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Problems??? Should WE FACE OUR PROBLEMS??
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on 2007-04-13 00:44:36 |
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How many problems do you encounter every day?? How Many Mistakes Did You make Every Day?? Do you think Of Something Bad Might Happened To you?? If So WILL YOU BE ABLE TO FACE YOUR PROBLEMS???..... ================================================ For Me Facing PROBLEMS is Part of LIFE If People Have No problems Then Maybe Our Life Is SO boring.... Our Problems Are Our Challenges in life so if you dont face your problems no matter how big or small it is you must still face it if you dont YOULL NEVER LEARN how to LIVE coz life is full of problems From The day you were born And The Day Before you die......  |
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by zparticus27
on 2007-04-13 01:22:40
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a life without problems is a fantasy my friend...that is what you call a prefect life... for me face your problems head on! running away will only make it worst and for mistakes...mistakes leaves scars or bitter memories and it should serve as a reminder not to repeat those mistakes....it is forever necessary for a fruitful life |
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on 2007-04-13 01:37:39 |
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How many problems do you encounter every day?? More than I'd imagined. How Many Mistakes Did You make Every Day?? Dozens. Do you think Of Something Bad Might Happened To you?? No, I don't have the luxury of thinking something so uncertain. I often wonder, why do people always say that running away is not a way to face your problems. Why? Sometimes running away doesn't mean that we ignore our problems. We just chose to run away to face the problems. Have you ever think that sometimes, some problems, only TIME can solve it? I'm not saying that running away is good to solve our problems, but in some cases, it is the best option to do so. At the very least, it gives us a peace of mind and a more rational thinking. Everyone face problems all the time. How we face it, is something interesting that no one can ever know if the decision or method you face the problems is a correct one.  |
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on 2007-04-13 07:19:05 (edited 2007-04-13 07:37:27)
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You're the only one in your own life that can walk the path to solve these problems. You can't expect a gf/bf, parents, etc. to settle these issues for you. Everyday there's a problem here and there. It can be minor or very severe; who knows. Mistakes are as common as breahting the air around you; you just can't avoid it if you want to die... which is a mistake (if you can call it that), lol. Overall, if you don't face your problems and turn the other cheek, you're not solving them. You're just avoiding 'em and over time, they'll only pile up on each other and when you DO want to solve 'em, it's a ton of stress to deal with. I have problems, mistakes, issues, that I need to solve here and there; the same with every member here I hope. I'm not perfect but I'm the only one in the world 'perfect' for the job in solving my own everyday struggles. 
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Mistakes and problems are what keeps life interesting. Without conflict, there is no story. We humans are all vulnerable to mistakes. Most mistakes need to be corrected. Problems need to be solved since they usually develop into a worse situation. I don't think they should all be taken head-on though, sometimes getting help is a lot easier than struggling with it. "You should fight your own battles, but that doesn't mean you should fight all of your battles on your own."
The next witty thing I think of and remember will likely end up here.
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on 2007-04-13 07:44:54 |
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Draconics:: Yeah, you're right about the last part you said. You can't have other people solve 'em for you, but it's a lot better if you have someone to be by your side when solving them. :D At times though, some problems can only be solved by you and nobody else.
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on 2007-04-13 08:56:24 |
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How many problems do you encounter every day?? How Many Mistakes Did You make Every Day?? Do you think Of Something Bad Might Happened To you?? If So WILL YOU BE ABLE TO FACE YOUR PROBLEMS???..... Instead of problem, I like to think of them as challenges. And instead of mistakes, I like to think of them as experiences. Challenges in life help us grow and in the process of growth, we gain experiences or wisdom if you like to call it that. Regarding running away to solve a problem. It was actually one of the 36 tricks that the "Art of war" book recommends. You know the Chinese Art of War book. I can't remember the guy' name who wrote it but the last resort was to run away because if you are dead, you truly lose. If you still alive, you can always come back another day.  |
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on 2007-04-14 00:57:09 (edited 2007-04-14 01:03:18)
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Facing your problems while standing tall is a sure sign that you're still not going to grab that rope and hang yourself with it... Just remember, DON'T do this: 
What if I jump out
of this speeding jeepney? Fly without wings Reach for the grey-painted heaven And out into the sea of infinity?  |
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@Nero, Hahahaha that is some sick stuff but still a very funny parody. I do not think it is possible to run away from your problems. Oh sure you can run away and ignore them for a moment but they always have a nasty way of catching up with you. Many people nowadays will finger the blame on anything except for themselves. I get it all the damn time at work and it makes me...frustrated. I take a "nip it in hte bud" approach to problems. Face your problems as they come up and work your way through them. If you turn from them or cast a blind eye, you end up wasting all of your efforts trying to keep the dilusion going. I distinguish between running away and retreating. Retreating is the admission of defeat with the intent to return and face that problem when you are better prepared. Running away is the turning your back on the problem with the intent to keep running until you are exhausted and the problem bears down on you. And I think the realization of bad outcomes help you better prepare for any problems that might show up. It's that caution that can help you face your problems without the need to retreat or submit. It's that full scope perspective that allows a person to be better informed and well-rounded in their lifetime. If I didn't walk the path I did to get here then I wouldn't be the same person I am today. So I am the summation of all my chocies whether they ended in failure or success. So mistakes are valuable to me as insight to my being. A life without failure is a failed life. There is no life at all. |
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on 2007-04-16 21:12:04 |
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How many problems do you encounter every day?? Billions. Anyone who doesn't suffer even a bad hair day once in their lives must be abnormal. :P How Many Mistakes Did You make Every Day?? About as many as the websites on the internet. lol. Do you think Of Something Bad Might Happened To you?? Yes, everyday. I don't think anyone can stand to not think about that. If So WILL YOU BE ABLE TO FACE YOUR PROBLEMS???..... It's the only way to live, you've got to face whatever this world's gonna throw at you the best way you can. If you don't then you're better off dead.
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I think it would be ok to share in the forum. My parents argue alot... but mum mentioned of divorcing.. my dad cant stand my mum (cus she nags twenty seven) I dunno what i should do?! I get irratated too but i love them! My aunt told me that is their problems, i cant do anything about it. Should i face it? or leave it?  unity with diversity rude>sweet>naive R.i.P b.u.d |
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on 2007-04-17 01:30:07 |
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@widgeon What to do, what to do... Face it! If you truly love them then do something about it... Lift your head, baby, don't be scared Of the things that could go wrong along the way You'll get by with a smile You can't win at everything but you can try. Damn! I'm getting off-topic...
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@nero i tried... to do something... tried to fix this problem. But none of my attemps pay out. unity with diversity rude>sweet>naive R.i.P b.u.d |
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Re: Problems??? Should WE FACE OUR PROBLEMS??
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on 2007-04-18 18:21:25 (edited 2007-04-18 18:22:22)
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Everyone makes mistakes. It's part of life. If there weren't mistakes at all, this world would be ...chaos or perfect depending on how you look at it. Facing your problems is also part of life. As they say, "you can't run away from your problems because they'll get the better of you someday." Also bad things are bound to happen. There's no such thing as a person who lived a life full of goodness and no badness..ness..ness... 
So I drove into a parking lot one time and saw this person pull into a handicap parking spot. When you think handicap, you think wheelchair and whatever, right? So it just ticked me off when I saw the guy come out of the car perfectly fine. So then I ran him over. |
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Re: Problems??? Should WE FACE OUR PROBLEMS??
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on 2007-09-11 05:03:55 |
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Problems ought to be solved before they get worse. Someone once told me; "If u do not solve a problem, u will become a problem yourself". How true! We should confront our problems and solve em before they get out of hand. We must not let them accumulate or they will choke ya to death one day!! got it? O.o XD  |
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Re: Problems??? Should WE FACE OUR PROBLEMS??
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on 2007-09-11 17:19:48 |
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How many problems do you encounter every day? Many but mostly trivial things not worth blinking at How Many Mistakes Did You make Every Day? Many but usually unimportant Do you think Of Something Bad Might Happened To you? Yeah but I don't care much if something does. I just don't want it to hurt but it's not in my control soo I won't spend time agonizing over it If So WILL YOU BE ABLE TO FACE YOUR PROBLEMS? Well if I'm hurt or dead, probably not. If I'm just hurt that creates a new problem to face which is doable, so yes. When you have a problem it's best to face it head on and get it over with. SOmetimes taking time to think it over is best but deciding to think about it is the first step to doing something. If you leave problems or aviod them not only do you disable yourself to grow and learn as a person emotionally/mentally but those problems often will fester and grow larger. @widgeon It is there problem and something they have to deal with. You can make suggestions on something they can do but what is going on is their problem and whatever they decide you're going to have to live with being the child. It doesn't work when another family member, especially the child is playing peacemaker. You'll get caught up in the middle and that isn't good. If anything, try to convince them to go to therapy together. Voice your concerns about their arguing in a calm non accusitory way. That is how you face it. After you do those things it is out of your hands and with many problems in life there is only so much you can do but at least you tried |
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on 2007-09-11 17:25:08 |
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Problems I encounter everyday is... alot of them. It varies day by day. I make millions of mistakes, that's just human. No, if I get myself in that attitude I'll never be at my best. Yes, I'll face my problems cause running away only prolongs it.  |
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| we should not. there'se some time when we have to run away from a problem |
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on 2007-09-11 22:23:03 (edited 2007-09-11 22:23:59)
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best is to face your problem, not to run from it. because if we run, the problem will never solved and the problem will getting bigger. 
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by SuicidopoliS
on 2007-09-12 05:11:47
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We should probably start by realizing most of our problems aren't even real problems... .oO° Life's THE CURE, the rest are details! °Oo. |
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