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| Is Sex bad? Whats da good and bad side of it?!! |
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on 2005-08-25 09:41:27 |
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speak in english1!! sex is good for you, so long as your safe. safe means protecting your body, heart, partner, and future. 
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by クリッム^__^
on 2005-08-25 18:22:13
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No, its the worst thing ever, it feels horrible and no one should EVER do it!
ã?°ã?‹! ^_^
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| Hello!! I wuz just asking!!! Wa pa akech experience!! |
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It's horrible. x_x; Remember now kids, Don't be silly, cover your willy!
Hoyeah.
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it depends on who you're doing it with... and why... and where... and when.. and how... ;p 
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Sex isn't bad by nature. I mean it isn't meant to be something people must be disgusted of. It only becomes bad (the act - sexual intercourse) when you do it with someone who is not your lifetime partner (wife/husband). I'm just reiterating what Gendou-san has said (written). ^_^ |
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Sex can feel good. Sex can feel bad. Either scenario is possible within a marriage. Sex can be frowned upon if you think that you should save yourself for your husband/wife. Sex can be acceptable if you don't really mind losing your virginity to someone other than your intended. Sex can be bad if you don't take the necessary steps to protect yourself and your partner. That means you would have to use contraceptives such as a diaphragm, condom, birth control pills and the like. If your religion does not allow such means of protection then I suggest you save yourself for your spouse and your intended husband/wife do the same. Sex can be good if you don't want to be married, but want to have a child and be a single parent. Know that it is a difficult task - to raise a child on your own while trying to earn a living. If in doubt on whether or not you want to have sex, then just don't do it. Especially if it's your first time. You may regret it afterwards. Have sex when you're absolutely sure of your stand regarding the issue and your personal values/morals.  |
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by chizuru_chan
on 2005-08-26 07:19:09
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I wouldn't know..never had it before.. does it hurt?
Life starts simply , why change them?
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by EricSoLazy
on 2005-08-26 13:11:15
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SEX IS THE DEVIL!!!1 ONLY SINNERS HAVE SEX! ETERNAL DAMNATION FOR ALL OF HUMANITY FOR REPRODUCING RARRRRRRR!!!!! "(insert bible quote here that is taken out of referance)" BURN IN HELL!!!
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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Well... honestly sex is (usually) good for you. There have been studies shown that men and women who engage in sexual activity quite often have a lesser risk of some stuff and apparently live longer. Go look it up for yourself. That, or look up the health aspects of masturbation (no joke). Religiously, there are morals placed so that you can remain faithful to only one person. But if you think about it, it was a lot easier to do so when you were married at the age of eleven back then, as opposed to being over twenty. You should also consider that back in the old days, the life expectancy was MUCH smaller than it is today. So the general thoughts on it was to get married, and have as many children as possible, and carry on your lineage. If you have sex, there is always a risk of getting an STD or some other thing. AIDs, Crabs, Herpes, Gonorrhea(sp?), etc. Your relationship with your partner could change completely. It really depends on your and your partner's maturity levels. Bragging about it often times does NOT help. Be smart with yourself and your partner. If you decide you wish to have sex, get yourselves checked out. Use a contraceptive (or two) if you don't wish to have a child. But basically, sex can go either way. And don't think you can't impregnate/get impregnated your first time. I guess the only thing that really matters is how cautious you want to be, and if you're willing to accept the consequences for your actions. Remember, it takes two to tango, and two to screw eachother. -Luc (I feel like a nurse now! x\)
[o¬.¬]o\\;:;:;:> xD, Samurai-Kirby pwns you!
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Lucian, I heard the exact same thing *lol* lovely what random info you find out... oh, and there IS such a thing as overdoing the whole sex/masturbation thing... I heard about this guy that jerked himself off 7-10 times a day and now he can't orgasm when he's with his girlfriend. But that's just an extreme... Overdoing ANYthing is bad for you anway... [quote]does it hurt? [/quote] Well, chizuru-chan, I think it really depends. The thing is there are a couple of factors that comes into play: the size of the guys penis being one and another being whether your hymen is still intact or not. There are many cases of women not being in utter pain when she first loses her virginity. Your hymen can break prior to having sex in various ways... maybe it happened when you were horseback riding, or while playing other contact/violent sports. It's hard to really tell whether or not it will hurt for you personally... Something else that I'd like to point out is that I'd rather that people avoid preaching their religious beliefs and whatnot when it comes to certain things like this... I think it should depend on what the individual with that option believes. If they are religious and that religion calls for him/her only having one sexual partner, then they should follow that. Not all religions or social systems believe in monogamy. There are some that find polygyny/polyandry absolutely acceptable. I think we ought to be impartial about our stance and if not, then at least place an "in my opinion" somewhere in the comment... |
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Dont have sex just for the sake of sex. And dont do it just because every1 else is. And dont get urself drunk at a party.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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yeah: always remember to use a condom, i don't care when or how or why, if your guy dosen't want to wear one, don't go to bed with him!!! it's just not worth it. and yeah, sex can hurt sometimes, but i don't think especially. and this may gross the dudes out, but alot of chicks already have their hymen broken since they use tampons. {all the guys run out of the forum} hehe. sorry, but it's true. and sex is a great thing when you're in a wonderful, mature relationship. just think before you act, you know? because otherwise, quite literally, . . .you screwed! {. . .was that lame??? ahh, whatever}
nya........... hehe.
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Sex is only good when you care about your partner. If you don't care, don't do it.  |
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I am shocked... It hurts...
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...it's bad...WHEN YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG!  |
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yeah, it's bad... especially when you don't feel anything special for your partner.    sexy technique |
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on 2005-08-30 06:36:09 (edited 2006-01-09 07:01:42)
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Oh dear! Sex isn't bad. Sex just is. It's what goes with sex that makes it good or bad. I was a virgin when I married Ranger. No that's not true, I was a virgin the night we met, not the morning after however. I wanted to save myself for marriage for my wedding night. Ranger also told me that he never planned to bed me down that night he just wanted a kiss. My first time was wonderful despite some pain when he took my maidenhood. Since then, 22 years now, we have tried different kinds of sex. Ranger gave me a book when we got married and I wanted to learn more, ex virgo do that. Some of it I found acceptable (good sex) and some of it not (bad sex) by my definition of good and bad. Oh my! I'm not sure how far I can take this. If this gets inappropriate please delete or edit it if you can or let me know and I shall. Good sex may include love but doesn't have to. Even in love, casual sex among partners is a fact of life. Ranger picking me up and tossing me on the bed and away we go. You jump in, you jump on and do each other, it's fun. Then it's back to the dishes. And there is my friend Wendy. she doesn't want any kind of relationship with men however she too likes sex for the sake of sex. It feels good so she has a few casual boyfriends. And who's to say what bad sex is. I do, at least for me. You may like what some people call a perversion and vice versa. I'm sorry... I forgot there are the religious fundamentalists who also tell us what good and bad sex are. Good sex, him on top. Bad sex, anything else. God forbid we should enjoy it. there are people who believe sex is not to be enjoyed. There are even people So if you want a written definition of what good sex vs bad sex is it's simple. Bad sex is being dry. The rest is the subject to interpertation and another thread. BTW Sex is only dirty if you don't bathe afterwards. If you want to know about love and sex this is how I feel about Ranger.  |
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| sex is not bad, if you do it with the person you love. sex can be wonderful when you do it with the loved one. |