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what do you said to annoyed people?
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| I have 1 friends.. I think she's so annoyed me... after said appologize she will make me angry again... and I so annoyed to her.. What should I say to her and what I have to do for her?? |
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on 2008-03-09 00:17:27 |
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I usually just stay away. basically people would just tell YOU to change if you're annoyed by someone that's perfectly normal.    m y . L i F E . i . t r a d e . i n . f o r . y o u r . P A i N . |
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on 2008-03-09 04:58:12 |
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Hm.. mind giving details? like how she annoyed you? what has she done? I think it will help us to give you suggestion on the matter.
Dream ends when we wake up and life ends when we die.
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by
 
on 2008-03-09 14:13:34 (edited 2008-03-09 14:14:43)
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My best advice for you is: Keep that anger of yours inside. There's no point for you to be more angry and annoyed once your friend said sorry at you! Just forget all that argument you both had earlier and be grateful how lucky you both are to be friends! Stop being so neurotic and be happy. And improve your grammar and spelling instead of complaining and be annoyed. |
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That's not the way to answer a post, w00t0s-san (Kinda right though, tasya-san has atrocious grammar). Anyway, I think what you should do, tasya-san, is sit and think it out: Does your friend always annoy you? Does her apology seem genuine to you? If the answer to the first question is yes, then stay away from her. People like that are O_o. But if the answer is no, and the second question's answer is yes, then you should trust her. After all, mistakes happen.  --> |
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i'll say goodbye to such friendship. try it, u'll feel much better.
mees+me=u
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I'll translate what Tasya is trying to say (since I'm an expert in broken language :P): I have 1 friends.. I think she's so annoyed me... after said appologize she will make me angry again... and I so annoyed to her.. What should I say to her and what I have to do for her?? I have a friend ... I think she's annoying me a lot ... even if she apologizes to me , she will annoy me again like always ... I am so annoyed by her ... what should I say to her to stop her actions and/or what should I do about her ? I think this is what she's trying to say , ne ~ ^^? I too have such friend who is really annoying . Even my college <-spelled right ? friend is starting to get annoyed by his actions . Well , that's different compare me living with him >< ! My room is for three or four people to live in , but everytime a newbie comes in , he starts to annoy them so much , they start screaming and they leave immediately , like , immediately without finding a empty room to move in to . I lived with him the longest and tolerated all his beatings for like a year =.= , till I too have to leave as he is affecting my studies (which is too late to save it already and I got to re-sit back my semester) . That's why I always inform any newbies to becareful of him in secret , and I made it ^^ . Now , I don't know how things going there already ... I hope they're fine :P , since I know that he will never fix his bad habit XO . Well , since I've felt the same way you felt right now , I can tell you how to avoid being annoyed anymore . Firstly , try to build up the distance between you and the girl , slowly , so that you don't hurt her . Try to talk less with her , and definitely , find another place so that you can move out once you're ready . The most important thing is that , try to ignore her . As you ignore her , she will go bored in annoying you and might leave you (Maybe ...) . Build up your patience . And learn how to be as patience as a Jedi knight XD @Wootos No humans are perfect ... even if they say sorry , it's only the matter if the person learns from their mistakes or not . Most of them won't learn from their mistakes and will repeat again till they die . It's called 'habit' and habit don't die easily ... |
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on 2008-03-10 12:09:23 (edited 2008-03-10 12:11:06)
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-_-'' Okay, I guess my previous opinion was lack of emotions. It's just I hate to hear that this person X was truly annoyed by a person Y. Then X would want to ignore Y completely for the rest of the year (and more deeply, for ever). It sounds disturbing enough to me... think of Y's thoughts though. X does not have to be emotionally engaged with Y, but at least, have a nice, friendly chat when there's time. If Y keeps on talking crap, well, X can just change the subject that suit both's interest, or make excuses. It's up to tasya whether he/she wants to keep on being friends with his/her annoying friend. I find no problem on that. Tasya would better not say anything to his/her friend at all, just let the silence tear their friendship apart. |
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on 2008-03-11 00:12:25 |
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I'll be using w00t0s X and Y. Well, I think different people will have different opinion and decision to make on this. Most of posts above suggest to leave Y. Which may mike X life a better thing to live. The other opinion will say something like, "Imagine you were innocent Y who's pursuing for friendship, yet because of Y inability to socialize with people, Y got trashed by everyone. Y finds X and likes X. But as Y has done to everyone, Y is as well annoying to X. How about Y's feeling if Y also thrashed by X, Y only friend?" "Too bad right? Let X be patient and be Y friend, because friend is a friend." Well, the second opinion was my own (X) experience with my friend (Y). It's all up to X, it doesn't make X a bad person if you let Y drift apart, it's nature. @w00t0s: I understand many of us and Gendou-sama himself support good grammar. But come on, many of us here (like me) having English as our second language, and some of them maybe new to English or at age of below 13. I as one of those who using English as our second language, sincerely apologize if there is any hatred taken from our mistake.
Dream ends when we wake up and life ends when we die.
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on 2008-03-11 03:06:48 (edited 2008-03-13 07:57:58)
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@vella- My thoughts exactly. (Okay, of course I am aware of many members in Gendou.com treat English language as their second language, okay, that's fair enough. They should at least improve their English grammar and spelling. Too much mistakes here and there will cause annoyance towards others, and even harder to understand. And even worse, a laughing stock. Go to www.engrish.com . You'll understand.) p/s: sorry for off-topic. ^^' |
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Ummmm...why is everyone straying off-topic out here? --> |
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| For me, i will tried not to get angry and try to avoid him/her to settle down. If not, straight punch him/her in the face. |
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Heh, aptly put. --> |
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on 2008-03-21 06:30:45 |
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TALK TO MY PANDA!!! well because i have a panda stuff toy on my bag hanging hehehehehe  --> |
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| er... "i don't wanna be your friend. bye..." it's easy, eh? |
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@Kiseno: Yeah, really easy. But what abt the poor soul who's being said goodbye to? --> |
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on 2008-03-25 07:19:52 |
Usually if it's one of my mates, they know how far I can be pushed and how much banter I'll take. If they go out of their way to piss me off then they're not a friend and so can expect me to give them a smack as a warning. I tell to stay away for their own safety.  |
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on 2008-11-27 03:12:56 |
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"Shut up, you're annoying." Why not..? It's pretty easy. I'm just being honest, don't get me wrong.     |
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by
 
on 2008-11-27 06:22:19 |
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Say honestly (without insulting) about what you don't like from her annoying attitude and ask her to change it... But if she still remains the same... Then...just don't be too close for her... (kind mode) Say goodbye (evil mode...i dun suggest it, though ^^)   |
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Well, in my humble opinion I pretty much agree with tepie (ehm, the male/female above me). First, sit down, both of you and alone, and talk it out being honest to each other and in a mature manner. This way, you might even find hints that maybe both of you are at falt and not only one of you - meaning, that you might have done things that you are unaware of and might have hurt her/him as well (that is a maybe of course). Then, if this doesn't work you just simply have to choose between the 'kind mode' or the 'evil mode' that tepie suggested already... |
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