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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-05 00:09:17 |
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Kira@ tell me your addre--/gagged  Gmeis@ Thank you :D |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-06 07:05:01 |
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Yikes... I know. I disappeared again. If anyone need me urgently, please PM me... I should be able to be online quite often in the next month... think I finally got to quit my job. Mo gengai da~~  |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-06 13:09:44 |
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Engel@ why quit your job? are you unhappy with it? o_o.. anyway.. me →  ←Engel &hearts ^^ welcome back ^^ |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-06 21:19:13 |
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@Gmeis: ill give it a go tmrow (if u not hostin) b4 i go out @twinehh: thanks 4 da suggestion! firefox even though i love it treats me like crap...i have a hard time gettin on chat sumtimes >...< @Engel: welcome back!  Part of the new age Gendou RP veterans: Kira, Rukia, KM Revolution, Smoker, Avian, L, and Ryu. |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-06 22:07:00 |
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:O Adel used my /huggg here!  @Engel~ Welcome back. ^^ I assume the job is causing stress, or unhappiness? ._. @Kira~ Go for it! I might not be online much tomorrow until like afternoon or night though. Depends what my family has planned.   |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-07 07:59:51 |
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Well... everyjob has is stressful portion but the stress I'm facing now is not directly work related... is my manager trying too hard to make me do the things she wants me to do and refuse to take in other people's ideas and thoughts and says I'm the one who is stubbon... like I'm her daughter or something... Example (1): Her: This one you do like this! Me: OK. So... I do this like this... but... why is it this way? Her: Don't argue! Just go and do it!! Me: *in thoughts* What the hell! Ask why = argue!! Example (2): Her: What is wrong with you?! Tell me! What is wrong with you?! Me: Nothing. Just that didn't sleep well last night. Keep thinking about work... Her: You hate working. Me: No. I don't hate working. Her: No! You HATE working!! You need to see a Psychiatrist! Me: ....... Her: You hate coming to work and is a fear. Me: I don't fear working... Her: The fear I'm talking about.... *long pause* is not that kind of fear you think it is! Me: ..... *in thoughts* then i really dunno what fear you are referring to since you say is not what I think it is.... Her: Tomorrow early in the morning at 8am, you go to the Hospital and ask them to recommand you a psychiatrist. You got enough money to pay? Me: .... I don't even know what the charges are... Her: For 1st visit is from $50... most expensive is about $70+. Me: ... *in thoughts* I hardly think psychiatrist are that cheap to visit... Her: So tomorrow early in the morning you just go there and ask them to see you. Me: ... don't they usually require referer letter? Her: No need... you just go! Seriouly... even if I don't have a mental problem, i will have one soon if I continue this kind totally not work related but stressful topics with her everyday. The best part... example 2 was after I first submitted my resignation on Thur. On the same day she say she'll KIV my letter and ask me why not go for a short break instead... she suggested 2 days... 2 Bloody days!! What the hell short break is it for someone to totally feel refresh from all that have happened for the 5 months I was there and comeby like a new person?! end up... I accepted her 3 day proposal... though I wanted 1 week. The things she told me on Thur after I submitted my letter was also very different from what she said about how useless I was because I'm green in HR. For goodness sake... SHE was the one who hired me!! And on Thur she told me how I was overall fine and only my health problem (my stomachache which is likely to be the irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and my inability to get quality sleep esp on Sunday nights... which I have had this problem since I was in elementary school I think!) is affecting my concentration on work... thus her suggestion on me going for a break. But during the 3 days break, I'm not suppose to go out of my house, not suppose to talk to my friends (whom she say is bad influence dispite not knowing them) and blar blar blar. I think instead of a break, I feel more like I'm going for jail sentense, rehab or is under detention! And even so, I accepted her 3 days proposal as a good effort to continue keeping my job. And the next thing I know, example 2 happened. The way I feel it, if I don't go for the psychiatrist, I'll lose my job... despite the fact that she say she is not trying to drive me to the wall and is just trying to help me. I've really have enough of how she treats me... and the things she's making me do. If I do go to the psychiatrist, she can (1) make me do more things she want me to do which are totally not work related, (2) fire me with the excuse of me having a mental problem and thats why I went to the psychiatrist. With (2), she can cause unrepairable damage to my future working like. Either way, my sat is over and no... I did not visit the psychiatrist cause is bloody expensive ($139.10 for the 1st half hour) and I was having another attack from my IBS since is that time of the month plus the intense unneeded stress of having to go to the psychiatrist if not I might lose my job... SO is been decided. I QUIT!!!! Sorry to have to make all of have to hear me nag and stuff but... ya. That's what I've been going through for the past 5 months. Now perhaps you'll know why I've rarely been around as time goes by... too much stuff happening at work for me wanna think about anymore stuff after that. |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-07 10:21:04 (edited 2009-02-07 10:21:25)
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Engel@ i hate people that judge people like that and then ask people to go to psychiatrist just because of how indifferent we are than them.. you know what.. i'd just shut myself up and let her said everything she wanted and keep doing my work.. if she can't hold her anger and slap me,i'd just walk to the (whatever office) and say i am quit.. seriously.. ._. i can't deal with this kind of people too.. you know what.. i've these kind of people surrounding me.. all i've done was just nothing.. i laughed because i want to.. i do because i think this is what i should do.. yet you critisize me and said that i am crazy..and all feel like i am his/her threat that i was meant to send whatever you say so hospital to get me well.. seriously.. i just ignore those kinds of people that's just because they don't know me..and i don't have to care about their opinions for me.. cause i only care people that really cares about me and will listen to their opinions.. but not those people that just come by and then spill out the anger on you and said you are crazy.. =C.. you should have dropped the job..or ignore her... it must be hard for you,engel.. me →  ← Engel .. ;_;.. |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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I'm single.. but I never really think about those relationship statues. I'm actually pretty happy being single. I have no urge to be bound to someone [though having someone you can have seems pretty nice]- I'm in no hurry though. I'm fine. 
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-07 22:04:12 |
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Phantom@ Welcome to the single club.. you looked new here o_o or.. am i wrong? xD |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-08 14:26:08 |
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I want to join the club... haha, I'm back d00ds. :D Wow, it's been a little while. Anything I missed other then loads of posts? 
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-08 17:05:14 |
Ehhh.. WOW!  @Engel~ I think you should have suggested your boss to go see a psychiatrist. She seems kinda crazy.. well not kinda, REALLY crazy. Its completely understandable why you quit. My old job, before I quit, the boss attempted to send me to a different department. He also wanted me to train on everything I already trained on. @Phantom~ Hello Phantom, you joining the club? @DA~ Welcome back!! Hope everything is fixed now? ^-^ |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-09 18:07:14 |
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Pretty much, though I'm already facing browser issues. >_<;; Other than that and all of my stuff before the issue, it's okay.
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-09 22:35:49 |
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so many posts...just because it's nearly a week since i was here last XD @danchou welcome back~ :D browser issues? are you using firefox?  hmmm i dunno what else you missed other than that XD @mei not that often huh...wait do u start already? because in chat i always see you just leave... yea shuffle will make us listen to rarely-played song sometimes. XD speechless? if i were her i bet i'll be the same T_T @phantom another single~ wanna join? XDD @engel wth...i think SHE's the one who's supposed to go to see a psychatrist---wait mei beat me to it. lol good luck finding a new job...or maybe rest first. i'm not good at consoling people >_>  @twinneh have you tried lolifox? XD  |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-10 07:56:38 |
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Sigh... she KIV-ed my resignation letter and I didn't have the chance to tell her to just go ahead with my letter so I can go ahead with life. Been too busy for the past 2 days and I'll be on course for the next 2 days and then I'll be working like crazy this fri... and guess what... she thretened me again about "not being able to keep me there" if I continue to be like that... That happened when I used "justify" on a microsoft word doc and because the line has too little words with the next line starting with my long email add, the line's spacing becomes too far apart... which is what WILL happen when "justify" is used. And instead telling me to change it in a normal manner... she went on for like 3 mins regarding something so minor (she too said is a minor mistake... and it being it's first of its kind...) and saying stuff about not being able to keep me. WTH! Seriously... I dunno how long I can take it. *sigh* Welcome to the club Phantom! ... i need a good long break.... |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-10 09:23:45 |
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Engel@ if the situation becomes like this in my position.. i'd just be the irresponsible person and didn't get back to the work ._. i know that i should be responsible person for giving resignation letter and all.. but sometimes.. i might just get fustrated and refused to go to work.. .-. i want that person to fire me (fine.. i am ok for that..) cause like.. if that's what the person feels happy to do so.. (oh well..i phail to make you feel better..maybe worst..sorry ._.) |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-10 12:56:11 |
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[@Kira] I fixed this issue yesterday. I'm using Firefox 3. There was some worm trying to interrupt my browsers from working correctly, but I searched for help (when it didn't crash), and fixed the issue last night before sleeping or so. :P Anything major new with the club? I feel I've missed so much.
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-10 12:57:49 (edited 2009-02-10 12:59:11)
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Welcome Phantom~ *bows* @DA~ Well, hopefully your browser issues don't act up again. Glad to see your back. ^-^ Oh, and I don't think anything new has come up. We do have 2 that have started lurking though. <.< >.> @Onii-chan~ I don't head out until the 22nd of this month. Plus, once I get there, I highly doubt I will start working right away. Err... about the leaving, I get quiet sometimes so I just go ahead and leave. xDD For some reason when I shuffle, it always ends up playing a BGM of some kind. I don't even think I have that many on there, but it ALWAYS plays them. o_o Oh, and its not that she goes speechless. Its that she doesn't know how to put it into words for whats wrong with it. @Engel~ Erk... You might just want to tell her off. Since.. well, its at the point where she is nagging you. I would suggest you to tell her what SHE is doing wrong. |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-10 13:12:53 |
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Started lurking? Pest problem? XD
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-10 18:27:07 |
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I feel like such a bum, joining and then forgetting about this. So sorry ^^; @ Gmeis: Wow, your leaving so soon, good luck with that and finding work! I guess I won't be seeing you on as often after that xP @ Engel: That type of overbearing person really annoys me, too. I can't imagine working in an environment like that. It's a good thing that you quit and not put up with that ill treatment anymore. I just hope you find a new, better job soon. Good luck! Valen--- I mean Singles Awareness day is looming in the distance... anyone have any plans? I hope I didn't bring up any taboo subjects ^^;  |
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Re: The Single's Club~ ver III (Will we ever sing?)
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on 2009-02-10 19:51:34 |
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@DA: doode welcome back bro lol glad to hear your comp is at 100% (mine isnt due to my greed...) @Twinneh: nah not yet ive been sidetracked with a bunch of jrock forums and school work xD @Sis (stel): yup im hanging with 2 of my best buds who are single as well lol @Phantom: Welcome to the club =) @Gmeis: dont go T___T xDD oh yea im goin through some pre-valentines day issues guys ~.~ Part of the new age Gendou RP veterans: Kira, Rukia, KM Revolution, Smoker, Avian, L, and Ryu. |