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by toushiro-10
on 2007-02-09 04:32:53
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| the one who believe love at first sight is the one who has high self confidences, because he/she knows exactly what kind of girl/boys he/she wants.. |
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hmmmmm........... deep. i only believe love at first sight occurs in shows..... LOL! never seen it for myself....... anyway, it can happen.... i guess, if you're at the right place & the right time..... <_______<
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on 2007-02-09 10:30:52 |
You CAN have crush at first site, but until you TRULY get to know the person, there is no such impulse as "love" at first site.  |
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by zparticus27
on 2007-02-09 20:53:14
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| love at first sight? more like infatuated at first sight...hahahaha |
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on 2007-02-11 06:54:08 (edited 2007-02-12 02:39:56)
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I don't believe in love at first sight. You can like someone at first sight, but not love. Sure, it might just grow into love, but to like someone at first sight, and love that person later, I don't think that's love at first sight. My description of love at first sight is having the feeling of love for someone RIGHT after seeing that person the first time (Correct me if this description is wrong or tell me if you have other description for love at first sight.). Anyway, love needs time to grow, yet the time might be long, or very short. You might need to know much about someone before loving that person or maybe you would need to know much about the person you love. .....Guess I'm starting to get off topic, better stop now... Note from me: You may call me stupid, dumb, retarded, or anything else for saying all this crap without having a love relationship before. .....Did I just wrote all this? Whoa.   |
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by
 
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in movies, yeah..in reality, no...  |
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on 2007-02-14 03:35:11 |
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Yeah.. I don't believe in love at first sight.. as Asder said,, like at the first sight,, yesh.. since firstly we judge people by it's looks.. or i should say.. our first thought or first impression of someone.. If that person has a good impression.. I mean.. if I think that person have a good impression.. (Example: When I first met A who is a cousin of my friend.. I say this to my friend.. "Hmmm.. I think he's a nice person") I automatically like him/her.. but love..??? hmmm.. i don't think so... the definition of love... 1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness. 2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance. So.. it's VERY HARD to believe in love at first sight.. and I don't believe it ^^ since affection isn't something that you can get instantly.. you must know that person.. and you can trust him/her... And.. yeah.. just like Asder-san,, I never had a love relationship before.. so,, it's just base on my logic >.< 
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by zparticus27
on 2007-02-14 03:54:59
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yup i dont wantto sound horny or perverted but it s like getting aroused when you see that person for the first time...or sexually attracted at first sight...ok that still sounds perverted...hmmm infatuated at first sight...damn just repeated what i said before but really how can feel that this person will be the "one" with just one look? |
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by dissonant_matsumoto
on 2007-02-14 07:35:39
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I don't think it actually exists. I often think love at first sight is for attractive people only just because our sexual organs and hormones give us an instinctive moment to act stupid and all of the other stereotypical reactions you see in all sorts of media. Although ---it can in some cases. Could depend. From personal experience, just when you look at a person; even though they aint the most attractive opposite gender you ever seen, there's still a flare, like a spark in other words a gut-feeling. It can happen, but i think people say love is at first sight when a relationship when they first met actually works out extremely well. |
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such thing doesnt exist.   "those who wonder...are not lost" |
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on 2007-02-15 06:54:04 |
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it's just a crush, you can't have love until you actually get to KNOW the person. Seeing someone doesn't automatically trigger the "love" sensation rather it just triggers the trait in which you FEEL like you're in love. Technically speaking it DOES exist, but reality wise, it's a crush until you get to know them. |
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on 2007-02-15 10:04:55 |
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i'd love to be romantic and all..and reply yes to this question...but my answer's still a no.. u can never tell how a person is like until u know them as Dark said^ love at 1st sight basically just means you're attracted to a person's appearance regardless of what's on the inside..... well itz a different case for furry friends...aren't they just sooo cute^^i hav this thing for white wolves..so furry + huggable^^ (oh, and collies + golden retrievers) |
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A person like me would any day reply an instant "No" toward this question. But then, a person like me any day would stay away from topics like this! The reason I'm here is because if there's any feeling I don't comprehend well out there, it's Love. I consider my self to be too young to know feel it toward anyone other than my family. I don't think 15 is an age where I'm going to find 'my perfect match', lol! I thought Lady Rin's story was really nice! I don't know about Fairy tale-style, but moving, nonetheless. Kampai for both Ranger and Rin-san! May you both be happy together 4eva!! (though u probably are ;)) Love at first sight? I really can't say I believe in it whole-heartedly... Most people say it's Infatuation or 'crush'...But what would we describe it as? Wanting them for their body? (which everyone agrees is Lust) Admiring their external appearance? (like along the lines of "He looks..." "Whoa! She looks....") In one glance, or 'first sight' as we are calling it now, we can't know everything about someone, but certain people, I believe, have the ability to send off a type of vibe that gives us an idea of what kind of people they are...(ok that sounds weird)Through this 'vibe', a branch off of human intuition, people might actually be able to get insight on the 'type' of person another is. But otherwise, just looking at him/her, there is bound to be little love there! But it's there - things like knowing someone's personality by looking into their eyes. Eyes, they betray you so many times! No matter what you try to hide, they show your true self! In think from there, things like 'love at first sight' might exist... Lady Rin's case is different - in her case, I would say the love hit her later than she believes (not saying it's not love though!) Perhaps, though, the introduction to something greater was the beginning - the attraction - the pull. But the best way I can describe Love is Gravity - it pulls you in and won't let you go. Seemingly, that's how Lady Rin faced it - she felt it, the spark, and afterwards, understood what it meant. The loneliness she felt in Ranger's absence proves it! I believe Love at first sight might presumably exist, but not in fully evolved 'love' form. But love still is a hole you can find yourself falling in any time, and one thing you never know is: when you'll fall out. I hope you all understand where I'm going with that... Once more, really touched, Rin-san, Ranger! Later, every1.  |
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by
 
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I don't believe in love at first sight. you can say that you love someone because of their appearance and not because of who they truly are. I'm a guy who doesn't easily fall in love with a girl simply because she is beautiful or close to me. when a friend of mine saw someone who is pretty he always ask me if that girl is beautiful. (sometimes they will even follow that girl anywhere she goes! sheesh!) of course I'll say that she is beautiful but not truly beautiful in my perception. love is a decision and not just an instant feeling... actually, I don't talk about this kind of stuffs...it really feels awkward! ^^ its 1:40am here and I can't sleep! darn! I need some sleep! its affecting the way I think!  |
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by totorolover
on 2007-03-04 14:51:52
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No I don't believe in love at first sight. In my opinion there is INTerest at first sight but no not love. I believe that love must be like planting a seed. You have to water it, make sure there's enough sunlight for it. If everything goes well then a flower will bloom and the plant will grow. Love has to be nutured and cared for. So no I absolutely don't believe in love at first sight. |
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by Ryoko no baka
on 2007-03-04 20:48:50
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HAHAHHAHAH!... gomen...c-chyottttooo...... HAHAHHAHAH! *finally calms herself down* lol, I believe in attraction at first sight, that MAY progress into something more, maybe love? *nods in conviction...* @Rea, yeah, I'd love to thik that the answer is yes, but unfortunately, my own answer is a no. ==_== |
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Absolutely not! When you see someone for the first time are you thinking: I bet (s)he has a great personality. Or, That person would make a good companion. Your not your thinking: "wow! she's hot" or " he's sexy". That is the way your brain works. Your brain is trying to tell you,(based on appearance) who a good partner is to pass on you genetic material with. Height, hair and eye color, muscles, voluptuousness, these are all things preprogrammed into your brain to look for in a mate. Love its self is more a intellectual bond than a innate, physical one. It forms when two people attempt to put another being ahead of themselves. Through time and patience, these people adapt to each other and become more compatible. When this type of bond does not happen you get what we often see today with a 50% divorce rate and 5 year marriages. People fail to put another first and that love at first sight grows old soon after. It is lust at first sight that people have not love. Albeit, there are times when that lust turns into love and the end result is a long relationship, but that is the exception not the rule.  |
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I don't believe in it. Especially due to the fact that I don't think highly of appearance. The more attractive the person is, the more I tend to stay away from them. But seriously, love is something that comes after a long time of knowing a person. Infatuation is more like it. A result of hormones kicking in as a reaction to visual stimuli. That's all there is to it. By the time you find unsavory qualities in this person, you tend to repulse it afterwards. As you grow older, you take less and less stock of these kind of things. |
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No, I tend to think of it as lust at first sight. Appearences have always appealed to the human mind at first glance. Like Beatrix pointed out, love comes after you get to know the person a little more. 
So I drove into a parking lot one time and saw this person pull into a handicap parking spot. When you think handicap, you think wheelchair and whatever, right? So it just ticked me off when I saw the guy come out of the car perfectly fine. So then I ran him over. |
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What a cliche question but definitely not an unimportant one. We need to ask ourselves "what is love?".there are many times when I go to a restaurant or the mall and i see a really hot girl and stare at her for a bit and do things to bump into her here and there. if this girl liked me back and we decided to go and have sex, then decided to go for a relationship... does that mean I have something you do Rin? IF you call this love then by all means, be happy, I think if 1 people are happy together than I'm no one to break that... but from here I think opinion, perception, and what you believe in comes into play. since we're all sharing our thoughts and opinions, I'll share mine. I've tried love, I've got burnt. Then I decided I don't want to take another chance again. a moment of happiness, isn't worth a chance of an unhappy ending. that's what i've lived by ever since my burn, and because of it I refuse to love again. am I some emo kid who should /wrist? maybe to you, but I'd say I like to have my guard up and tight, why fall twice when I know how to avoid it now right? these are my thought on love at first sight, complete and utter bull. I'm happy for you Rin but even if I heard a hundred more of those stories, I still wouldn't believe. |