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on 2006-06-06 01:49:03 (edited 2006-06-06 01:52:33)
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There is a quote... while it relates to religion, you can pretty much remove the religious aspect to get my meaning... I think :P "Give onto Caesar what is Caesar's, give onto God what is God's." If you should give respect to your mother, than do so. Especially if it will avoid you the cane for the moment. If you can find a way out to better yourself and progress yourself and you family, then do so. Just do whatever you can to help, regardless of how small it is. There will come a time, however, when it would get too far. My advice then is to block the cane. |
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if you were me... you'll noe!! i've done everything i could!! u think i enjoy getting cane by her?? do whatever she asked me to do... i respect her!! and i love her!! even thou she did all those stuff to me... but i just cant hv any expectation out of her... i dunno what else i can do~ and i dun wanna look sad and depress bcus of wot im going tru in my house... so i appears to be happy and cheerful in frront of my friend... and seriously i do enjoy their company... at least im i got a bunch of caring friends  unity with diversity rude>sweet>naive R.i.P b.u.d |
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Atleast you aren't alone. I am in the same situation with my parents. Whenever they have something to say it gets said or shouted without fight or arguement. They must always be correct because they are older and wiser or some Bulls##t. If my dad has a bone to pick with me then he outright says it and there is nothing I can do. That's why there is more spackle than drywall in my room. And why my door has been replaced quite a few times over the past couple years I've lived in the house. My dad had the sense to give me glass closet doors because he knows I won't beat the crap out of them. Glass is too hard to clean up and is way too expensive to replace. My take on the topic is to just let them talk and understand where they are comnig from. But ultimately leave the decision up to yourself. As far as getting beaten; I don't mind that. The most I've gotten from beatings are more than a few cuts, scrapes, bruises, and black-eyes. I've had a coffee cup thrown at my face but all that stuff heals. If you are seriously getting hurt or just don't want to take it anymore then leave. Most of the time if my parents are that pissed I leave for a day or two and come back when they cool down. Whatever is neccessary for them to understand that you are a person and have your own opinions. |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-06-06 07:44:32
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Well....its over all over... I found out there is no realistic way I can pass a class. and ive failed it before....attendance issues....same thing this time. I dont think even if I do finish everything....I think Im over... You can only fail a class once....second time your out. I did email someone to see if I can somehow do something... I highly doubt I can do anything <_< 
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on 2006-06-06 07:51:54 (edited 2006-06-06 07:54:05)
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@sero Here's a quote for you (I think): When the going gets tough... "Never back down, never quit!" HAA-HAA-HAA! I just made it all up! But I hope I helped you in some other way...
What if I jump out
of this speeding jeepney? Fly without wings Reach for the grey-painted heaven And out into the sea of infinity?  |
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Oh, Sero! Tell me about this situation of yours, I have much experience on ways on how to pass a class with little or no effort. I know some loopholes. Nihonto, secretly plot revenge against your mom. Like hide her cane, put bugs in her bed, or use her clothes to build a tent. Just some ideas. This won't help at all though, just might make you feel better. How bout you embarrass your mom by acting as a victim in public, like talk loudly about how your mom canes you. If rumors start spreading about how your mom canes you she may be to ashamed to ever cane you again. Today is 666. Happy birthday Satan. Its also the anneversary of the battle of Midway.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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wow you do sound alot like my situation...i pity thee what i find works best is to just try to igonor them and gointo some sort of seclusion...do the thigs your supposed to without a word and the go back in your room and do whatevery it is you do...it gets my parents pritty mellowed. speeking of getting money, sioence my dad is laid off form work, it now falls to ME to use my summer job to buy the food and stuff. (when i get a job, that is)...YAY! now they cant bitch about me owning them money! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HA! oh well, ill talk later and please e-mail me if you need anything or want to talk....im really open to people that need to talk about things.....thats why i created this thread!!!  |
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lol guess lotsa ppl hv violent parents!!! jomunga who is the guy u been telling me?? unity with diversity rude>sweet>naive R.i.P b.u.d |
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The post right below yours. The Nightmare guy. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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wow jomunga.. he's life is so like mine wot im doing now is ignore my mum and do whatever she said... nth else... i didnt talk to her... i continue with my stuff bout my allowance... i just earn and save up myself... cus i get only RM20 a week (only schooling week!!) lol~ unity with diversity rude>sweet>naive R.i.P b.u.d |
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Just a few posts to read... Since we're all quoting things I might try my hand at it a bit: "Among other things, you'll find that you're not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behavior. You're by no means alone on that score, you'll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You'll learn from them— if you want to. Just as someday, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It's a beautiful reciprocal arrangement. And it isn't education. It's history. It's poetry." There's my bit of quotation, and a little bit more: "That's the whole trouble. You can't ever find a place that's nice and peaceful, because there isn't any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you're not looking, somebody'll sneak up and write "F*** you" right under your nose." |
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You know what is weird. When I am not talking to my girlfriend I do the same thing I have always been doing. But now it is boring. It seems the day starts and ends only when talking to her. The rest of the day is just like bleh. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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I belive tha I have run into a problem. A rather large one at that. As you all know I love Whittney with all my heart, as you also know she has moved. That's not the problem though. I think I'm falling for her best friend, not good. AS you probibly guessed I'm very conflicted. I love Whittney, but I also like Becca. I seem to get along with Becca more, at least talk to her more and I have fun arround her, but I promised myself that I would wait for a few years to see what happens beteween Whittney and myself. That and Becca is her best friend, I would hate to force myself between the two of them. I'm also not sure of Becca's feelings for me, but if body lauguage and subconnscious movements are anything to go by, she likes me a lot. I've also analized this psychologically and I think that what I'm doing may be just a projection of my feelings for Whittney on Becca because they are quite similar. AS you can see very conflicted, school ends Wednesday and I won't see Becca for either of the two days left so there's no asking her. I have a whole summer to let it steam and build pressure, what a great time to have to make one of those "life defining choices." |
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yea jomunga....you've really fallen for her....that is so good for you. ok, ninja...i think your right....i would approch the situation very cautiously. the most important thing would probibly be to find out her feelings for you...I see nothing wrong with falling in love with her...as long as your not just substituting whittney on a new body. that would be very bad. |
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I'm not gonna make this decision for you. No1 can and I'll beat whoever tries to. This is all on you. You think you don't know the answer right now but it's in there. Give yourself some time to think over this stuff. I was and partially still am in the same situation you are in. To tell you the truth I just f$%kin' gave up. I was so conflicted that it drove me up a wall. You don't have to do that. Just sit back and start thinking about it. Better to do that than blow it off and have it hit you in the face 10x harder. That's my mistake and beleive me when I say it, everytime you put it off you it's going to come back with a vengeance. Wall yourself up, cut your phone lines, break your modem, kick your TV in, burn your books, put on some good music, and think about it. Weigh it, measure it, and make sure you do not find yourself wanting. |
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D-ninja - As primitive and barbaric as his word choice was, I agree with Wolf. Focus, and think. Jomunga - Yeah, that happens with just about every interesting girl I've ever met, especially on the net. Each day is merely a distraction until I'm speaking with her. Strange as the fates would be, they've taken most of those girls away (seriously, it had nothing to do with either them or me.) Now it's just boring and lonely until a new one comes along (the fates were more or less involved in every single meeting I've ever had, strangely enough). I would also think you'd have several screws loose if you didn't feel the way you describe. |
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Thanks for the suppor guys. After much deliberation I've decided to wait till next year and get a real feel for what's going on before I make a move too quickly. I know Becca won't be moving anytime too soon so I can take it a bit slower...like I normaly do. At least you guys get to talk to your girlfriends/friends-that-are-girls over the summer. I spend 75% of my summer surrounded by boyscouts, narry a girl to be seen for miles. I'm stuck thinking, and only thinking, about them. I'm toying with a new idea for my sig, I need to find a way for the 31 laws of anime(which I have in my profile). Good summer project I guess. |
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Hmmmm lucky me, Wolf isn't gonna burst out of my computer screen and smack me. I also dont have any screws loose. Woo! Today my new mic came in so I am gonna actually get to talk with her. Dninja, if it is you I am sure you gonna make a wise decision. Have no regrets. Can't you get there email, msn, or anyway you can just chat with them? I mean so if the move away, doesn't mean you can't talk with them. My girlfriend does live halfway across the world and I talk to her every day. Haha, some accurate 31 laws there. Take that mechs. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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HAHAHAHAHAHA! No worries Jomunga I don't think I can burst out of your screen but if you did something bad I would check under your bed or in your closet =D. Ninja don't act like you're not gonig to get any action in the scouts. THere's plenty of lonely scout masters out there. I'm sure you'll meet 2...or 4 and have a grand ole time. HAHAHAHAHAHA! Just playin' with you. Atleast you aren't going to be doing nothing but working and running all summer long. I plan on not doing any work at work to off balance the work I will be doing while I'm not at work. Therefore getting paid to do nothing and working my ass off for no reason. |