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What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-04 13:10:08 (edited 2006-02-04 13:10:53)
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I create a topic on relationships and I log on to find it locked. I don't know what the conflict Gendou is talking about. So I am going to try again. This is about relationships, what makes them work and why they don't. If you are arguing among each other then go to Critics bar. Right now my relationship is strained. We are all under a lot of stress here. Not knowing what is going to happen, fighting and conflict are what drive people apart. I do not like conflict in my life and usually do anything I can to avoid it. However this week there has been conflict in our business, conflict with the park service, Ranger my friends online and off and now here in a topic where there is supposed to be none. Please continue,do not fight.  |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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by overlordsero
on 2006-02-04 13:21:38 (edited 2006-02-04 13:22:44)
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I was shocked to see it closed. There will be conflict in anything....however.... what you do after.... that is important. i believe that after each conflict we "complete" makes us stonger in some sense. I have already made Tinna feel bad.... but we got over that and our relationship is even stronger because of it. 
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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by desertranger
on 2006-02-04 18:17:05 (edited 2006-02-06 09:45:45)
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Togther we Ranger and Rin Ranger And we are together tonight. Close together, perhaps for the first time is several weeks. What makes or breaks a relationship? Right now I can tell you. The strength of one when the other is weak. I have been weak. That's the problem when you're a nutcase and insane. For the last three weeks I have been going crazy over the events Rin's written about and I really had little or no control. It was Milady who was able to keep me from going over the edge until yesterday when I totally lost it. That's when I went to the ladders in Pipes canyon. It was Milady who was here when I returned today, she didn't go anywhere and was outside in the drive when I stopped. Easily I could see she had been crying, probaby all night. But she came out to the truck and gave me a hugs and kisses got me into the house and made sure I was alright before chewing my ass out. She's done that a lot over the years usually when I've been injured or do something stupid. Each time I promise to try and do better and that reminds me I'm not supposed to upset her because she is Rin and in the end that's all that really matters. I've been saying that to her since I woke up. Rin say's I said it in my sleep. Right now it needs to be said here, plainly and simply without gloss and fanfare with all the meaning I can put into it.  |
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I think as long as both sides still want the relationship it can always be fixed. Usually an apology can end the biggist arguments.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-05 00:40:50 (edited 2006-02-05 00:40:59)
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*prays for rin and ranger* 
'Que sera, sera, Whatever will be, will be The future's not ours to see,Que sera, sera' |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-05 06:00:18 |
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I don't think he insults you Backbeat. I also think he is saying that the same way he tells is brother or friends when they are playing around and it is nothing personal. I just asked him what he meant and why he said it. Ranger I apologize Backbeat, there was no intent to insult you. If I disagree with you, well I do, can't help that and there's nothing personal in that either, I just disagree. /Ranger He can be very disagreeable. Especially when it comes to the 'L' word. It is also something I hear many times a day. So how do I express to you that I love hearing him say, "I love you". How do I or Ranger for that matter express our love to each other verbally without using the'L' word. Four letters in one simple word has caused wars, created peace and joy. Your stance on the word Love started a war. You may not have meant to and he may not have meant to respond that way only he did and that's how wars start; through misunderstanding. Do you really want to fight over love? |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-05 09:32:42
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yep, i agree with lady rin... he didn't insult you, backbeat... he was telling you his opinions... you have your own opinions, too... don't feel insulted, backbeat!!! you have great thoughts!!! |
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GREAT thoughts indeed backbeat, you are very wise.
a. bai
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-05 10:29:20 |
I was wondering: what do you guys define as a soul mate, someone eho you can connect with or something different. In my opinion there are two definitions.
I'm interested in your responses to that; i have a feeling that they will be radicaly different. |
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| If yo ask me,soul mates are annoying. They are always in yo biznas and keep on gettin my grille about things that don't matter. The problem in best friend style soul mates is that they care too much. |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-05 16:08:29 |
I agree with Kotuso. Soulmates are somehow kind of annoying.  Cardcaptor Sakura: Blooming Days!: Dreams and Fantasies Becomes A Reality |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-05 16:24:16 |
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@ all - well, just remember that all of us here comes from different part of the world and if i do reacted that way i'm sorry to... "what is good for you may not be good for me and what is good for me may not be good for you". anyway, i'm just so piss off the other day going to the doctor again so i might have lose a little temper... i'm cool now though... 
“I am the wisest man alive, for I know one thing, and that is that I know nothing.†|
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-05 16:51:52 |
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The definition of a soulmate is a person temperamentally suited to another. Ranger and I are soulmates. |
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I'll tell you what I think a soulmate is when I find one. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-06 04:56:28
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| i really don't know what a soulmate is... |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-06 06:56:11 |
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i had a friend,we called each other foul names when we see each other and keep arguing over small things,but we're always smiling while fighting,i wonder if he is a soulmate of mine........
'Que sera, sera, Whatever will be, will be The future's not ours to see,Que sera, sera' |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-06 10:04:05
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hmm... are you a girl, yaiba??? do you think about him 24/7??? i really don't know...sorry....... |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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by overlordsero
on 2006-02-06 12:09:44 (edited 2006-02-06 12:10:33)
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Soulmate is someone were you can spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH. wether it be for love or just with a friend. Like me: I have a really good friend, you could say that we maybe soulmates, but he is a guy. We also call eachother names, which I can not say for fear of being banned...LOL, so it is not in the love aspect. Love aspect would be who you would like to spend your life with every sinlge day, hehehehe....you could say I have a soulmate in this aspect too. anyways I that is what I think at least. ^_^
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-06 13:17:26
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OHH...i get it now...thanks sero, for telling me... then i guess i have a soulmate, too...hehehe |
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Re: What about relationships - Redux (reopened)
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on 2006-02-06 18:52:42 |
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Well as I thought, varried responses, kotuso always the unconformist. Although cutie-chan(guy) is keeping your individualality down, kotuso, looks like you may have an ally. I would like to formally stae that your soulmate is someone who you could watch a peelander-z music video with you and not walk out of the room. Watch one and you'll see what I mean Patience is a virtue sero, then again so is knowing what you want and getting it. Not that I'm one to criticise; I have my share of imnpatience, but I have a 5" scar to remind me of that. |
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