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i got a miserable life where i kinda get cane quite often why parents have to use this kinda method?? do canning realli works?? did they get their desire result?? not for me... i wont follow wot they wants! i used to it ored. pain?? nah~ im paralysed to the pain. i wont cry! i dun feel a thing! do ur mum or ur dad do this to you? even thou u are a 18 yrs old teenager?? |
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Canning doesnt works..... No matter how many times youc ane a person.....You just making worse :P |
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but some people jus dun seem to understand the circumstance of it! |
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by sesshoumaru-xxx
on 2006-06-04 02:09:22
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not really,they will only talk to me about what is good and what is bad...i don't think canning will do any good as we are the ones who controls our actions. |
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but some people jus dun seem to understand the circumstance of it! In other words they are total idiots |
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In other words they are total idiots who they think they are always correct!! here's a lyric of a song which i think the society never tries to understand us.. instead they want us to do it their way. they will only c our weaknesses and never realize our own merit!! we're outlaws. we're street gangs. we're the insolent ones,nothing pleases us. hold a tight rein on us, and it will brew trouble. we're hopeless, so what? we dont give a damn if you look down on us. we're nothing, we care for nothing. why this wall of silence between us? there is a wall between us. teacher gave up on us. parents think we're insensible. society's expectations exceeds our imagination. smart kids must be good, they say. looking down on us doesnt mean you're better. who cares why we lose direction? nobody gives a thought to how an apple rots? we tried to win the consensus. how much hope have you given us? tears are dried, the future's bleak. we are lost souls. what should we do? punishment is your method to make us grow. it destroys all our hopes and ambitions. standing at a crossroad, bellowing in the wind. dont kill our hopes. |
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who they think they are always correct!! Well You try to find a specific answer AND ASK THAT PERSON why the hell she wants to cane you O.O Find a specific answer to puched back at her(Make sure you have enough answers) |
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well that person is none other than my mother! nah~ i did tt when i was younger. now i get used to it and never question. in front of her im like a dead person. i got no expectation from her! |
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i got no expectation from her! Wow thats harsh........Well at least my mom isnt like that*prays to mother in heaven* |
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your mum is not around anymore?? oh~ hah for me it makes no difference whether having one or not... im so dissappointed~ c now she jus woke up and start mumbling n nagging and scolding again. im fed up... sigh u wont understand. |
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If they b**** at me, I just continue to lay back and watch tv. They can yell all they want! But they come at me with the same crap everytime! ![]() ------- |
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Have you ever tried being aggressive? My parents never raise their voice against me. Why? Because they know I can yell louder than both of them at once. Sometimes it ain't good to sit back and take shit. If you can I would throw everything you got on your mind right back at her. |
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It works...especially if your parents enjoy caning you everytime you do something wrong... In my country, parents don't use canes...they use leather belts, or anything they see...
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of this speeding jeepney? Fly without wings Reach for the grey-painted heaven And out into the sea of infinity? ![]() |
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well if u throw things at her... u are out of the house!! lol~ my mother is different~ im used to it anyway! jus pretend im deaf and she is invisible~ she wanna cane me? go ahead... but still wont get wot she wants. i'll stand properly to let her do her "job" and after i jus continue v my stuff! nero~ den do ur parents hit u using leather belts?? or anything else.. well belts would be more frightening~ i guess! |
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i think caning works.. if only when the child is caned when suitable la.. if a parent keep caning his.her child, the child will just get use to the pain and become even worse |
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trust me~ i gone tru canning for my entire life... it wont works... well it works when i was a child... but not any more as you grow older... especially im always get cane even thou im not exactly in the wrong!! my mum's jus being unreasonable... and she'll always be |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-06-05 13:33:12
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Well...I sure hope you can get out of there quick...thats just stupid and wrong that they do that. Violence only makes more violence. seriously think about it.... why do kids hit eachother?? Dont kids when younger...I mean like young kids... dont they mimic what they see others doing?? When people go Dont hit! then hit there kid....what the hell?? you just said dont hit....and then you hit them...how stupid are you. I will NOT hit or cane...or use any means of violence against my children...IF i have any that is XD and for the reason it doesnt work is that when you get older... 1. you can think more for yourself 2. they arent as big anymore XD A relationship shouldnt be based off of fear... it should be made off of trusting and understanding. ![]() |
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in my case... relationship did not based on fear... its based on lost hopes and lost soul! |
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no it doesnt....all it does is bring feelings of resentment |
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i really envy some of my friends... they have understanding parents.. where they can share their problems with their parents... but for me~ when i talk to them bout my life... wots going on with me... they feel irritated...!! |