Back | Reverse |

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by blightraider on 2005-12-09 01:29:43
Sex is precious. Its the ultimate expression of love reserved only for the one u love most.

@Shimizu Takako
Overpopulation, womanizing men(infidelity) and poly amorous relationships are the problem.

@Yuakara
You are only half right. Your execution made u look immature. Face it! Without sex u wont be here 2day to talk abt it on Gendou Forum.


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by styz on 2005-12-09 02:07:46
Inherently,sex is not bad in itself..it is some of the motives of doing it that are :P

From ordinary human..to a flame master..to Orochi..

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by lady_rin on 2005-12-09 17:25:26
Ran said, It is bad when you do it just for fun. To be exact, it is bad when you are not yet married and your goal is for pleasure. But when married people do it for the sake of pleasure, it is okay because it falls under the state of marriedness.

I don't agree. Simpley put. I was saving myself for marriage and I didn't get the chance. That's alright since I'm married to him. So as you say we can have fun sex, and we do but not for procreation, I already have choldren and don't want any more so sex is just for pleasure.

Also by what you say sex just for fun is bad if yournot married. What abotu my friend Wendy then. She has kids, is a single mom and likes casual sex just for fun. What's wrong with that?


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by kibuddha4 on 2005-12-09 17:33:28
NO. Actually it is proven it's good for you. Yeah baby!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by yorokonde on 2005-12-11 18:34:17
@kibuddha4: looks like you've experienced it.


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by kibuddha4 on 2005-12-11 18:59:24
Kinda hard to be married and father a child without experiencing it. I love my wife, and she loves me in bed, so I have to oblige. It would be ungentalmanly of me if I didn't.

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by yorokonde on 2005-12-11 19:01:57
Oh i see...


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by on 2005-12-11 21:03:57 (edited 2005-12-11 21:04:19)
thE culturE anD idealogY oF eacH ppL iS differenT. iT makeS uS uniquE anD haS differenT poinT oF vieW.


generallY:
seX - reproducE anD releaseS stresS




therE iS nO righT oR wronG!


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by lady_rin on 2005-12-11 21:39:50 (edited 2005-12-12 05:58:38)
whY iS iT thaT peoplE thinkK theY havE tO writE likE thiS. It certainly takkes a good deal more time.

I'm glad the sex thread is still going on. Only it just seems to be is sex bad yes or no.

Yes it is...
No it isn't...
Yes it is...
No it isn't...
Yes it is...
No it isn't...
Yes it is...
No it isn't...
Yes it is...
No it isn't...

etcetera, etcetera, etcetera... esoterict reference to a brodway musical

So let me ask; is sex just the physical act of intercourse or is it more than that. If were going to discuss sex then let's do so. What is it? what it encompasses? Because it is more than the act of coupling or do I need to be more graphic?

Where does it start? It can start with a desire from one, the other or both; You want some, I want some. What then? That's why there's holding, touching, feeling, and kisses. Even casual sex is like that.

I don't think it's a question of right or wrong since it's natural. Birds do it, bees do it, even dirty dogs with fleas do it. esoteric song reference Nor do I think married or single has anything to do with it either with in light of birth control, whether you believe in it or not. We are not making judgements here, we are simply out to get laid and have fun while doing it whether we're making babies or not.

So now it becomes a question how do you get from the parlor to the bedroom (using a metaphore here)? Do you think Ranger and I just run in the the bedroom and jump in? :) :) or do we work up to it. How? Because one day te responsibility(?) is going to fall to you to do the same thing.

Kibuddha said, "so I have to oblige".

Yes and I believe that, I'm sure, so does She Who is Your Wife come into the living room and drag you helplessly to the boudoir to fullfill your obligations or does she have some nice lingere to lure you with. Perhaps you're like Ranger and entice her with a foot massage knowing if you can charm her socks off the rest is easy.

Now is sex good or bad and is it just what happens in bed?????


I'll let you know in the morning.


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by Euphony on 2005-12-11 21:49:27
Make sure to record it so we can study from it. It's for educational purposes :)

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by lady_rin on 2005-12-12 05:54:44 (edited 2005-12-12 05:56:17)
Euphony, you're supposed to take notes. *giggles*

I would like to see a few more posts before I let you copy my notes. Laughter


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by on 2005-12-12 07:06:03
Well it depends.. if u hav sex with yr wife/husband than is not bad~ but with others... that is REALLY BAD..!!

O.o

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by niwa on 2005-12-12 08:52:03
following religion.....married no.....not married yes.following logical......no to all matter......i didn't do it yet coz i am not 18+ and u shouldn't either

Lol Tiem~

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by lady_rin on 2005-12-12 10:21:40
This is what I mean, Shadless said sex is bad unless your married. You haven't said why sex between singles is bad or why you have to be narried. Back to my question of wearlier. Should Wendy give up sex just because she's divorced?

Kaka makes more sense. Follow religion it's bad, grows hair on your hands. Not following religion it doesn't matter. And what about before there was religion, what about then?

Shadeless you're going to have to say a little more than good or bad. Why is it good or bad.


*glaring* Don't just say good/bad, tell me why? If I were single, divorced or worse, should I give up sex?.


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by Kisuke on 2005-12-12 14:13:39
I wouldn't know...lol, so i'll say good cause I wish I did know! Lol.

"Death destroys a man, the idea of death saves him." E.M Forster

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by kibuddha4 on 2005-12-12 16:05:12
To Lady Rin- No I rarely ask in anyway. I don't need to. She just comes up to me, does her thing. Then I know. She knows how to push my buttons. It's funny, people told me that romance would go out of the relationship after 2 years or when we have kids. In 6 days we would have been married for 6 years, also have a 2 year old, still the fire burns hotter than my forge in the bed... and OFTEN. I must be doing somthing right.

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by lady_rin on 2005-12-12 16:11:26
I know what oyu mean. We have been married 22 years, three children and the fire and passion is like when we met. You're also right we do know how to push your buttons. All of them.


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by overlordsero on 2005-12-12 22:00:02
sex is bad depending on how you precieve it.
But forced sex (rape) is always bad no matter what.

I dont know if that was talked bout yet.

I have never had sex yet, Im 18.
It just does not appeal to me I guess, but....
once I find someone I like and most important-
she likes me- and the relationship goes well....
then maybe just MAYBE it will happen.

But im more interested in having some one to talk to, hang out with, and cuddle with.

Light and Dark

Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by lady_rin on 2005-12-13 05:14:24 (edited 2005-12-13 05:16:54)
Here we go again. Another blanket statement,"Sex is bad depending on how you precieve it." Sero where did you learn that?

This is so wrong. Who is teaching you this"?


Parents, religion, school, the government? Non of them are right. Sex is not bad, it just is.

Has anyone figured out what I mean when I say, "it just is".

War just is.
Love just is.
Sex just is.

There is no right or wrong. Perhaps we should have asked the questioon that way...

Is sex right or wrong?


Unless you are celibate or physically unable to have sex everyone is going to get laid eventually. You're going to wind up in bed with your significant other and because of what you have learned you're going to turn to him and say, "But I can't, sex is bad" What then?


Re: Is Sex bad?!
Link | by overlordsero on 2005-12-13 06:48:08
LOL

I personally dont think sex is bad, I wrote that because some people think it is and some dont and they have REASONS for that.
I always look at things from "other ppls shoes".

Light and Dark

Back | Reverse |
Go to page: 0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 Displaying 61 to 80 of 232 Entries.

Copyright 2000-2024 Gendou | Terms of Use | Page loaded in 0.0074 seconds at 2024-12-02 14:39:49