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Do we really need to say "I love you"
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on 2007-12-01 18:07:02 |
to communicate our romantic feelings?  |
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on 2007-12-01 18:19:02 |
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yay it depends! if the person is slow with picking up the labu labu waves then u must ^-^ and sumyms its really needed so that the person will get a confirmation of ur feelings toward him/her ^-^ 
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on 2007-12-01 19:08:39 |
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For me yeah, the word I love you is a strong words that show and direct our feelings towards that certain person we love. but there's time we need to know when to say it or not say it. depends on who we're telling that to. like they said action speak louder than words, so even if we said i love you to that person we still need to show them that we really do love them and care about them. so that words is just a words that help us get near to that person. We may not be the one or the right one for the one we love but still its best to confess by saying it and showing them how we feel. its not neccessary but its needed, it just part of life. |
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on 2007-12-01 19:29:21 |
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To me, I think romance can be expressed in many various ways. That of which, does not require saying "I love you" to whoever. Hugs, kissing, having ***, etc. can express your love to someone without saying "I love you." Sometimes saying that can backfire and like explained a bit above here, you need to know the correct time to say such words to someone. Although like I'm saying it's not really required most of the time to truly declare your love to someone you like/love. It's like... asking someone to go out with you compared to asking someone to marry you. Love is very strong, yet it's not easy to comprehend or control. It can also be stressful and/or confusing, so it's a very complicated matter! For a couple in love: If true love exists, love is not impossible. 
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by Mystic Deadman
on 2007-12-02 00:49:51
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It is not always necessary to say, "I love you." Often times, merely taking actions that display your affections will get your message across. I don't mean don't ever say it. It always gives your partner a warm feeling to hear these words. Like DA and miko said, there's a time when expressing it in words is inappropriate. You must pick and choose your moments of expression carefully, or it may "blow up in your face," as some say. |
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by GuitarGirl
on 2007-12-02 09:07:13
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Well, love can be expressed without actually saying the words, "I love you". Like miko said, our actions often speak louder than our words. But some people really need to hear those words from the one they love as proof that the person truly feels that way about them. |
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GuitarGirl: I belong to the type that needs to hear those words. And I also wan't to say those. There are certain moments when I feel very strongly and words just pop out of my mouth without planning. (strangely usually when im not that happy etc...) Some other time I can't even think about saying those as they sound so overly sweet and icky. This is usually when I am happy and satisfied, those times I say nothing :D Pretty lopsided! So I quess it's all about going with the feelings. Say if you feel like it, dont't force or overuse... |
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But I always say: I LOVE YOU to mica-san~ I always say "I love you" to my friends (girls)~ But I never say it to a guy~ coz i think it sounds silly~ |
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on 2007-12-03 03:22:48 |
they say actions speak louder than words...but sincere words are no substitute for actions.   |
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on 2007-12-03 05:38:00 |
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up to you. as long as you know not words that shows what are the people really feel but what they do. i am very very agree with what Lain said. 
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i say i love you anytime, to my mum, my sisters and nieces, friends, my cats, my personal belongings like laptop, my fav. manga/anime characters, and even myself. but i couldn't say it to the one i had crush on...though i personally think that we ought to show our feelings to others, but love is just soo complicated... i had never felt in love deeply with anyone, but when i do, i'll tell him that 3 words, hihi... Spread_the_Luv>",<
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by GuitarGirl
on 2007-12-03 13:59:55
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@ drakmin: Yeah, I'm the same way. If someone loves me, I want to hear them say it! My family and I (especially my mom and me) are really close, so we're always telling each other "I love you". ^_^ But I've never told a guy "I love you" yet...doing that seems kind of scary because you don't know if it would freak the guy out! |
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on 2007-12-03 21:41:36 |
I don't feel you need to say I love you. I do really love to say it and to be told it and all, but it's not something that I need. Those three little words can be so powerful. It's just that...it's not necessary at all. Actions are more important to me. You can express your feelings and be romantic without ever saying anything at all. That's the connection I find is the strongest and speaks of love the loudest. ♥  |
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on 2007-12-08 08:50:15 |
Well, sometimes, we have to, even when we show it by our actions and/or words other than saying "I love you". Also, if you did, you could tell them and now that you have, they should be able to remember that you love them. If they can't, well, maybe they aren't worth it.  |
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on 2007-12-10 04:37:46 |
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We don't necessarily need to say "I love you" to the people you love; you could shout a thousand "I-love-u's" to them and still don't deliver the full message. Actions speak louder than words. Don't just blurt out those three words, make them feel they are loved...
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by zparticus27
on 2007-12-10 04:40:49
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| though its a over used line...to actually say it infront of the girl you like, with wholehearted intent...is something one must do to win her heart...its a prerequisite hahaha |
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on 2007-12-10 21:52:20 |
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It depends on who you are saying it... 'I love you' this sentence,not all people accept.. you got to look one's personality before you say so~ it reminds me of a someone~when i joined a talk in school... He said "i have once fall in love with a girl.She knows.But then,when she came to me and just say" "I love you" "The next day,we broke up." ok~you might think he's a person that is Insensitive~because he doesn't really know about love(he's not an expert by the way~he's just a Lecturer) And he told us the reason is "because 'i love you' too simple.He doesn't want a girl like that,and he prefers poetic.."(bang..) But then~some people are like that~ they need action,need some romance,need somemore powerful particulars just to make their love bloom. For someone,'i love you' is just not enough... |
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Hmmm for me its "YES" well maybe some persons thinks that mostly people who can easily say the word "I love you" is just a mere word for them.. but for some [for the girls especially] wanted to hear that.. well im the type of person, if possible dont want to say that word, but for some reasons, I just cant hide it...hmm how can I explain this...Ill just refer for my gf then, way back when were just starting..my gf ask me... "Is it really hard for you to say I love you??" well im really shocked..then I replied to her.. "Do I really have to say that to you??..I mean my actions are enough to show how much I love you right??" she replied: "Its enough but you know what your lacking the most important part..how can I really know your true feeling if I cant hear any ASSURANCE from your mouth that you really love me then??" thats the time I realized that saying "I LOVE YOU" is also important rather than making it in actions...well its rather easier if youll make it both XD   
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| "i love you" is such a silly words for me~ |
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on 2007-12-21 22:23:40 |
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for me that word not really needed, because i prefer to express my feeling by what i doing, like if she need something i will help her, care her, & if she has a same feeling to me we can make a deeper relationship. this thing also worked for my parent, i will do anything for them. they're the people who i cared most  visit aolas.soup.io for your usual dose of seiyuu pics |