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Got a problem?
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on 2007-05-01 08:06:17 (edited 2007-05-01 08:07:00)
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Mythman here. Alright,listen up! Being the good listener that I am, I'm going to start dishing out some advise to all those who want some. I can give you your advise here in the thread or I can send it to you in the form of message to your profile page here in Gendou. Just make sure you tell me if you want it sent to you. Otherwise, I'm going to post it here. I'll try to get a response back to you as soon as possible. The docta' is now in and open. Peace! 
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Re: Got a problem?
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on 2007-05-01 11:08:16 |
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First of all, why is it in the WOT section. I think it's still better to be in the Other section. Hmm, but it's still nice to offer giving advises. Btw, here's my problem. Well, not exactly my problem, but it's my family problem. In my siblings of 5, there's 2 people who don't like each other. It's my 1st sis and my 3rd sis. I don't know why they fought ever since they're small till now, but the problem is still there. What I'm worried about is that they are now living at the same house owned by my mom. I don't like it whenever my sisters fought each other just because of a small thing. I also don't want my mom to get sad just because of the quarrel between the two. I seen her cry and I don't like to see it happened again. So my 1st sis is a kind of a daughter who wanted to be special to her parents. She's the eldest so of course she want more pampering, but she's married and already had a child. My 3rd sis is about the same, it just she's just being a person who don't care about others. How should I say it, selfish? Ah, yes. Selfish it is. She care more about her and ignored anyone requests. And that just what happened between the two. They never seemed to get any better, but I'm glad they don't fight anymore frequently. But, whenever they fought.. my 1st sis will tell my mom, while my 3rd sis rant on her lj. While my dad, got angry whenever they fought. Aih~! As the youngest sister, I love my sisters well. My 1st sis pampered me much since she took care of me when I'm still a baby, but I'm close to my 3rd sis since we love anime and stuff~! So I don't want to be on one-side only and I wanna help them shut up and be nice to each other! How can I advise them to stop fighting and have some peace at the house--? I don't wanna hear any throwing stuff at others since they fought. <-- The cause of why my mommy cried. Sis throwed remote control, clothes hanger and things solid. Hit them, they got angry and report to mom who don't want to hear any of this things anymore. I wish u can reply here. No need to PM me.
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Re: Got a problem?
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on 2007-05-01 11:40:53 |
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Mythman here. From the sound of it, they're a pretty good wayup there in age. I have a solutions to your problem. first,when they start to get angry with each other, tell them to sit down, take a few deep breaths, count to ten(or however far they need to). then, if you have some green or herbal tea somewhere in the house, fix some of that as well. Lastly, try to get them to talk things over. If you can find the source of the problems, you might be able to get them to stop fighting. If that don't work, try sneaking up behind them and knock them out. Peace!
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