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Re: lonely life
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on 2007-12-20 13:01:47 |
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I sometimes feel like I've been isolated from life itself. Personally, it's a pretty complicated thing to explain on my side of things, so I'm not sure what really to say here... Maybe if you feel that having good, true, loyal, etc. friends by your side most of your time is not enough, means that you need to find something to motivate you to enjoy life! Try out new things, discover new hobbies, maybe get into some new music, etc. Whatever you like to do, say participate on online message boards (aka forums), maybe really post more and get to know more people around the community. There's many things to do here, but it's best in your interest of things that you choose what you want to do. Having those true friends that are by your side can help you a lot as well, so ask them for advice and support. 
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Re: lonely life
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by
 
on 2007-12-21 19:38:06 |
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I agree with DA san. I usually feel lonely but it doesn't make me sad. I try to find something interesting and enjoy to do (listening music, chatting in ym or posting in forum, watching movies, reading books and comics...all alone) because it makes me happy in my loneliness. I find so much fun and enjoy by joining gendou forum. One thing I learn from my past experience, that we can not depend on someone for our own happiness, even on someone who we call best friend. It depends on yourself. Be positive thinking and your loneliness is not hurt you anymore.. |
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by wind-spear5
on 2007-12-21 19:47:29 (edited 2007-12-21 19:47:49)
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Hey I've had some lonely days myself, so I know what's that like. I have very few friends(if any) in my life, but I'm fine with that considering that I went on my whole childhood without friends. I go living on to a day to day basis, and some of the routines I do enjoy, but that's besides the point. Now I do have an idea of what is missing, I do know what makes me lonely. Now what makes me lonely is the lack of a true friend, and the overall lack of a female companion in my life. Now that's all I can say about the topic itself, and so now I move onwards to another thread. THIS THREAD IS ANCIENT!!! |
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Re: lonely life
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on 2008-01-28 23:45:29 (edited 2008-01-28 23:47:09)
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I've been through this alot of time, its like a daily notes I'm writing down, and see the world around me. Lonely life I guess its normal for some people but so then it isn't what we all really wanted to have. Having alot of friends can help but you still can't avoid the feeling of being lonely once in your lifetime. My life is just simple but then its painful for me to take it even tho I don't know why I need to feel this loneliness when I know there's people I can talk to and be with even if they're real or not, its always a feelings that everyone feels. Its like there's too much stuff missing in your life that you don't know where or how to find it. Sometimes even friends are all around but still the feelings keep attacking you, and its stressful really, and tiring as well.. like you cheating on yourself and putting yourself down everytime you see a mistake of being treated unfair not like the others.. but well, I guess we just need to live and take it.. I just always been like I'm bothering others if I feel lonely and need someone to talk to.. so kinda like accepting being lonely than seeing myself bothering those who you care.. and for me I feel stupid if I see that I make one of my closest or love ones sad, we don't really know how to explain or get out of this things.. crying really not helping anymore but just need to let some tears out sometimes.. so yeah, life's never fair from the start so guess we just need to do what we think we can till the end. |
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| @ kyo-san: ya rite~ i dun feel sad when I'm sad. And even if i feel sad, I won't show it to anyone. that will just make anyone think that I'm weak. |
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Re: lonely life
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on 2008-01-29 03:08:09 |
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The greatest strneght is admitting weakness. If you can pull aid from your friends then do so. That's wht they are there for, that's what they expect. Your pride shouldn't rule your path in life. There are far too many people ready to bottle up and become extreme introverts, what they never grasp is the frailty they become. A wound in the soul can last a lifetime, but even so, the soul will become stronger with the realisiation that it is not destroyed, merely damaged. Upon that realisation, the soul can assess the damage and begin to attempt to repair it. The body regenerates, the mind even can regenerate, so it's only natural that the soul regenerates.  |
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Feeling lonely and 'really being lonely' is different. You can overcome certain emotions when you get older.  |
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by Silent Voice
on 2008-04-14 12:37:15
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| I really live my hole life alone -_- and for some reason i feel like i will never ever be with a friend but still we have a whole life in front of us when you less imagine that you will find someone that person will apear in our life |
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The more you think deep, the more the thoughts get you. If you can't handle it, just leave it. I passed a stage when I had to get a room in the hospital for thinking too much. XD Loneliness attacks us all, but you get over it someday. Cause you don't stay 15 all your life! |
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on 2009-09-05 07:50:15 |
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@Kenta : Wow, I sure respect you now.Live your life, and maybe light will shine and cherish your life with wonderfull things. ^^ Well as for me, I can cope with being alone because I could easily distract myself from thinking too much about being alone.Yes, distraction is definitely the answer to the question of loneliness. People can feel this state of *emptiness* in life maybe because something is missing from them.Either love, family, relations, skills, friends and many more.We just need to learn how too cope with it and Kenta-san is definitely the right example to follow.Do not think of the past that hurts.Instead, move on thinking of the future that might shine some light upon our lives. That said, Rai signing out. ^^ |
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by hawaii 150
on 2009-10-11 13:00:53
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If you're currently working, maybe you need to take a vacation (take somebody with you, the more the merrier). Try taking on a hobby. That could take your mind of being lonely. Try expressing more of your love to your loved ones. Then maybe you'll feel more of their love and care for you and cure your loneliness. |