hear about ur teacher troubles. I'd go into more detail about my own, but I don't have too much time left...(and my fingers are hurting for some odd reason) ROQ- Your name is Ruben huh? That's cool. My real name is nothing special, my name is Stefanie... nothing cool of special like urs. Welcome to the new depression thread members that have recently joined us. Ranger-Your such a wonderful husband,a nd I believe that you can feel lonliness when the person is standing right there. It shows how u truely love Rin... it's so wonderful, I hope to find someone who loves me like that... Ketsuki- So you've begun starting to tear the strings that are tying you to kitsu, I'm glad for you. It's sad but at the same time I know it's something you've wanted since we talked. I hope you are able to spread your wings someday!! Sero- Yes I was missing for a while, sorry if I scared you. Hope things are going well with Heather?! Well guys, happy new years (I know it's a little late) and Happy Bday Ranger (also late) I hope no one else get's sick, stay healthy guys!! Love, Angel
"Everyone has a photographic memory, some just don't have any film..." "Friends are the people who know everything about you and still put up with you!" "Nothing in life is free, even death costs us."
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@ Jomunga... i think that can be said about most areas... teachers are people, you get nice, bad and weird ones!not onli in America.. the world!! haahaha i will b a nice techer tho!!! promise!!! ^ ^ tho that is kinda why i joined this thread. I was feeling depressed about so many things and so naturaly my parents chose now to lecture me about changing my mind about a law degree and deciding i want to teach a second language.... i dont kno how 2 tell them that i actualli plan to teach English as a second language!!! i dont know how they will take it if i move to another country!!!!
hmmm... cant b stuffed making 1 at 10:30 pm... will do it laterz...
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~I know the feeling, 嬰 å…’ æ«» 桃 女 å© (babi_cherri_gurl) ~tear~ ... XD! As for me, I was only forced to take this course. but, I dunno. o.o; I'm beginning to like it, it's hella weird. ^_^; I wish you the best though! I do believe that teachers are very good persons! Without them, there would be nay doctors, engineers, computer technicians, lawyers (I actually said something like this in a thread...lol). And I hope that you'll be nice to your students, if that time comes. ~AnimeAngel27-san.. must be hard for yae. Your immune system is weakening, that's bad.. I mean, it's not good. You'll be vulnerable to even simpler sicknesses which might get complicated... and your in-take of too many pills, take note of the strongest ones mentioned, contributes to your stress. At least you're in the hospital, you're safer there. Don't lose hope, pray always! >.< I, together with my friends, will be praying for your good health as well. I also get strep throats, colds, flus, etc... But I don't take medicine, nor pills, any medications (they just make things worse for me!). I think I got used into using nothing, as in nothing. My body automatically recovers over 3-5 days, or even a week. I may be abormal or something. |
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allured_chaos, if you think that's abnormal, then that makes two of us. I'm not too much in favor of taking medicines for common colds or for food poisoning (if you're supposed to take anything). I just tend to leave it to rest and lots of warm healthy foods. Home-raised chickens and Korean cabbage and so on. AnimeAngel27, I'm glad to read your post to hear about what's happening. As with everyone. I hope everyone's health improves a bit everyday. I feel like doing a lot of housework today. The next semester doesn't start for me until next week and I got music appreciation, intro to linear algebra, chemistry, another math class after calculus, and a Japanese class for the first time! Don't forget: Some people say laughter is the best medicine! |
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@ Young Kai laughter may be the best medicene but i think it is also the care of the people hu tell the jokes! i mean if u think about it its easier to get better if those around you are comforting! weo thats my belief anywaiz! it onli took me 2 weeks to get better frm my operation! nd that is owed to all friend hu helped me thru it! but like i said maybe thats just me...
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Hello everyone, Happy Birthday Ranger, even though it's also belated... @Lady Rin, strep throat sucks, at least it's pretty much over. Here's to a speedy recovery! I myself have never had it, although I sat next to a guy in class for about one month who actually had it...I don't know how I didn't catch it myself. @AnimeAngel27, Stefanie is very nice name, I don't know why people like my name at all. I was named after my dad's dead best friend, Arnold Rubin. Thank you though, Rubin bows in appreciation. I hope your immune system strengthens as well. That's a very unfortunate thing for anyone to endure. At the very least, we're all here to support each other. Welcome back! @Sachiel, the screw attack is very cool, but I thought the last boss was much too simple. @Dirtyninja, great joke...so great... I pray everyone here gets better in one way or another. On the note of health, is the bird flu still a big deal? @Nightmare, at least it worked out in the end right? A 1.0 GB memory card is very useful, you're lucky. I know I'm forgetting something, but I have a lot of homework tonight so, see ya tomorrow everyone! I wish everyone the absolute best of luck! |
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Togther we Ranger and Rin Ranger Late afternoon sippin hot chocolate with tea for Rin. This has really knocked her down pretty hard. I read what the rest of you said about strep and I've had it but nowhere as near as hard as it hit Milady. FYI Strep throat is related to scarlet fever which was lethal up to about 100 years ago. Rin still has a hard time standing for long and she lost ~9lbs/4kgs in what, since Sunday night?, Mnnday morn? That's a lot for her since she only weighs between 95-100lb/45-48kg. She ate something earlier, Wendy's chicken soup, and has been doin alright since I got home as long as she doesnt move around or anything. So sittin on the couch it's me, then Rin on me and Mookie one very furry 20kg dog on top of Rin all watching Love Hina. Rukia, she's says she'll try to remember your name which is why she uses your avas when she talks to you. From me, Rin has a terrible time with names. Often she highlights your ava and that's what she uses. Hopefully she'll be doing better tomorrow. As much as I need a tour I don't want one but I won't know until I get my email tomorrow morning. Problem, we can't post and watch Love Hina at the same time. We just started watching the entire series for the 2nd time. I wouldn't expect to see much of her til sat. Angel you wrote, "Ranger-Your such a wonderful husband, and I believe that you can feel lonliness when the person is standing right there. It shows how u truely love Rin... it's so wonderful, I hope to find someone who loves me like that..." You need to read back Angel through a lot of older posts. It's much more than my love for Rin. I truly depend on her and I can't imagine life without her. That's all. I'm not kidding when I say if anything were to happen to Rin I would be devastated. I have a hard enough time coping since my crash to have to do it without Rin. Right now I am depressed with what's happened over the last couple of weeks and now with Rin sick. She's sleeping on me now quietly and she didn't last night. I'll get her up later and play dolly getting her a bath and into bed and hopefully she'll sleep tonight. She needs lots of rest roght now. I'm very concerned about how many times she's been really sick this year. Up until last year she worked for outdoors most of the time as a field geologist and almost never got sick, a cold maybe mild flu but now? Since she started teaching it seems she gets sick more often. |
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I lost 5.5lbs/2.5kg from strep then another 2.5lbs/1kg from food poisoning a week later. Defiantly not as bad as rin, but still I'm 6ft/2m tall 215lbs/97kg and felt horrible. To lose 3% of your body weight is tough, but 10% is damn near deadly. My mother used to be a teacher and she caught something every year, and with that she also developed short-term asthma from her allergies. So I know what teaching can do to a person's health, hanging around all those kids who come to school sick and spread sickness around. You know it's never the kids that it, it's always the teachers. If I've got'em might as well use 'em. Little Johnny was sitting in class doing math problems, when his teacher picked him to answer a question. Johnny, If there were five birds sitting on a fence and you shot one with your gun, How many would be left. ? None replied Johnny, because the rest would fly away. Well the answer is four, said the teacher. But I like the way you are thinking. Little Johnny says, I have a question for you now. If there were three women eating ice cream cones in a shop, one was licking her cone, the second was biting the cone and the third was sucking the cone, which one is married ? Well said the teacher nervously, I guess the one sucking the cone ! No, said Little Johnny, The one with the wedding ring on her finger, but I like the way your thinking. |
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Holy cow, Rin, I just realized how small you are. You always said that you were small, only 45-50 kg, etc., but then it hit me: you're only about 100 pounds. So you're shorter than me, weigh less than me... I can see why everyone calls you "cute" instead "hot" or "sexy" like you want them to ^_~ @ROQ: I almost died on the last boss, but then my brother said "Use your annihilator! It's the end of the game, use your ammo!" So, even though I didn't want to waste my ammo (which is no longer a problem, especially with my missiles ^_^;), I drained my ammo and used the annihilator, and it took like 1/4 of the boss's power in the time it took me to take 1/8 using ordinary methods... I never realized how tough that beast of a gun was O_o The music in that game isn't all that good, though. I though the first Metroid Prime had much better music. Earlier today I put on my Halo 2 music and listened to that instead of the game's music... One very bad thing about that game T.T It's still very cool, though. I don't get it, I eat nothing but soda, egg nog, chocolate milk, ramen, and other unhealthy odds and ends, and I get sick about once every two months, if even that. I will get sick for about a half-hour or so if I eat too much pringles or something, but it's never a high fever with all sorts of stuff with it. Well, once I drank tons of mountain dew for about a day straight, and had nothing else, not even food during that time... And then I collapsed on some dude's yard. Never happened again, though I think it was a lack of sleep, water, health, and suddenly exercising... It makes me wonder exactly how different everyone's bodies really are... @Angel: Whoa, you went through a lot of stuff. I hardly ever go to the doctor's... Hey, eventually you could go there and they'd say "You gonna go in your usual room?" ^_~ I think that's all I was gonna say... |
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ok, i apologize for just scanning through the posts, and this is the second time typing this so its gonna be shorter. i read good news, im glad you are feeling better rin, but take your time to get your strengths back. ranger, thanks for taking care of her the way you do, and i do mean it, cuz because of you two i think there is still some trace of hope in me. animeangel, i like your name, its nice, yeah, those strings are gone, all that is left is to say bye face to face. im sorry that you had to spend all that time in the hospital. i'll miss you while you are gone, but i hope you recover comepletely and come back soon. ROQ, thats a cool name. new people, welcome, and i apologize for not being of much conversation. everyone please take care. i feel so apathetic, and i would post more but i typed it all once and dont feel like doing it again. felt like this about 4 or 5 times before, but its still...i dont know... |
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To AnimeAngel, Things with Heather are over(I think i posted that in "what is love" thread, not too sure) it wasnt going anywhere, so it kinda died down. I am "over" her to say. I can sleep and do what i normally did before meeting her so its better. i hope we can be friends but I havnt heard from her and I dont know if I should try. Also, I wasnt able to give her the present, people are telling me I should keep it. And Stefanie is a good name, mine real name is Kyle. *sarcastic "WHOOPY!"* Anyways....its good that you are doing better. To Lady Rin and Ranger, It seems that things are going better. Hope that things are back to normal soon. Glad that its getting better. To dirtyninja, wow nice post, lol, I love that lol lol. To nightmare, You are lucky, wish I had a 1.0GB memory card.... To everyone, ahhem*clears throught* DONT FORGET TO SMILE ALWAYS ^_^ (thats right!!! Its back!!!!) 
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