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Love is painful
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by
 
on 2007-09-03 19:06:30 |
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They say the time with your first girlfriend is the most memorable. I guess they forgotten to add the part about the lost-lasting depression that follows after breaking up. Saw my ex for the first time after 2 months of breaking up. The atmosphere you get is really dense. It felt like I was breathing through a one inch blanket. Anyone ever gotten that feeling? Love is painful, but that doesn't mean I'm never gonna get another gf. I'm just gonna have to learn from my mistakes. What I didn't do, what I couldn't do, what I should done.  |
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by zparticus27
on 2007-09-03 19:15:59 (edited 2007-09-03 19:18:05)
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i guess it depends on the sincerity of the relationship i mean not all first breakups "hurt" but yeah that depression sucks...especially if things would really work out but then your plans gets ruined by fate...like moving out of to another island >.> |
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on 2007-09-03 19:34:56 |
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Yea. I really loved her so much (still do). But all that went away. Anyways, we're young, no point in always sulking around, right? I'm pretty sure that is what she would have wanted me to do. Sigh. Reality is a bummer. I wish I could live in the Anime World where happy endings are abound. |
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by zparticus27
on 2007-09-03 20:10:10
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hell yeah! we're young and energized hahahaha ok that sounds pointess but yeah we're still young,no need to go sulking about the past...though it takes time...it still heals but there's always a light at the end of the tunnel right... as for living in an anime world...hell yeah but then id miss seeing real girls hahaha (man that sounded perverted) but seriously what ever happens,well happens and im still thankful that im alive to see another day...(even without the one im yearning for...T.T) |
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on 2007-09-03 22:50:44 |
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Actually...to tell you the truth, yea, i've had the same feeling really last year. Dunno what happened really, but my Girlfriend broke up with me and made me promise to her that we would never speak to each other again. I was like...OMG, what the heck did I do??? Yea, makes you feel extremely sad since yea I did love her too, but there isn't really much you can do about it. 1. your right, sulking around does nothing to help, if all else fails, at least try to be friends again with your (ex)girlfriend. After like a year a no talking(more like she ignored every possible try I did to talk to her)...i somehow managed at least that, it'll make you feel better...or at least that what I kinda though >> 2. Reality is filled with up's and downs ^^;; where there is a hill, there is always a slope. 3. In the anime world...happy endings aren't always abound lol >> All depends on the animater or the guy writing the anime ehehehe... 4. I have absolutely NO CLUE why I am writing numbers like 1 - 4...  |
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on 2007-09-03 23:58:48 |
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love can kill you |
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on 2007-09-04 00:58:50 |
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Just take it easy for it. When your relationship just over, it's not that the only person should be blamed is YOU. First off, just never - and a BIG NO to regretting wad u have in past, even it was the happiness or the sorrow even the painful you got. Yeap, you really had a great memories toward her, so take it as your very precious memories. The painful itself is the happiness tad you get while you were along wid her. And now, you are given a new chance to get more mature and feel LOVE even more, so at the next time you may feel more and more happy cause loving someone ^^ Cheer up , SkyL-san ^^  |
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on 2007-09-04 02:46:46 |
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hehe, thnx guys ^^ |
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on 2007-09-04 03:05:21 |
*love sucks!! hahahaha!! 
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on 2007-09-04 21:38:50 |
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Here is something from the bible that sums it all up: “Love is patient; love is kind and envies no one. Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude; never selfish, not quick to take offense. There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, its hope, and endurance. In a word, there are three things that last forever: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of them all is love.†Religious or not, it is simply a wise saying.  |
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"love is never boastful" I beg to differ. I love my honey!!exclamation mark! Anyways, it really isn't so painful. Have you seen what loneliness can do to you? Now that is real pain. It is really only that bad if one breaks up, so don't take your love for granted. If one loves enough it can't break, it can break everything else though. Sometimes one has to choose between life and love. At some point one may find a love that is worth any amount of pain and will fight and sacrifice everything to preserve it. But to make things easier some one doesn't have to go through all that is to go through a relationship with some brains. Don't have a narrow view of things and there are always ways to work around obstacles. Don't give up prematurely and think things through. I hear too many people breaking up out of shear stupidity and over petty squabbles.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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on 2007-09-06 03:03:27 |
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so far, my gf and i are not at the point of breaking up...er.. so i don't know what to tell you but cheating on your gf doesn't really feel good either... 
So I drove into a parking lot one time and saw this person pull into a handicap parking spot. When you think handicap, you think wheelchair and whatever, right? So it just ticked me off when I saw the guy come out of the car perfectly fine. So then I ran him over. |
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by zparticus27
on 2007-09-06 03:32:45
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| cheating is bad...period ^^ |
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Yeah. It sure is painful. Break ups is the bad part of a relationship... *sigh*  ...*silence* |
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on 2007-09-06 04:40:44 |
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Wow, I'm surprised this topic is still going. Anyways, we are all alone in the beginning until we find love. But after that, once we find love and then end it, loneliness hurts. |
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on 2007-09-14 07:40:07 |
Yes.. love can be painful at times, but they never stay there for long though. ^^  |
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on 2007-09-14 09:36:06 |
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dont think so!!! solution: never fall in love ^,^ xD hahahaha
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Re: Love is painful
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on 2007-09-14 18:11:26 |
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^ you know that's easy to say, but there'll be one day when you will fall in love b/c of overwhelming feelings. |
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on 2007-09-15 03:01:43 |
Yes I also think that love is painful if the person that I love don't love me back  |
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on 2007-09-15 04:02:11 |
i'm agree with you skyl, avoiding love is very easy to say. in fact you will never know when you will fall in love and you can't avoid it. love is painful yet it makes us smile at the same time. the only thing left is to face it, fight for it, or kill it. usually when i fall in love, i try to erase/kill my feeling... it really hurts for short time (few days), but after that i'm feeling fine again.  |
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