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ahm... i'm Catholic... but i do agree with the fact that the church most definetly drives more people away from it than it brings in. andyway, ketsuki, you should tell her before you regret something. get it off your chest, because otherwise you might never be able to.
nya........... hehe.
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the girl i like might be moving away. we are really good friends but she doesnt know i like her. and as far as i know she sees me as a brother. should i tell her or not? help me. cuz its killing me that i might never see her again  |
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Hey I am new in here so help please bear with me in this. Lately I am feeling more depress then I usually would. I came oversea to further my studies and seem to have problems adapting with it as in socially with people. I’m always at my room and mostly spending my time on the computer. Feeling lonely will lead to depression and what more I cant seem to express myself so here it is I’m writing my feelings out and hopefully at the end I will feel a bit at ease. It all started back last year when I was in college. There were four of us guys and people called us the musketeers (well it originally started from four guys) and they are C, J, G and me. We always hang around together and mostly get into trouble with the teachers. It seems that we were indestructible at that time but as they say that all things must come to an end. It started with this particular girl which seems to show an interest in my best friend which was C. At first we would laugh about it and didn’t really bother much. Then I received a phone call from her who is J. Firstly she was reluctant to talk about C. Then gradually she asked me stuff about C and what interest him. I talked with her and she told me that she really liked C. I was surprised with it but in a way quite expected about it. C has a very charismatic thing that attracts girls. So then I went and told C that J likes him. At first he would be saying I am pulling his leg but then I manage to convince him. So I asked him it he had any chemistry going on with her. He replied that he had no such interest in J or what so ever. So what C said I kept it to myself, because I was scared of telling J. As the week’s turns into months, I and J have been talking on the phone for hours just about anything. It made me feel very comfortable when I was talking with her. C hardly shows much interest in her and he is still denying into liking her. That time I had fallen for her but for me I was not like C who is very smooth with the girls. To put things short I’m basically a wimp when it comes to girls. So I just kept my feelings to myself. As times goes by the feeling towards J have been so strong that everything time I think of something J would just come into my mind. It was also that time that C was getting close with J too. At that time I tough they were friends and I trusted C as he said before he didn’t really liked her. Then when I finally had the guts to confess my feeling towards J, I found out that C and J were together and it came from my old school friend. I was shocked and stun by it and I was wondering how long C have been hiding it from me. It happens to be C birthday at that time. I was filled with rage and confusion that I took sometime off. The feeling of your best friend not telling you about this is like taking an arrow and piercing it a thousand times. So from that time my friendship with C have become pretty far apart. *I’m sorry I writing so much and its not even half way though… I guess I would shorten it from now then* Bringing things forward, the relationship with C and J seems to have it ups and downs. It’s like when she has any trouble with it she calls me and tells me. Then one day she called me and told me that she told C that they should cool off and C was not happy and she wanted me to comfort him. I called C and he was pissed and confused why she wanted to cool things out with their relationship. There are times I gets confuse that when she needs help she comes to me and I would just help her to get out of it. I was then that their relationship ended and I tough everything was over. It seems that my 2 good friends A and G had a crush on her as well. She would call me and ask me what she should do. A who was my good friend had a girlfriend who was J good friend, said he had always like J. Then J was confused and also said she had feelings for A also. She did something’s that would really break her good friend is she finds out. Thank god me and A was going oversea for studies and I hope that it ended there. Even when I am oversea she still would then tell me that G is now hitting on her and she don’t know what to do. Vice versa G was asking me what he should do as well. I don’t want to sound selfish but why do I always help people out not that I don’t like to but really deep inside me it is me who really needs help and support. J and G will be meeting me up as they are also coming to the same university which I am in. I am so confused and right know I should be thinking of my exams. It maybe just the problem with me cause I feel reluctant to let things go and start off. I’m sorry for this long post as this is my first and I thank you for those who read this and for your patience. Cheers |
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Chick-Yasha: The situation you describe is not incest. Incest is only if the two people are related by blood, which the people in your situation are not. Jomunga: You should never just "forget natural kids." Better to avoid incest in the first place (although there usually has to be quite a lot of inbreeding before defects begin to show up in great number). Plus, with today's medical technology it is possible to abort fetuses with bad birth defects before they are born. This is one of the few instances where I believe abortion is ok--if a child would be born with a severe brain defect, for example, better to abort it and try again.  |
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who the hell had a crush on me?!? NO ONE, i assure you. *ahem* anyway, i feel bad for you, ryousuke. your situation reminds me of marmalade boy, for some reason. but it turns out that their parents weren't related...
nya........... hehe.
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Jomunga finds that as long as they love each other all is well. Animes like Koi Kaze and Boku no Imouto ni Koi wo Suru show that well, although I didnt watch either.(I have them in reserve.) But inbreeding is a very bad problem. If you love a relatvie and feel you want to marry, forget natural kids and adopt one.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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by Chick-yasha
on 2005-09-20 17:55:15
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She would be your first cusin & your dad's neice. FYI, it doesn't matter to me, but in the long run if you date her & you two ended up being married your childern could have problems. I think it is my great great grand uncle & aunt were first cusin & there childern ended up w/ an extra thumb/finger or two & one didn't have a thumb on one hand.(another had an extra toe) I don't have a problem w/ people falling in love w/ there relatives. But if your blood related then you'll have to think how it would effect any childern you two might one day have. Things like a guy falling in love w/ his step sister wouldn't have that problem b/c you two would only be related by law. Heres a question; would it be incest if a guy dated a girl before there parents date & got married? & now that they are married, you two would be step brother & step sister dating. So is it still consired incest?
Never date a guy stranger than you. If so, make sure he's loaded.
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by Ryousuke_sama
on 2005-09-20 16:43:57
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| Hello, new here, but I'm depressed too. Depressed coz the girl that I feel close to is none other than my dad's bro's daughter. That makes her my sister right? So I can't hit on her coz I was told that it would be incest. And eeewww, no way am I gonna commit that. |
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Haha. All the guys on gendou forums who had a crush on nejigirl just died. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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yeah... guess so.. heh. i think i have a boyfriend! *blushes and runs away, then realizes she forgot to log off. logs off and shuts down, runs up stairs to room furiously blushing and jumps on top of her bed and puts her face in a pillow*
nya........... hehe.
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| nejigirl, you shouldn't be, romance is wonderful |
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guys, i'm soooo confused regarding romance. i'll post a long one later.
nya........... hehe.
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i rather stay drepress forever then to have enjoyed a litle and suffered afterwards. every time i im happy hurts more then when im depressed. |
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on 2005-09-20 07:17:57 (edited 2005-09-20 07:19:04)
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Lucian wrote, I'm not exactly sure what you can call this, but it has to do with knowing when to stop and cut your losses or for protection of self and others. One of the most important he teaches is knowing when to stop because you have reached your physical, mental or spiritual limits. To continue is to invite danger and death. He has written a great deal on the subject and has made me learn it as well. You are correct, knowing when to stop even in life is extremely important and you have just learned that lesson. We also read that post all the way through. I am going to assume you play AYSO soccer. Ky played until he got to old so I was a soccer mom and Ranger was a soccer dad and neither one of us ever like the other coaches or most of the parents involved. It was their not knowing when to stop that caused a lot of problems. We also have the same problem here with too many and inexperienced coaches, most of them dont know how to work with kids. You were not being selfish and you don't have to be able to shoot for the goal. Some people can't, however it seems that you are a good defender. Don't be angry with the Mexicans if they think they're better than you since they just may be. You should see Ranger when wins or scores a perfect shot in 300m large bore rifle or a speed shooting competitions. Ky's the same way, worse. He's 15 and is the fastest speed shooter around here in his class. He's even faster than most of the adults and he lets eveybody know it until I catch him. Ranger said thatm if that coach had worked for him and he called anyone names for any reason, especially children in sports, and using derogatory names like that he would have been fired immediately. no second chance. no discussion; you're fired. He did that to a guide who worked for him once. You were right to quit if you felt you had or needed to. Stand by your decision. Ranger quit his job with the T-ranger, a job he loved, over something similar with the chief ranger. I would also have your mother get with the other parents and pass a petition for that coaches removal.  |
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Lucian, I don't agree with some of the things you said. First of all, your coach is incompetent and an "stereotypical all-american football coach", he thinks that yelling will make the team play better, this isn't american-football. Changing the tactics 2 days before the game was a stupid decision, the team needs to be used to the tactics. You shouldn't have let the other guy advance 50 yeards, using a cirurgical fault wouldn't be a bad decision, since he probably had a great chance to score. You would get a yellow card though. As long as you don't use aggression or try to cheat the referee, it's fine by me. I guess the coach was right on that one :\ One thing I don't like is when people don't give second chances to others, you should've told your mother to say "Either he changes his ways or we want him fired", everyone can change. Either way you would still win Lucian. And yes, that was a selfish action, because of what you and your mother wanted (him getting fired right away, without giving a chance), but I guess you didn't have much choice. |
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Lonliness can easily lead to deppresion. Im lonley all the time yet depressed maybe only about 0-2 hours a day. Anime doesnt take away lonliness but it does take away depression. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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does feeling lonely all the time count as depression?
blar
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well that is kinda not posible Aikya...reality IS suffering. Happyness as you know it is an illusion created by your mind to shield itself from the horrors of reality. (i think i might have said this before.) Lady Rin and Ranger DO deserve eternal happyness. but no such thing exists! They will each feel pain and suffering in there lives until the day they die...we all will. However, they love and support each other so that they share the suffering they feel, they carry the burdon together. so they make life more berable for each other. in my opinion, THAT is what true love is. |
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>.< depression is evil and sucks majorly! i know for i have psychotic depression...but uhh heh...thats me...^-^ everyone should be happy..even though i'm psychotically depressed i demand that all be happy and not suffer this thing called depression..whether it be clinical or not! (oh god the psychologist in me is ranting)...
'It could be worse..^-^ but i have you'
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Yep...Lady Rin and Ranger, you guys truly deserve eternal happiness.  |