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nope, i am still very deprssed, i do not think i will get over it any time soon... responses to... 1. i am a pessimist, so this is kinda hard 2. again, pessimist 3. yes, i have tried that...it doesn't work...i probibly mentiond it in the beginning...but 427 replys are alot to go through 4. it is possible, i never thought of it like that 5. i do not eat cerial 6. well, most of us live so far apart form one another...michiga, alabama, new york, new jersy, Utaw, Ranger and Rin are in California, and a few of you do not even live in the U.S. I would love to meet all of you, but i find it highly unlikly...maybe when we are older, but i dobut that as well 7. never seen it 8. and i am glad people come to my thread for help...anyone can come here anytime and get advice...and i have met alot of very important friends on Gendou...people that have helped me through quit alot. and i hope i have helped others as well. to be honist, i never thought this would be this successful, but i am glad it is!  |
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by S-a-c-h-i-e-l
on 2005-10-07 04:04:06
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Well... I was just wondering if all of the depressed people have gotten un-depressed. If they haven't, then I urge them to get over as quickly as possible... But now, it's time for my "nuggets of wisdom" ^_^ 1. Depression does not come entirely from these big things, like child abuse or stuff like that. Yes, those things are a big help, but also, saying "I don't care" and "Anything's fine" will have different results mentally. So, just a little pointer, instead of talking about how you don't care about stuff, reform that to a less negative sentence, and see if that helps. 2. Life is not torture, nor is it paradise. It's only what you make it out to be. If you always tell yourself that it's horrible, then you'll notice the bad things more than the good things, resulting in more depression. Likewise, by telling yourself that life is good, people's insults will be less important, you running out of cereal won't be so traumatic, and so forth. 3. Nightmare, concerning your parents, have you tried going along with all of their restrictions and being as pleasant as possible when they say that you can't go to the store? It's possible you have, and I just missed it, or you haven't said anything about it... 4. This might just be a coincidence, but both the gothic people have restricive parents, so maybe that's partly why they're so protective... maybe, maybe not, I don't know any goths so I'm not sure. 5. I like Captain Crunch when it's soggy ^_^ 6. Everyone on this thread says that they want less slutty people in their life... so... have the people on this thread get hooked up ^_^ ....or maybe the age difference is too great or something like that, and I just don't know. 7. Eh-hem, this is not related to depression or anything said on this thread whatsoever, but I'm a little confused with the story and some other things on Tales of Symphonia... Which is, by the way, good for some kinds of depression (for me, at least). Like, genis and Raine are half-elves, right? If so, then why do they try to act like elves? Anyway, I might be able to of help on other ToS things, so if anyone here knows ToS well, let me know... 8. One reason why this thread is so popular is possibly because nearly everyone has some problems with depression, so everyone comes looking for help. Just throwing out some stuff, if anyone has any questions and/or comments about this post, let me know... Of course, you probably would if I didn't tell you to, I just needed a closing ^_^  |
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by luciolahexns
on 2005-10-06 23:07:52
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Oh yes, it can be soggy. Mine is, right now... it doesn't take long. Exactly that happened to me.  Diciples of the Greyhound |
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I didn't know Captain Crunch could get soggy. I thought I loved a girl once. Turned out I wanted to feel needed so I overlooked all of the things she did that drove me nuts. Once I got into a relationship with her I was constantly asking myself what I was doing and ultimately we broke up because I was really starting to hate her just for being herself and that was wrong. Well, that and she was always trying to change me into someone I couldn't be.  Good? Bad? I'm the guy with the gun. - Ash, Army of Darkness |
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by luciolahexns
on 2005-10-06 22:14:48
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I used to feel like that about a person, and then I (we) acted on it. It turns out, I hated that person more than life itself. I just didn't know... it is possible to confuse the two emotions. Not that I'm trying to rain on your parade, but I'm particularly depressed right now!! And NOTHING is worse than soggy Captain Crunch :( :( :( Diciples of the Greyhound |
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everything worked out fine. we are friends again. just like it was before (i wish it was true). on my part its not the same, i want her more and more every day. we talked like we always used to. but everytime she says she will leave, its like i've been shoot right in my chest (dont really know if that's what i feel cuz i never been shot.)but there is nothing i can do, so i just take the pain. engineer, good luck, hope things work out for you. just ask her out and get it over with cuz the longer you take, the more you will hurt. “How could you simply be friends with someone when every time you look at them, all you think about is how much more you want them?" Would you go for someone who loves you but for you she's only a friend or would you rather go for someone you love but for her you're only a friend? "I sit here and i start to cry, Since the day has come to say good-bye. I loved you so much you just don't know, I'm holding back so my feelings don't show. Think of the times we spent together, My love for you had no measure. I try not to think of the love i've lost, Cuz i know my life will be the cost. So i sit here with a knife to my wrist, All because my life took a big twist. You said you would never leave, but that was a lie, So now my dear, i'm going to die. You tore my broken heart, Now forever we will be apart. Buried six feet underground All for a love i thought i found." |
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well i am having a great day! my cloak is finished and i got my class ring today. AND I GOT TO SEE ALYSSA! just wanted to say that i am going to be camping for the weekend...so i will be back on sunday! |
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Thanks
Wise Man says: "Take a dog off its leash and it will wander."
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by zparticus27
on 2005-10-05 22:47:34
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just stay cool and be yourself(although its easier said than done) just remember how you felt during the days when you two were together... |
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by luciolahexns
on 2005-10-05 22:29:05
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I hate relationships!! :D That is the best thing I can ever do!! Hate them! With a passion! Diciples of the Greyhound |
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Maybe could start with a simple, "How was your summer?" Just be aware that the answer may not be positive or anything you'd like to hear. Good? Bad? I'm the guy with the gun. - Ash, Army of Darkness |
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by night_link
on 2005-10-05 21:22:45
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| Don't try to pressure her in askig what is wrong and all that and sound aggressive. Just ask her if there's anything wrong. Does she seem to avoid talking to you specifically or to everyone? |
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I'm depressed because I can't seem to speak to the girl that I like. Last year I sat beside her in French class and we had a great time, and it was obvious that she was attracted to me as well. But after spending a summer away from her (she lives in a garbage town 86km away), I just can't seem to utter a word to her, and she seems to be avoiding talking to me as well. I mean, like..... what should I say?
Wise Man says: "Take a dog off its leash and it will wander."
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by zparticus27
on 2005-10-05 20:24:22
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nightmare: sorry bout that kinda forgot.. but its good to hear that your optimistic about your situation... Ketsuki: man wat i meant wid your "girl" is the Girl your talking about... man show some back bone men dont whine...things will work out just dont act as if the end of the world is near..cheer up! |
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i whine to much. im stupid. i lost her. all thanks to my stupidity. i couldnt stop myself from rambling about how i felt. i probably didnt even make sense. i hate me. |
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ya, hey, im still here, for now...sorry to make you worry chick- yasha...(wait, i already expalind this to you...) ketsuki: i am glad everything worked out! zparticus: actually its like a 75%...the truth is, on one has gotten an A from my english teacher for nearly 3 years...he is one of thoes "learn it yourslef" teachers that critisises us when we screw up. That is NO way to teach...i do not care who you are. but hey, maybe i MIGHT be able to bring it up to a B-...then they would still yell at me, but maybe they wouldn't punish me so hard...Maybe and ya, im a guy...why else would i be wanting a GIRLfriend? jomunga: um...no...i think that would make things worse... Shiriu: believe me, i have tried...they just will not trust me...they will not give me the chance to prove that i can be trusted...they are NOT bad people...they just want to controle me...they need to learn that i am my own man...that i need to run my own life... |
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| To tell you the truth, I dont think nightmare's parents arent that bad. They are a mix of overprotective parents and it seems that they cant trust others. I think that the best is to do is to gain their trust, after that they will probably give some more freedom. |
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I really think its time for nightmare to go berserk, or show up with a report card of strait D minuses. Hes gotta do something. I wouldnt even stand for the sligtest punishment, the only things my parents can do is reward me for just behaving normal. I wonder what would happen if Nightmare and I swapped parents...  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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by Chick-yasha
on 2005-09-30 21:49:53
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I got a hold of Nightmare This are fine right now
Never date a guy stranger than you. If so, make sure he's loaded.
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i did something stupid. if you all want to know what i told kitsu-chan ill post it tomorrow. g2g. gots work tomorrow |