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| *uber awesum huggies* adeline , hikky , doreamon n asd ~^^ ur advices really helps !! im so touched , i thougt no one would care bout wad i posted in te first place ... T_T erm..*embarresed* can sumone help my phobia of spirits n ghosts... omg tat reminds me of mio.. she scared me n kashi outta our pants yesterday..zomg.. she was saying things like (its all dark in te house n no ones around n its midnight) "dont look back ... n kashi said there was a spirit sleeping in te art room n mio said (in grey ,mysterious colous) "dunt touch anything in tat room kashi..." n " innocent souls..why must they die.." tat really freaked me out . i could hear my heart thumping in my ears..zomg zomg zomg...T_T helpppp...*didnt dare to look back* |
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on 2007-11-22 01:38:35 |
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Yuki you don't have to be scare usually we think that there are ghost and spirits and I know how's that like cus I've been home alone in the house no lights not even a flash light to make me feel safe it's just that we're afraid to be alone and we make up things that we wanna see. 
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Um,Im a big fans of School rumble. Later on, School rumble season 2 comes out, and my cousin asked me to watch it together at his house, and i slept over for couple's of day, watching about love anime. The thing is, there this character name "Yakumo ( School Rumble) which was lovely, and attracted my feeling towards her. Now, when i return back to my home, my heart can stop beating thinking of "Yakumo, I've wished that she really do exist, and somehow my desire to go to Japan increase. It's been the third day, i kept thinking about it, people kept saying, an animation is not real, but my heart still beating hard! so whenever i take a bath, i would cry. How do i overcome this feeling? it hurts!! I felt like dying! |
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on 2007-11-22 03:22:15 |
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Hmm..Im new to this thread...And I find it quite Interesting.Its cool to give advise to people who need it.So Ill post when I can here.I dont know if my advise will help but Ill post it all the same if its to help other people. OyK PoPo-I Know how you feel...Coze we share the same problem..haha..I also wish Yakumo was a real person.But if she was then there'd be a lot of people I know who would want to have a relationship with her. But think of it this way.If Yakumo was real and turned you down and you felt life dying how do you think she would feel? Well The best advise can give you for now is just try and find the one that will make your world brighter and move on.Im not saying you should leave your feelings behind for the character Yakumo.Just dont over do it.If you do want to show your appreciation for Yakumo all you have to do is go to a Yakumo Fan web site and keep her ratings up.That way she'd be on top and be happy. Again I dont know if the advise I give are good but hey..I give and take advise from other people and just pass it on other people I know who had the same problem as I had.  |
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| heh, i thought i was the only person who react like this, perhaps i'd over do it.Oh man, now i've wished i hadnt watch it in the first place, how the hell did the creator has such idea's of creating such perfect personality!! . Thanks to your advice, i'd tried to washes away "Yakumo, and just kept admiring Japan. |
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on 2007-11-22 06:51:27 |
| Dearest oyk popo ... i had te same problem as u ...^^ i fell for Fay frm tsubasa n was madly in love with him for bout 2 yrs..i would write his name on my hand..everyday , doodle his name on my homework..lol ..n would yak yak yak to my frens bout him all day...im always dreaming bout him correction. daydreaming. n was spotted by te teacha once...(k i dowana tell u wad happened) it really got me in trouble..haha |
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by melanie1993
on 2007-11-22 07:50:41
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...i have a bad habit...some people might think it's really serious.i used to cut myself when i'm sad...now i thought that i woudln't do it...but when i'm sad there's like someone in side of me keep telling me to cut myself...when i'm sad my personality competely change...how can i change this bad habit?  |
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on 2007-11-22 08:08:06 |
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dear mel, overcome te sumone ! take tat as a challenge dear , scars dont look good ~!! signing off , idiotic yuki...haiz.. |
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by melanie1993
on 2007-11-22 08:32:46
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thanks for the advise,yukimi^^u'r the best,i love u!!!^-^ |
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I do get depressed very often. I cry my eys out, feel like screaming and ripping my heart out of my hest just to stop the hurt from coming. I know I'll get over it and I know the pain will take some time to go away, but I always remember that there is always something to reach for in life, whether you've already found it or if you won't find it for another several years. But that doesn't mean to lose hope, so always remember, you can reach the light at the end of the tunnel of hurt, but are you willing to reach for it is the question you must ask yourself before you make that journey. I know I am.  |
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asdertygh, You will have to remain focused on your success. Don't worry about the rest of the class. The really bad thing about your situation is that the teacher has already made up their mind about your class. The differences may not matter if you improve more to that teacher because the teacher will remain unsatisfied with your class regardless of how you improve. If your teacher is too ignorant to acknowledge the changes you are striving to make, then that makes your teacher a bad teacher. If your teacher's insults matter that much to you, then the only real chance you may have is to try and get a transfer to another class. Your situation can not improve with you staying in a class full of disruptive students especially combined with a teacher that has already given up on you. If transering is not an option, then do your best to succeed despite your idiotic teacher. Sometimes success is the best revenge.  Good? Bad? I'm the guy with the gun. - Ash, Army of Darkness |
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it's a human nature to be depressed especially at the stage of adolescence. we get mood swings and when things don't go our way, well we think that life is already unfair. having problems doesn't mean it'll break you apart. instead, it tests your patient and teach you to be strong. giving up is not the right way at all. let me put it in another situation. let say you're interested in gaming. and there's this game you play until the last stage. somehow in the middle of the battle, your character keeps on dying. if you give up, you'll never get to the end and you won't know what stores for you in the end. if you keep on trying, wont you be learning something? like you should change your moves etc and try until you win. that applies to the real life too. trying but not giving up |
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@Doraemon: Not that I really care about what they say about me/my class, it's just that I'm sick of being yelled at every single day. But, thanks for the advice. :) @clay: Um, I thought this thread is a place where you post your depression problems and/or give advice for people's problems, and not a philosophical thread about "depression" itself?   |
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@clay: Games? if i cant beat the final boss, i would just turn on the cheats "God mode. Haha. Um,is japanese school really that nice? as shown in most anime, japanese school include various facilities such as swimming pool! and the student there really love to send love letter, having girls fan++ (Yakumo fans!!)? During new year, walking together to "temple fair.. hot bath.. snow.. *(my country doesnt have snow! it burns my heart to ashes! *&^% Curse you!!). I've watched some video in YouTube about a student showing around his school, every single student are nice! even student from other classes can be chat easily.(At my school, it's difficult to say hello to just anyone, Crap! ) So.. i need to know if the school life in Japan really are the same just like in anime "without magical powers of course!.Furthermore, i do felt like killing myself, and born back at Japan!! as told by @clay, yes i do felt unfair! i envy japanese student very much,but at the same time, i admire them. The thing is,I need help on how to erase this feeling towards Japan, the school.. *Btw, who here have the same wishes to go to Japan? or already living there. |
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on 2007-11-24 06:10:05 |
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@mel : omg. dunch cut urself! blood loss leads to death! and scars! @yuki well, abotu ghosts and stuffs. live wif it i guess. sure they exist, but if u dun find fault wif them , they wont find fault wif you.   |
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OyK PoPo, I used to live in Japan when I was little and you're only seeing the really nice side to living in Japan. There are benefits and drawbacks to living there too. Not everyone is nice. In fact some people are meaner than any American I have ever encountered. I am sure there are just as many douchebags there as there are in schools here. Still doesn't stop me from planning to visit there again one day. asdertygh, Yeah it would still suck to have to deal with those people day in and day out but you'll get through it. Good? Bad? I'm the guy with the gun. - Ash, Army of Darkness |
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by melanie1993
on 2007-11-24 18:48:48
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yat,i know that cuting myself might be dangerous...after i cut myself i feel a bit dizzy n my hands feel cold...now i'm trying to overcome it...i hope that i won't cut myself again...i try to stay positive...n i dun want anyone to worry about me too much... |
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on 2007-11-26 18:49:45 |
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LONG TIME! WOOT! WOOT! hahaha. ^^ umnnn.. who's cutting him/her self? dude when i was at my breaking point i tried the suicide coctail a bottle of vodca + a bowl of the strongest meds you can get your hands on! man was i *u*k*d up! i'm still suffering from chronic depression but i'm still here.. dude/sis if yah feel like cutting yourself there are alternatives.. (not drugs!) screaming for one! helps a lot! exercise is good specialy boxing! cutting is no good it leaves ugly scars wich you'll regret in the future wich would only cause more depresion! to the kid having a parent problem: i feel your pain my parent have the usual routine of fighting whenever my exams are nearing so i'm always pissed with them, true we have no say in it since its their problem and only they can resolve it... so always keep in mind deep inside a part of you doesn't want them to separate no matter how much you hate em, the reason they fight is coz they still love each other very much, thats why they fight to solve the problem... once the fighting stops, the love ends... they have given up and the relationship ends... and to everyone suffering the same depression problem as mine... when you finnaly reach your limit and start feeling like this life aint worth it... CALL A FRIEND! or PM me! here's my e-mail solemn_promise_kai@yahoo.com don't do something you'll regret later on! speak to someone and let the pain out! don't keep it boiling in! <(^_^)> dats oll! ^^ |
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by letsjustsayivan
on 2007-11-26 19:23:12 |
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i lended a book from my friend i aways forget to bring it to school and give him back now im going to a new school i cant see him anymore... i feel so bad pls forgive me!  |
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on 2007-11-27 11:27:31 |
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letsjustsayivan: well~do you have your friend's address?you can try to mail the book back to him or her~i think the person would appreciate it~(unless you want the book yourself..then im speechless) |