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love and hate?
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on 2009-05-19 06:30:40 |
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what do you guys think is similar between love and hate and what is diffrent? im not sure my self but as long as ive been in the forums you guys are soo smart with life lessons so thats why i'm wondering...i think its like life and death..you cant have life without death.. |
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on 2009-05-19 19:34:14 |
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Well,it has it's similarity though..coz sometimes hate is derived from love,that is. For example,for the love of their country,some nations go to war..and eventually hate others that trying to take away their beloved country~and also when some people loves other people,well breaking up is main cause of hate though~ When you love something,whether you realized it or not,you already hate something XD |
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You can also hate those who have love cause you don't have love and it is said if you hate some one its cause you really love that person.  |
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Hate and Love are pretty much the same thing, except opposites. Love is positive Hate and Hate is negative Love. They both represent devotion, either posite or negative. Does it make sense? I'm starting to confuse myself.      |
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Love turns to hate far faster than love turns to apathy.
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on 2009-07-20 21:20:52 |
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Some would say that both are trained notions. Love is an extreme, and arguably, unconditional fondness for someone or something. Hate is an extreme, but conditional, disdain for someone or something. I wouldn't consider love or hate to be emotions; rather, I'd call them ideas that are spawned from emotion. For example: If you love someone, you feel positive emotions when they are around. When they are gone for long enough, you miss them and your emotions become negative. And, when you hate someone, you feel negative emotions towards them. If you are particularly malicious, you feel positive emotions when they come by harm. I believe that none of us are born with love and hate. We are born with a few simple emotions: happiness, fear, sadness, anger and perhaps some that I've forgotten at the moment. We learn to become attached to certain people or things that lead to the dependence that we call love. The opposite of this is the repulsion to certain things that we learn in our lives and have come to call hate. Either idea (love or hate) can produce the same range of simple emotions. (again, they are happiness, fear, sadness and anger) You are happy to be around your loved ones and gain the same emotion from getting away from or besting those who you hate. You become sad when a loved one passes away, and are fearful or angry when a loved one is harmed. Some people become sad when a foe (hated) succeeds. This depression is also known as jealousy and many of us fear what we hate. Anger also is also stirred from the success of a hated person or thing. |
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Love the ones that you can actually trust and hate the ones that hurt you...doesn't seem right but at least it's straight to the point.  |
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on 2009-07-24 20:01:25 |
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Love is a never ending feeling of affection towards someone or something. That affection will be stronger by any means of actions or conversation between a person and the alter.Love is but a feeling that can easily turns to hate and distrust if the wrong action is taken or the wrong conversation is spoken. In depth, when you are in love, you will feel the strong urge from yourself that you want to help this person, notice, cherish and whatsoever. But with some people, strangely enough, teasing or anger is their way to show their love(that is when their love is not yet discovered) But when the love is discovered, it turns to real affection. Thats all XD. |
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on 2009-07-25 05:54:12 |
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well there's an old saying that i once told a friend of my if you love something let it go, if it comes back then it's yours but if not, then it was never meant to be I'm sure what ya know what i mean right? 
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on 2009-07-26 00:56:40 |
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Yeah, I know what you mean. Basically, you cannot expect to own or cage what you love. In doing so, you're not giving it a chance to really love you back. By letting go who you love, you show trust and/or acceptance to them. |
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While love and hate do not have to be conected, people can hate something for no reason and people can love something without causing hate, it is best if they are. People should only hate something if they are trying to protect something that they love, other wise it is baseless hate which makes people lower than the litter on the streets. They are opposites like life and death, but they do not have to be connected. LOVE CAN EXIST WITHOUT HATE. |
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by garowthunder
on 2009-08-16 13:05:14
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I'm quiet the philosopher myself and when it comes to the defination of love and hate there is countless of them! I can find countless of argument that say that love and hate is connected and countless of arguments saying it's not. A proof of that is right on this thread. but i can say at least one thing: love and hate has at least one thing in common and that fact is untouchable!!!!! and that is: THEY ARE BOTH INCREDIBLY STRONG FEELINGS!!! it's time for a poet to do his job, "once you have fallen in the sea of hate or love it's easier to keep falling but the struggel to get up is a hell itself" |
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on 2009-08-16 22:33:14 |
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for me the distance between love and hate isn't far... well, love isn't same with hate but they're look similar from some side of view... like garrowthunder said,both of them are strong feelings and can make people do what other peope who knw he/she think he/she will never done... love can exist without hate, and so do hate... both of them, too, have a lot of form and definition. some said in several situation they are same. In my country if you buy cheap newspaper you'll see a lot of murder case that the cause is because the victim don't say yes to the murder feelings...  |
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I think that when two people really love each other, they can't have hateness in their heart, maybe when a relationship is over and one of them falls in love with another person, then the other one may feel sad, angry, but if love is really what was felt, then those feelings will disappear eventually. I can't say i hate people that one time i loved : )
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Kurosuke
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