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Maybe... I like to get to know a person first but looks do matter ^_^ 
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-15 18:12:35 (edited 2006-02-15 18:13:11)
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wow...i'm quite surprised by your answer, spectra, but what you said occurs to a lot of ppl, since most ppl thinks that looks do matter... i also believe in love at first site but, to me, looks doesn't matter... hmmm...it seems like i had written this before...but, oh well! |
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If that were true I don't think I would have ever let him take me home. Thre was something in the way he spoke and a loneliness and hurt in his eyes that I could see. The next morning a lot of that look had gone away.  |
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Maybe yes.... maybe no...  |
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-18 15:01:19
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maybe i don't know!!! oops! that's not true...i was just reading the post below and decided to add that line...hehehe some ppl who are cute or good looking have huge amount of self confidence or flair...i mean "SOME" |
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Maybe no, How sure are you that you claim that you LOVE a person at your first glance... love takes time..  |
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by desertranger
on 2006-02-18 16:02:50
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How much time? Like I met Rin in the evening and the next morning I didn't want to let her go, ever. I wanted her for myself and no one else could have her. It didn't take thatlong for us to wind up a permenant couple. |
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| What Genzo said was right, love takes time so I dont believe in love at first sight. |
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@desertranger: What I mean is that, you should be friends with a person, then you'll be close to one another.. do you think LOVE is all about goodlooks? looks are deceiving.. its different if you got to know that special person more intimately.. My OPINION is that I don't believe at LOVE at first sight.. in your case, its different.. I won't comment on that.. peace! |
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Hmm, tissue paper, interesting. Never hear that one before, I can picture it though. Eternal, it's fine to repaet yourself I do it all the time. Looks, as in how a person appears, are not as important as looks, as in how a person looks at you. By that I weather a person sees you as you or as someone else, and how you precive them. That is as important as anything, because living a lie is not how you want your relationship started, so all those guys who rent a mercedes or other luxuray car for their highschool reuion, a wag of the finger to you. Eternal, it's fine to repaet yourself I do it all the time. Sometimes I add stuff to it as a go along. I like adding flavor to a other-wise bland grouping of words, like a dash of cherry or grape. Flavor is a good way of putting emotion into a series of letters, or in less general terms, posts. Genzo, love does take time, but love at first sight is possible. Albeit, the majority of love at first sight is a form of infatuation, but given the right care and pruned periodically it can grow into something you're pround to have on your front lawn of emotions. Let it grow wild and feed it cigarette butts and alchol and you'll want to keep it in the garage with the tools and that car you said you'd fix. Love also has the tendecy to create certain responses in your head. The moment I saw Whittney for the first time in years I was immedeatly attracted to her, but couldn't tell you why. I now know why, and it makes sense now and a good bit at that. Love is fickle, it doesn't like to give up is spare change, and past relations, even if you ask nicely and offer it a soda later. |
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by "slick" Allen
on 2006-02-19 20:29:13
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yes! i believe! this is the reason why me and my gf met. i met her first time in class... of course, it wasnt easy. we were friends first. then after months, i started courting her. and thats when we started to get along more! i know love doesnt begin that early, but when u get to know each other more, then itll just come, unexpectedly or not. happy ending! we are very, very happy and so much in love to one another up to now. still going strong. ^____^  don't draw! as a knight of heaven i am bound to answer steel with steel. *van draws* foolish boy. |
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-20 16:35:50
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| wow!!! nice relationship going on!!! XD |
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by zero lionheart
on 2006-02-20 16:38:40
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yes i believe because that happens to me with my girl firend and in a i hope not so far future my wife^^
"i dont believe in god ,but i belive in angels because you are here"
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Eternal, there are many such relationshipd in the world. All you have to do is find them. Just be optimistic and nothing can go wrong, be happy and "don't forget to smile always." Wow, when you get quoted you know you've said something good, right sero. Allen, who says love doesn't begin early. You love your mom, well bad example for some people, but you love somone you've known since you were a kid. Love is one of those base emotions, it's only once we know what the feeling is called that we put a name to it. If love was called pain it would still be "love." Love is name applied to a feeling that we all feel at some point in time. Even Kotuso can say that at some point he has felt attracted to someone, it's just what we do with that feeling that defines us. In my case I embrace it from afar, I never get too close to love because I'm affraid of the potential loss of it. I have to deal with that every time I feel it. I know that I do and that's OK for me. I would write more but I have to go, i'll write more later. |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-02-22 08:19:56
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I feel so so....what is the word?? Honored You just made my day, I feel better now thanks DNinja ^_^ (dont ask why I feel bad, I dont wana talk bout it, thanks ^_^) 
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You're welcome sero, as I've said before "I do what I can and sometimes alittle more." Continuation of what I was saying: Every time I feel love creeping up on me I rasie my defenses and shut down emotionaly. It's becoming a problem. You could capmare me to Shiji from EVA and the hedeghog syndrom. I have trouble getting close to others, and I've never told my true life story. Main reason: I try not to remember it. All you, or anyone for that matter, has ever heard is the doctered up and slightly less depressing story. I have no intention of doing so, so don't even ask I won't say it. Although I'm tired of living a lie, I can't help it. Trust me when I say that my entire life is a lie. There are only three people on this plain of exsitance that know it, some may have an idea but never made the connections. I've accepted that, but for a whle it was a source of pain and troublesome worry. Well now that that tangent is over with back to the idea from before. If love at first sight does exsist then it can manifest itself in many ways. Just as love itself can varry its aproach its first indications can be veild like a virgin bride. Only after you swear by it can you see it for what it truely is. Those who have no texpirianced this have no comprehension on what is, or how it can possibly present itself. Yes, love is mysterios, love is veild from our sight, but what isn't. Name one thing you are sure is the way it appears, because that's not what it realy is. Peanut-butter may appear to be peanut-butter, but upon closer examination you'll find that it's made of soy and corn syrup. Nothing's what it appears. There are only two universal constants, one being for every thing there is an opposite to that thing (i.e. love and hatred) and change (even change changes). The most important thing to realize is that aplication is everything. Darwinism is fine on its own but appy social conditions to it and you become Hitler. I could appy anything to anything it's just a matter of the base coat. If I set the stage for aplication I can do anything. I've done it in this post. I've applied psychological theory to social science and it works. i could apply biology to social theory and have it make sense, how, I know how to apply a base. I'm not the only one to do this either, many people do it. You do it too, you just don't realize it. Think of something and inm a few secconds you'll have made an aplication of thought. Think of cake, images pop into your mind(I don't know what I'm not you) those images are aplications of the thought category of cake, or what you precive as cake. You may often find yourself recalling events that had nothing to do with cake, but something related them. You then apply cake to that memory. Thusly that memory is, from that point on, associated with cake. You have successfuly applied something to another. Whew, that's one of the longer rants I've done in a while. That took quite a while think of and type out. About an hour to be aproximate. |
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Indeed application,or even more seriously,Confirmation bias(but I don't feel like going into that right now) is part of your everyday life,wiether your conscious mind knowes it or not. From a biological point,application is usually has to do with the nervous system. The nervous system even causes Deja Vu.(theory) But that is on the extreme. From a psychological standpoint,application is what DNinja basically stated.(i'm lazy tonight) Yes,I unfortunately was close to one person before in 2nd grade. It started in preschool,because i ran out of finger paint and took*stole* some of hers. Well I finally came to,and then Kotuso the second was born.(yay) Well,second grade was funny anyways.(I got angry one time because I thought I OD'ed soemone's turtle with Tylenol.)LOL I don't really need anyreason to elaborate why I don't wan't anypart of love. I've far surpassed my Mental Block days,i've grown,and know I don't need any reasons to support my belief.=) |
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Wow, kotuso you were close to someone in 2nd grade! amazing and here i thought you said you had never been close to someone. Although steling fingerpaint is a good way to hook up with someone, gonna' have to try that. You're right though you don't need a reason to say why you denounce love so much. It just helps us to understand you, and understanding is the key to knowlage. You can never take control of your mind fully, your inability to cast aside memories is evidence enough of that. Deja vu is caused by similarities in day-to-day routines. If you live life the same everyday, then you will expiriance it more often than say somone who lives a more eractic life. In essence the more you live the more lickly you are to have it at some point. The idea of having for-seen events is plausible, but it's hard to make that leap of faith(I haven't don't worry). Yea post 100!!! |
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-23 07:37:19
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dirty ninja: why are you even raising your defenses, and shutting them down emotionaly??? i see that you have trouble getting to know ppl, maybe it's cuz of your defenses, or maybe you're scared of something. you never know, unless you tried. living a lie is not a life i want to live. one day, your story will go out and you can't stop it. it you are tired living a lie, i advise, you to start all over this time, and ppl will forgive you. there's still time for you.if you raised your defenses every time, you would never have love. ppl tried to get close to you for some reasons, maybe, they want to get to know you more, or maybe they want to be friends. give them a chance and you'll be happy. |
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I've had 3 opertunities to start over and each time I've messed something up. Raising my defense is a natural progression from being hurt alot over the years. I've only ever droped it a few times and 2 of them were here. I don't want to live one either, let's just say I've developed a "kotuso" complex towards it. It'll never let it go out if I have anything to say about it. |