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Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by Ocea on 2006-01-20 07:01:08

Sex... Where to begin. Without Marriage... yes... With Marriage no. Choose wisely. Making love without making vows, is bad. Making vows before making love is good. Thus It depends on when, where, and how it is brought up. Those who judge will, in the end be judged themselves. The biggest loss is losing yourself.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by Tessa on 2006-01-30 07:00:16

sex is not bad as long as you do that with the person you love and under the agreement between two person who involved...

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by on 2006-01-30 07:18:03

I didn't even need to write anything, went back to earlier in the thread and did a cut and paste. Ran said, It is bad when you do it just for fun. To be exact, it is bad when you are not yet married and your goal is for pleasure. But when married people do it for the sake of pleasure, it is okay because it falls under the state of marriedness. I don't agree. Simpley put. I was saving myself for marriage and I didn't get the chance. That's alright since I'm married to him. So as you say we can have fun sex, and we do but not for procreation, I already have children and don't want any more so sex is just for pleasure. Also by what you say sex just for fun is bad if your not married. What abotu my friend Wendy then. She has kids, is a single mom and likes casual sex just for fun. What's wrong with that? This is what I mean, Shadless said sex is bad unless your married. You haven't said why sex between singles is bad or why you have to be narried. Back to my question of wearlier. Should Wendy give up sex just because she's divorced? Kaka makes more sense. Follow religion it's bad, grows hair on your hands. Not following religion it doesn't matter. And what about before there was religion, what about then? *glaring* Don't just say good/bad, tell me why? If I were single, divorced or worse, should I give up sex?. No one has ever answered #4 for me. I still get the good or bad rhetoric with no explaination of why.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by hentai-chick on 2006-02-02 18:02:05

of course sex isnt bad... then again im hentai... what do you expect from a hentai girl ~theres no such thing as too much~

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by Mako on 2006-02-02 18:33:48

You shouldn't give up to anything if you don't want to no matter what the situation is.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by eternaltorture on 2006-02-04 19:14:29

i don't think it's all that bad.. i mean it depends on yourself... i wouldn't want to do it for fun, though....

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by on 2006-02-05 06:09:09

ET at this point you're too young to understand why we do it for fun. As you develop physically your attitude may change. Oh dear, I want to say more only I don't know how. Yesterday is was for love, to make me/us feel better and to bring us closer. Perhaps it was an apology from him or just an expression of his love. I felt better afterwards and it was fun.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by on 2006-02-05 10:15:56

This song has potentially on the best lines and you can use anything inside of it for anything, just use your imagination. And my mistake is much too late But your mistake was trusting That out of grief, a goodness comes And love comes out of lusting Then again all of Yoko Kanno's songs are good. Like this one. Just remember though, there is a difference between love and lusting. Sex for fun isn't bad nor is it unhealthy, picking your nose that's unhealthy and more common. Although sex for no reason, not so much, it really does have no reason and it retracts from the overall expiriance. Sex for procreation is basicaly what has to happen eventually. I'm no social darwinist but is a applicable theory, those who don't have the social skills to connect with others, probibly won't spread the genes much. Noy having any children, I can't relate to that particular aspect, but I don't want any now. Mabey in the future but not now. As I have said in the past religion is for controlling the people. Demoting Sex reduces population growth, and thusly keeps the population in a balance. If you want a population growth sew the seeds of sex, so to speak, then you can wreap the rewards of an increased population. I.e stop the use of condoms for a while and you'll get more babies, and in 20 years a larger work force. The UK did it and look what happened, they had a virtualy doubling workforce evrey 6 years, with child labor. Thusly they had a gretor profit every year, unforuenatly that led to overcrowding and horrible conditions. Grows hair on your hands huh, that explains alot. Religion: Rogain for your hands. Your current marital statis should have no bearing really on your sex life, unless your under 21. Old enough to drink old enough to have sex, just not at the same time. Also don't get hooked on either, both can be unhealthy in the long run. (No liver in both cases)

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by eternaltorture on 2006-02-05 10:29:23

ok, lady rin... guess i am too young...*nods* i'm so happy that you're happy, lady rin...*winks*

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by on 2006-02-05 16:50:57

Not really. Althogh sex is sacred.... Cardcaptor Sakura: Blooming Days!: Dreams and Fantasies Becomes A Reality

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by on 2006-02-05 17:09:12

I don't know abotu sacred however maybe I can put it into a persepctive oin how it helps emotionally. You know what happened Friday, after dinner last night and most of today we have been very close to each other. Lots of hands and touching and making love, including sex becasu ethere is a lot more to making love than the actual act of coupling. mmmmm... I'm not going to say how many times, the question is was it enough?. I feel sastified physically and settled emotionally as well as knowing I'm wanted by someone in knowing that in the arguments and fighting we just went through we truly are soulmates. I thnk all of have heard the Body and soul Rintalk. That's how it is when you're in love and in a stable relationship. I know some of you were worried that this could have possible put a wedge between us, and as bad as this is there was one time when it was much worse and I almost did leave. I can't do that. I learned that then and I know that now. I won't leave because his emotional stability depends on me. We both know this from years of therapy. Our fight was awful, it left both of us totally drained and maybe while today was unusual for us we are closer and I bbelieve a little stronger, at least as long as we are together, Ranger and Rin.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by Mei on 2006-02-05 20:44:31

Sex is okay for fun, but I have found that I really cannot sleep in the same bed as someone unless certain reasons take presidence. 1: I am truly attached to such a person in a true, and loving relationship. 2: The person needs to stay warm on a cold night while camping, there is one tent to share, and it would comfort them to know that someone is near them. 3: They are scared of something, or have just had a very tramatic experience i.e. rape, various, and asundry abuse. 4: They are worried about me in some way for some assorted reason.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by cali on 2006-02-05 21:42:45

sex is good it makes you feel happy deep inside and makes the soul refreshed and yeah its a good exercise too...

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by yumeNOnaka on 2006-02-05 22:09:33

dunno, but beside a good effect that has a bad effect... is up to you... *^^*         TYP THE NAME:

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by on 2006-02-11 04:35:48

I like DDs comment, "sex is good it makes you feel happy deep inside" I have to agree with that one 1000% Mei, Sharing a bed whether it is for sleep or not is something that does take getting uesd to I found. At the time I never thugh abotu it only when Ranger started spending nights over it took a few times for me to fall asleep with someone else on my bed.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by YoYotheCananbalisticOreo on 2006-02-12 13:50:46

I want to say more but I will generally start off with saying that as Rin as often reestablished with very real and relatable examples and explanations, "Sex, just is." There are the labels that religion, science, morality, and ethics give it, both good and bad, which I really want to get into but, basically, like many things, the basic principles of: a) too much of anything is a bad thing, b) everything in moderation, c)quantity versus quality, d) product over production e) exitensial value over intrinsic value and others which I just cant quite remember right now. Well, I will hope to elloborate on my whole spiel on the topic when I get back from work and if I manage to say most of what I want. I could give no less because I could give no more. ~myself

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by hoodoo on 2006-02-12 21:58:30

Nobody ever mentions the mental part of sex. __________ dd, How does sex refresh the soul? This is MY opinion. Get your own.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by on 2006-02-13 05:56:23

What do you mean about the mental part. *thinks* Oh Dear! I'ver been thinkg about the mental part, the fantasies that go through your mind, the feelings of mental and physical love, what we are edonig to each other and th elove I feel. If oyu want anymore you have to be more specific.

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by shinjiownz on 2006-03-07 14:16:06

is breathing air bad? ask yourself that and find the answer

Re: Is Sex bad?! Link | by on 2006-03-07 19:23:12

That actually goes along with an old joke, "sex is like air, you miss it most when you're not getting any."

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