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What catches you?
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Ok, this is gonna raise a few eyebrows I think but the question is specifically for guys here. When you are checking a chick out at school or in other public places, what catchs your attention first? Her face? chest? body in general? Well, for me, the face sure is one of them. But somehow, legs are what catchs my attention. Kinda weird but I cant help it when a nice looking chick has long slender legs. Ok, i sound like a pervert now so I'll stop here, let me know your opinion. And no, i'm not a superficial guy but hey physical appearances is what you see first thing right? |
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Physically, a pretty face, long hair, and an hourglass figure. But for me the main thing is personality.  |
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ok... so I'm a female but when I see girls, the first thing I notice is their hair or eyes... 
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a smile!
Veni, Vidi, Vici.
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I just check clothes and expression to see what kinda girl she is.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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Is it wrong or weird if a girl got a crush on another girl? Just asking, Im a straight one... I first notice the outfit then the face...
smile smile...
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Just my opinion, but I think that's totally wrong. I fully expect to be flamed for saying this... |
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just curious but why is it wrong? What is more acceptable, a girl falling in love in another girl or a guy falling in love to a man...? -both are unacceptable hehehe...
smile smile...
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by H e l l o Disease
on 2005-09-11 00:52:21
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I don't think it's strange or weird if a girl has a crush on another girl... A lot of my friends are bi and I'm pretty sure that i'm also bi. ^^ So it's perfectly normal stuff to me. Anyways. I'm a girl and I usually notice hair and eyes first. ^^ I care most about personality though. And oldcrow, just out of curiosity why do you find it wrong? And have no fear! I only flame people if they've REALLY pissed me off! No way to make a living; Masochism; Pain; Perfection; Muscle Spasms; Chiropractors; Short Carrers Eating Disorders! |
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| I always notice her face first |
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by midori hakkai
on 2005-09-11 03:31:38
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i think it's out of the norm...
"Even if you destroy this world, the world you wish for will never come..."
~Cho Hakkai~
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on 2005-09-11 08:23:49 (edited 2005-09-11 08:27:35)
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by adana on 08:59:48 pm 09/10/05 Is it wrong or weird if a girl got a crush on another girl? Just asking, Im a straight one... by oldcrow on 09:02:52 pm 09/10/05 Just my opinion, but I think that's totally wrong. I fully expect to be flamed for saying this...  Very well,  Why is that wrong? I'm in love with a girl, my best friend Wendy. We've had very close relationship for years. A blanket statement like that does not answer Adana's question. Adana, I always thought it was wrong too until the day Wendy kissed me for the first time. Believe me, I was shocked. However I didn't find anything wrong with it. Next to Ranger, Wendy is the only other person in the world I am that close to. She is my sister, GF, a love interest; whatever you want to call it since the world loves labels. Without Wendy my life would a lot emptier. I can turn to her when I can't turn to Ranger and that's important since I have no one else to turn to. I don't feel I'm bi because my interest is only in Wendy. We do love each other. BTW, Ranger does know about this it. Additionally one of Ranger's sister is a lesbian, she's a very sweet person, feminine and has never tried to kiss me on the mouth. To be honest however, I have wondered what it would be like, but I think everybody has those kinds of thoughts and not to admit it is lying to yourself.  |
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| I don't think homossexuality is wrong, however I do think being in Love with someone else while married is wrong (Sorry Rin), even if your partner doesn't mind. |
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on 2005-09-11 09:38:17 (edited 2005-09-11 09:39:21)
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I understand what you are saying, however Wendy is more than just being in 'Love' as you say. She is the closest thing I have to my family whom I haven't seen in 22 years until this summer when my sister Gwen came to visit. She is the first person in my family I have seen in 22 years and is the only person in my family I stayed in touch with and even that was rare. The others. my father, mother and sibs never even answered my letters. Wendy has become my family, she and her children, Wendy is a single mom, and welcome in my home anytime whether I'm there or not(we don't lock doors where we live)even if we are in bed. She's done that, come in and spent the night in the guest room with her kids. During the floods last winter she moved in for two weeks. We have been there for each other for 15 years and there were times when I don't think I could have survived without her emotional support and vice versa. It's not that we are kissy face all the time or popping in and out of bed which is what most people think. That's not it at all. It's hard to explain, you have a family, mine threw me out when I got married leaving me devastated and a new bride at the same time. Wendy is now my family, mi casa, su casa, as we say here, my home is your home. My home is Wendy's home as well. BTW Wendy is one of three friend who all have matching seifuku the other two are Holly, hottie first class and Gloria, think Kyoko in Full Metal Panic. |
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| I see, you've made me an impression with your other post that you thought of her as a real lover, and not as the love there is between two close friends. However if you think of her as a real Lover, loving someone else that way while married is dangerous. |
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Well there is a very intimate relationship we have, however it has never interfered with anything between Ranger and I. It's complex to explain, and also very simple. Put simply the three of us love each other very much and all of that no matter how I put it is subject to misinterpretation because it is not a menage yet there is a very close relation between the three of us. It is not a marriage of three yet it is a family, which is important to me. When Wendy's last husband, #3, left her with children and in debt we helped her get back on her feet with never a thought to repayment. It's that kind of relationship. Does that make sense? I never can explain it properly and that always gets me in trouble. It causes a lot of talk and speculation in our community and none of it's true and everybody knows that. I should have never brought it up. |
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| I wanted to say something more, but it's better not to because it's a public forum. However if you want say anything to me just send me an email. |
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quite honestly, i think it's fine. i personally like people for their personalities, gender second, if i'm really going to be honest. and since Ranger knows about this, it's not in secrecy, I think it's a great relationship. As long as it dosen't threaten the marriage I think it's alright. In any event, that really wasn't what this thread was about.
nya........... hehe.
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| nejigirl, would you want to love someone that was also in love with another girl?! |
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i don't really know. actually, considering how posessive i am, i'd probably get jealous.
nya........... hehe.
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