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by overlordsero
on 2006-02-25 18:33:45
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Well I have gendou and the people here.... Not many friends in real though.... just one very good friend. And to answer why get married and have kids... well...mainly love I guess....and to pass on what you know to them and hope they can make a better future. There are good things in life.....we just need to see that they are there. 
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Thanks dirty ninja for your comment. The songs were kind of ok. But the stuff Im really into is all out instrumental. Like the songs grief and sorrow, hinata vs neji, and sadness and sorrow. As for Sero, yeah Gendou and everyone here really is helping quite a lot :P I guess we owe a big thanks to everyone. And for getting married and having kids. I don't like babies very much. And from what my parents are acting, marriage isn't all that great. It mainly consists of fights and anger. I'd rather avoid all that. Plus I'm not much of a social person. I'd much rather prefer living with a whole bunch of cats than a whole bunch of people. At least you cant argue with cats :P Their meaow can mean anything from "yes I love you" to "I wish you eternal agony" :) |
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im really tired AND i have a game agenst sachiel in an hour...  |
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I'm glad for Gendou, and I got the chance to have some good fun for once online. As for being married, I'm saving myself for that special someone, and I know without a single doubt I'll find her, and I'll definantly want kids so something of myself will live on after I'm gone. Look at me, I'm getting all sappy. I'm gonna go to the arena and deal with Kotuso...  |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-02-25 19:28:46
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ibi001000, how do you know that marriage is not great?? There are many different marriages out there, so to say that it isnt great...well...that is not true. I know that it is possible to have a good marriage.... and it seems they are rare these days....makes me want one even more... anyways we all have opinions ^_^ oh nd I got this on a quiz: Venus - The planet of love and emotion, your power is of the people, you have a special way with words and can earn anyones trust, along with their hearts. Your world focus's really around love and relationships. You value your friendship so so much, the world needs more people like you. Your the type no never hold a grudge and when you get mad, you really cant stay mad that long cause to love is to forgive.
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Sero I am glad you werent trying to sound happy when typing that. I think there are times when it is appropriate to stop smiling. I got the darkness thing too. There are much better tests out there. This one was like 6 questions, not very good. I special charm is a scarab. heh heh heh. Ibi! I was you until I found something I wanted out of life. I want love, that is why I am still alive talking on this thread. Right now I feel like I am talking to my past self. I have so much to say that I dont know where to start. Email me or get on msn messenger, I will help. For know just do a lot of thinking. Trust me thinking can make or break depression. Try to argue with yourself if you are depressed. Don't be one sided in your thoughs try to argue both sides. I would say don't bother with marriage unless you are in love. Try finding out what love is, it could give life reason even if you don't got it. I have 5 cats. Yes I would say they are more fun than most people. However cats are really just pets, they will never be more. I suggest finding yourself a catgirl girlfriend, there are the best of both worlds. gendou was really slow today and it is dinner time now.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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by S-a-c-h-i-e-l
on 2006-02-25 22:18:16
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To be honest, I don't want someone to love and cherish and such, really. I jsut want to do something in life to make me remembered. Like... I dunno, but something awesome XD Ibi001000 or whatever, you wannt know something I found out when I was like you a year or so ago? Nothing's gonna change if you sit there trying to find out when it's gonna happen. You control your future, you control when it's going to happen, and no one can do anything to stop that. So, all you have to do is take charge and do something; whether it's simple play video games until you die or if it's change the world, do it. See, I used to be like Nightmare, Ketsuki, you, and everyone else that's depressed. Now I'm like XD All it takes is willpower. If you have the will to change, something will change. Other things I found out while searching my way out of depression: Although life is cruel and uncaring, people aren't. I was always worried that people would just laugh at me if I'd ask for help, but people think differently (very much so) than computers, and they act (uber very much so) than computers. So you see, it's much easier than I thought XD And although life is cruel and uncaring, that doesn't mean it stinks. It's no more than what you make it out to be; after I thought of that idea, I realized it's very true XD Well, I had to go so this reply may be late, and I forgot the rest of what I was gonna say, but oh well ^_^  |
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oh my..Sero.i never knew that i'd go back and heard that you were kicked out.im gonna miss the happy-always-sero!im so sorry to hear that. i hope things will work out for you.i really do..i'd like to help but i'm like, thousand miles away from you T_T. i'll just pray for you then, its all i can doT_T. love..yeah it can heal depression..turning and confiding to someone you love will make you a LOT better..well, it works for me..its like sharing your laughs and tears with someone you love(not necessarily gf/bf) really helps..findingtrue love IS hard,its like a quote i read somewhere..'you've got to try on lots of volkswagen before you can drive a porsche' oh, i better stop now, i can talk about love for days..^_^; what sachiel had said is very true..you have to take control of your own destiny..God cant change our fates, we can, all the things we have to do or we want to do lie in our hands..no one can change our lives except our own selves. *edits : sorry if im talking craps...things are all mixed up in my mind right now, so i just typed what came first!^_^; |
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on 2006-02-26 07:18:01 (edited 2006-02-26 07:18:24)
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just one question,sero:are you able to get a place to crash for the time being?if i live nearby i could let you sleep in my room but i live halfway around the globe... destiny...i wonder how we can control our destiny?i've always been going with the flow so i'm not sure how |
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SERO thank you for helping me in the past, I love you like a brother, eventhough I have nerver seen your face, and probly never will. SINCE I live in NASSAU BAHAMAS, I wish and pray the best for you, PRAY that inspite of this you will continue your studees at collage. KEEP the fate and stay stronge my never seen brother.
a. bai
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we can control our destiny by our acts..as in, which road will you take?your choice may change your entire life..even a simple thing you do can change your life..i think its all about organizing things and making the wise decision in your life..yeah, you can fail sometimes but for me mistakes that we made make our life beautiful..you can learn from that and its like adding a little spice in your life..(oh gosh..what am i saying?just ignore it if it doesnt make sense or just ask me!^_^;) so i think thats how you control your own destiny..yeah, i know that our fates are in the hand of god, but we are the one who choose the path that we should take..we make the decisions, not god. |
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i cant believe i missed that marrage thing... as most of you already know, it is my dream to have an kind, loving wife, to hold her and cherish her and protect her...it is one of the few reasons why i keep living. but, from what i've seen of the girls my age, ive lost alot of hope of ever finding her...every night, i pray that if God finds me worthy to have a wife someday, that He will protect her for me until i meet her. as for children, i like children. i would like to have one or two kids...especially a daughter, little girls are just so cute! but here again, i look at all these young girls having sex and getting desieses and pregnant too early in their lives....it makes me wonder that, if i God does let me have a wife, will she even be able to bear children? ive alwayse said that women have a special gift, the ability to give life. and i've alwayse thought that if that gift was taken away from them, it is the ultimate wound for them.... again, angleyuki....i LOVE colide! |
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nightmare, sorry but im kinda blur at this time.but what does that 'colide' mean? btw, you misspelled angel..heheh |
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by S-a-c-h-i-e-l
on 2006-02-26 09:30:57
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Angel Yuki! Thou hast been off for quite some time (not as long as Ketsuki or AnimeAngel, though... Wherefore art thou and thou?), glad to see you! Nightmare, as much as it pains me to say this, even though you probably know, you might not get a girlfriend until you're 20 or 30... So I'd not put your whole life on it right now. Because if you do find one you love, yet she couldn't care less about, then that might crush you so hard that you snap (snap = death). I can't control your life, nor do I know when anything in your life will happen, so just go with what you feel. PS: See, Taishi, only click on "post reply" once XD |
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colide?what's that? i'm still not sure about this thing called 'destiny' but i should try doing something for myself... found this game which made me laugh(and felt a little better) after an incident.i was a little pissed off(and a little embarassed) for awhile when someone mistook me for a girl and pointed me to the ladies when i was entering the gents(felt like asking if he was blind >:{ ) nanaca this game is quite funny.let's see who can kick that dude's butt the furthest^^ |
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on 2006-02-26 10:31:44 (edited 2006-02-26 13:05:19)
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Jomunga, who doesn't love cats. They're cooler than dogs for the fact that they won't bark at bag in your lawn all day. Then again dogs don't try to eat your head every few days, but they also don't have the greatest stress relief ever(fuzz therapy). Sachiel I belive you have the "Gendou Ikari" vision of life(the chracter from EVA, not the "character" we all know). If you know where I'm going with this, wow you're perceptive. Anyway, he is cruel and uncaring but he doesn't smell bad. As far as I know, never personaly smelled him but I assume he takes showers(applies to both Iakari and our beloved over-lord). Well in anycase, never thought you could compare chracters from EVA to views of life. Ok so what if every chrarter in EVA represents a view on life. EVA is the Lord of the Flies of anime. It has so much symbology in it that you can never get all of it in one or even 5 viewings. Where have they been anyway, Angel I can understand not being on for a while(that whole needing an A average to graduate thing), but I wonder what happend to ketsuki. Nighmare, don't wory I have faith that you'll get a girlfriend before you turn 20. I had one there's no reason for you not to have one. One thing you have to realize is that more than often they find you not the other way around. Although, the door does swing both ways just it doesn't revolve. You'll have no trouble finding someone who you love, just be you for a while. ケイ, 500.23m: 2 boosts and a stop so it could've gone further. Of course the one before that was about 10, horrible. Edit: scratch that I just shatterd that record, 823.76m stupid stops, I can't read the instructions so this is harder than I thought it would be. Edit again: Ok this is a huge improvement, ready, I just got 9108.04m, I learednd how to use the aeral hits, I now hit 3000 consistantly. |
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Hello everyone! Hope everything's okay! @Nightmare, I can see you are a total helpless romantic, that's a nice trait. However, as DNinja so eloquently put it, don't obsess over it and expect it randomly. Really randomly, hell, I met my girlfriend on Gendou's! Love is...interesting...actually, another thing should be considered. We both know how...disappointing the girls in our area are. So in remedy to this, set your expectations low...very very low... very very very low...like so low, you can't even realize that you ever had any. People aren't perfect after all, it's better to be surprised by a near-perfect person with a few minor (or even major) flaws than to search forever for a nonexistent perfect partner. As for children, it's a scary world, it'll just get scarier. Fathers must protect their children from the things they went through. And yes, the inability to give birth is a serious blow to any woman. Natural instinct is proof of this. Watch Kill Bill, it sums this entire thing up perfectly. @ケイ and Angel, Collide is a band that's sorta like Evanescence. They're really good, google them if you're curious. Well, I've been busy lately, my friends wanted me to draw a manga for them. I don't mind doing it at all, the problem is, they're all perverts. Everytime I draw a girl, they ask for "bigger". It gets...tiring. ^_^ If anyone's interested, the manga's about the Grim Reaper, who grows too old to continue reaping. he hires 8 replacements who continue his work. Hilarity and dark humor ensue. ^_^ Oh well, see ya guys. |
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*waves hi to sachiel*^_^ so, collide is band then, i wonder why he/she kept telling me he/she loves that band i'd like to talk about love to you guys but i've got a class in an hour and i have to get ready!T_T |
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Woah, thanks for all the replies people :P I don't know what to say, but your words actually helped. And I'm not just saying that to please you guys and get you all self-confident :P NO IT ACTUALLY HELPED! I guess I'll try to deal with this for the time being. As for love, well I don't think I'm much of a love kind of person, I've given up on it last year. I think I only ever truly loved my cat. Argh I just watched the 6th day (about cloning humans/animals). I wish I could clone my Sassie. But I think I'll probably just adopt another cat. or maybe two. or maybe a dozen. :P ONCE AGAIN, THANK YOU GUYS! ESPECIALLY DIRTY AND SERO AND TAISHI AND JOMUNGA AND SACHIEL AND ANYONE I FORGOT, YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU! |
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 You're welcome, we do what we can where we can, sometimes a little more. Man typing with one hand is tough. I should get used to it especilay since my cat likes my new flece blanket. Roq, I don't think nighmare is helpless but he is definately a romantic. I always set my expectations low, that ways Im always happy and suprised when things that are overly-good happen. Be gald they haven't asked you to draw antyhing to bad yet. I've had freinds ask other friends for just that. Be careful what favors you go for you could end up drwing something like this.  All I'm saying is be care ful and don't draw anything you'll regret when your kids find it on the internet. |