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by overlordsero
on 2006-02-08 09:04:58
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We all like to be left alone every once in a while. It is natural. Some people like to be left alone more than others and sometimes people like to be left alone more times then usual. But hey we then all need some attention eventually right? Well that is what I have to say. ^_^ 
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-08 09:42:09
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i agree... although sometimes i don't like to be alone... but, most of the time, i do... |
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| I find it odd,even comical,how human being who tend to have war over silly things,need soooooooo much attention. Social. What does that word mean to you? I believe our mind needs stimulus from the same species. Some people out there trully don't need to be with one person.(or more) They are the true loners,not the wannabes who act like they love being alone and then go to a party. Even I can't be a true loner,or else I wouldn't be posting on the forums now would I? There was a point somewhere in this post,but its lost its meaning. |
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by Renegade Bladesman
on 2006-02-08 17:29:14
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true, interaction between humans is key to our lives nowadays, but to be a loner does not mean to have 0 contact with others, it means to keep a very, very small social circle, i should know, i've been like that for nearly 20 years
Even from the realms beyond Life, Death, Infinity and Eternity, I still see you
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on 2006-02-09 05:51:35 |
well,we have mouth to speak,ears to listen,eyes to see,if we don't mix with anyone that'll be a watse right?let's all mix out :D 
'Que sera, sera, Whatever will be, will be The future's not ours to see,Que sera, sera' |
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on 2007-05-05 17:31:03 (edited 2007-05-05 17:33:23)
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actually, i feel the same like Kimmy. I do have a small circle of friends but you know, there's still things that you can't do with them together. They are fond of talking lots of anime stuff. Well in my part, I don't know much about anime series but at least I'm glad to learn something from them. I used to pretend. Rarely show the real 'me'. I don't know anything much about myself. What I know is that I don't like to do something to others that would hate me. I think, the wrong thing in my part was that I am unexperienced. What I mean is I am not updated or exposed with so much things around me or even the most interesting to me. n_n But I'm trying to be open and somehow start something that's new within me. Maybe because there's something we need that we can't find. What I'm searching for now is a person like 'Tohru'. hehe n_n (i'm serious actually). There's a phrase that Tohru's mother stated repeatedly from the anime Fruits Basket, "Just be yourself. You'll be fine." I bet there's an important message implied from that phrase. n_n  |
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on 2007-05-07 02:56:17 |
Just eat bananas. It will make you feel better. o_O  Curses! I'm too cute to the core. |
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on 2007-05-07 03:45:01 |
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Talk. That's all I can say at the moment. Talk and listen. and that quote: "there will be a time when you will find new friends and you will there in a corner, but when they all leave just go back to the corner where you left me and i will still be there waiting for you." i took the quote somewhat literally. I guess you find good friends in times of need. Then if they leave, just wait for them to come back. 
So I drove into a parking lot one time and saw this person pull into a handicap parking spot. When you think handicap, you think wheelchair and whatever, right? So it just ticked me off when I saw the guy come out of the car perfectly fine. So then I ran him over. |
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by SuicidopoliS
on 2007-05-07 12:43:53
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For those of you who speak French, be sure to check out: Oxmo Puccino: L'Enfant Seul Killer track, talking about lonely people... Amazing lyrics, imho. The video for this song can easily be found on Youtube for instance... .oO° Life's THE CURE, the rest are details! °Oo. |
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Mmm.. Skimming some of the posts, it feels like looking at an old photo album, lost during as assembly. And as the multitude go their way, the book is thread upon and left forgotten in the dusty hall. Are you afraid of being alone, Kimmy? Don't worry too much about the loneliness in your heart. It proves that you're more human and dependent on others that's all. In terms of social circles, anyway. I can't say anything about the love thing since I won't trust people. But don't be afraid of loosing (it's sometimes a sure way to *make* you loose stuff) but don't be foolish as well. How's about you make a good thermos mug of green tea (whatever way you like it) and go to a SAFE place where it's quiet so you can clear your mind? This doesn't look like an urgent matter. You need to know what's important for you and take it. Try to heal old wounds. See different things. Breathe new air. Talking about filthy rich, I hope you contributed to Gendou. <.< No matter what I sound like, Ryu has as much money as the hobo next to you, depends on her family for food and etc, refuses to grow up, has issues with humans. ^__^ Good Luck with life girly. |
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Hi Kimmy, I was looking at the past threads and saw this. I perfectly understand what you mean. I was and still am in your shoes at times. I understand that empty void you have where you feel like the light never reaches you and you don't know where to look to open that window. That empty void you feel is not exactly loneliness but acknowledgement. You hunger to be noticed and to share your interests with people who will understand you. No, I'm not calling you an attention seeker, that's for people who bark their opinions loudly when they're not needed. For you its a matter of finding a purpose and having your friends/ peers share in your interests. Having a purpose in life also helps you focus on the positive and to steer away from the more negative aspects of living. Ever thought about blogging or just plain voicing your frustrations truthfully and openly to friends? On the love side, I'm a believer of fate and thus believe that whatever love life senarios I've been through happened that way to make me stronger and wiser. Although, I have a lot more to say and share about this issue, I'm afraid cramming it all in one post would not do justice to what I fully have to share. Furthermore, I believe more has to be said from your end in order for any of us to fully understand where you're coming from. So feel free to lookup my profile and PM me should you need a person to talk to. I know I do as well. Hope this helps. 
~"Bury it... I won't let you bury it ... I won't let you smother it ... I won't let you murder it"~
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on 2007-08-10 01:53:29 |
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Hi, Kimmy, hEMM... LOnliness, the word that comes to mind. How can i say, it's natural to think that we as a person often suffer loneliness, even though we've been surrounded by many people. i feel it myself too before. it's so hard sometimes, to see that everyone around us does'nt seem to understand of what we're thinking, does'nt seem to understand our position, and the world seems unfair to us. i feel it when i move to another town where i live now to continue on my study. but it disappear as the time go on. at first, i think that i was alone, that no one understand me, and i had to be strong alone. I was thinking that when i'm alone, i'm stronger, and will get stronger more, but finally i realize that my heart becomes more and more weaker day by day. negative thinking filled my head, and i don't trust anyone. as i realized that, i begin to look around me. many people were passing us day by day, there are friends, teachers, parents, even someone at the gas station. all this time, i've wrong. i don't think about others, i just want them to understand me, but i'm not trying to understand them too. this is no fair even to me and to them. when i think of it. i tried to change my opinion about life, about people. i try to understand them as i try to understand myself ,and i try to think what if i were on their position, so there is no misunderstanding happens. thats all i can do, and now i have friends to share my dreams, or just talking about daily activities, i'm not alone anymore. and i'm happy. I'm agree with arcueido, you had to find someone to share interest with you. but if you had the same problem as the old me, i hope that my stories will help you. Just stay strong.  HENSHIN!!! |
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on 2007-09-11 23:52:52 |
It is normal to feel lonely.. we should face the problem instead of crying over it.. Loneliness can be solved.. it depeneds on will power and personal strength. ^^  |
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on 2007-10-06 23:28:55 |
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Yes I agree with pikkichu its normal to feel lonely.. but feeling lonely and alone every single isnt normal at all.. u better tok to ur parents or consult sum friends if u hev one jk jk.. anyways be strong enuf to fyt sadness ^.^ ~banzaii 
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by
on 2007-10-08 17:18:32 (edited 2007-10-28 18:34:07)
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"If you were to choose between lonliness and superficial fake tuppeware use and abuse relationship/friendship... I'll take lonliness anyday. To describe the lonliness I have felt sometimes is similar to "plummeting down a cliff, with nothing to hold on to and your heart feels like its being stabbed, and your stomach consumes itself... like you're going to throw up but you can't. And you scream... but the only person that can hear you is yourself" I would rather suffer this than put up with peoples niceties, their pretentious and obnoxious facade and superficial-ness... makes me cringe...." That phrase is... so true. Its like the feeling I have sometimes summed up into words.. hmm amazing. I fell in love with a Girl once, we were together for 5 years, then one day she just, moved to a different state, without saying a word, Leaves you rather cold and lonely at times, I even picked her over a different girl in which I hurt very badly. Being lonely is normal, at least for me it is, Its painful. But, as you grow up I suppose you get over it somewhat. I Hope everything works out well for you Kimmy, just remember your not the only person that feels lonely. Regards, Derek
Do not dwell on regrets for precious time in this short life i wasted on the past.
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Hi. I know just how you feel with this loneliness. I feel as if nothing in life is important and I have no purpose here. I don't know what to do, and if you find a solution, please bring it to me. P.S. I'm looking for people to chat with online about anime, philosophy, etc. (though I won't do religion) We could communicate through email or AIM. If you want to be my friend my email is ryanjmcneilly@gmail.com and my AIM is Hegemon Mithos. |
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on 2007-10-26 05:04:04 |
| Oh, I have the same experience... I sometimes feel that somethings wrong or missing in my life... I get so lonely when I thought of those times... I try to find solitude (simple, go to your room alone and lock the door). I think life is.... I can't explain it...My dad says that you need to let God enter your life... I haven't tried that yet... I'm so guilty with my sins... I'm not ready yet, I'm trying to find a way.... Maybe you should try that.... I think its a good feeling.... I just know... |
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Well..Kimmy..actually you are supposed to post in 'Depression thread' but never mind~ You feel alone and missing..and was like getting adhere to your timetable..your work.. you wanted to run away from everything ... is that what you think? I'm same as you..i hate this life too..but well..we always wanted to do something stupid right? No one understands you..they would always think that what their thoughts are and the way they do would always mean like we want them to do or what we want right?but they are wrong Now you need to tell yourself about what you need~No man is an island~so you would somehow find out your friends dont feel bad for everything..everything came out for a reason.. you just need to change yourself..or dont change and you will realise..actually it did change alot in your life |
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by salamander
on 2007-12-20 05:31:21
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i cant rember who said it but is a qoute i like a lot "its like im on the outside looking in" i think that is most of us but if you come a cross someone the same and dont relise it you could end up looking in at a lonely sole looking in at you |