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on 2006-05-25 07:16:15 |
| Of course, there are always people (like me) who aren't sociable by choice. Conversation just bores the hell out of me, especially if it's idle. Three years? That's all? XD Some people simply operate better from the shadows. The line dividing aquantances with friends is a bit thicker, in my book. Hell, I'll even go so far as to say that my bar for being considered a 'friend' is quite high. |
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... I don't exist... people "frnds" just come to me when they need something and after that when you need them they would not be there... and after i helped them they would say something mean things to me (behind my back) i told my self that im dead.... 
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on 2006-05-25 18:43:35 |
| Ah, you're a tool. I'm assuming you're in school, and from my memory, about 90% of the people from school were bastards. One should never be discouraged by the words of bastards and fools. You must not let them have such power they don't deserve. |
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Daedalus, mabey calling someone a "tool" might not convince them that they have friends, just a thought though. yukinosan, it sounds to me like you have the clasic case of 10-year-old-boy-with-a-crush-style friendships. Basically your friends like you because they do talk to you and come to you for help but they talk badly about because they don't want to let on that you may be good friends. It's mostly dictated by how their other friends act, you just need to ignore them and find some people who share the same intrests that you do. Trust me there are too many people in this world for you have no common intersts with somone. |
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on 2006-05-25 23:18:41 (edited 2006-05-26 07:19:48)
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It wasn't my intention, I'm not a fan of mincing words or sugar coatings. It isn't what he is, it's what he's being treated like. He chooses if it is who he is. It's quite possible that he doesn't truly have friends as of yet. By a good standard, anyway. Friendship is two-way, of course. A friend is somebody who can trust you enough to lean on you, and you to them. That belief is at its core, and everything else is just a bonus. It's unnecessary to have anything else, but it would be very nice :P |
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i duno i think im just helping them because that's he right thing to do... nyways.. im dead so they dont care
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You type pretty good for someone without a pulse. Virtue, honor, and integrity are very good things to have. Do not lose them. However you are gonna have to lose the defeatist attitude and a bit of the ignorance. Indifference isn't going to win you any friends in the first place. You shouldn't just not care about it. Because that indifference is seen by the people around you and hurts your chances of gaining friends or keeping the good ones. The second thing I have a problem with is your mindset. If you think you are going to lose then you already have. Keeping things in perspective and rolling with the punches is hard but neccessary if you want to stay on top of things. The way I see it you have a couple of choices. Open up, get some confidence, and try to see if they actually want to be friends. Slump into yourself and throw up the white flag. Or you could grow a f%^&in' backbone and tell those pricks to cram their foot up a$$ and find another stooge to do their work for them. Just a couple suggestions from a disgruntled far and few between. Take it or leave it. |
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Hmm whit flag, I remember a joke about that... Never wear white to a battle, because even when all you have is the shirt on your back you're not tempted to surrender. There's more to it, but it doesn't apply so much. That's beside the point... yukinosan, there is no "right" thing to do. I say that because I don't belive in right and wrong, at least not in the sense that most people do. That sense is that whatever they belive to be against their belifes and their ideals is "wrong" and what goes along with them is "right." It's all subjective, and who's to say what's right and wrong. If you liveed in a world that killing was fine you'd feel no qualm about taking someone's life, subjective. If you lived in a "typical" enviroment then it's wrong, again subjective. The best thing anyone can do is form their own opinions about what they belive is "right" and "wrong" and to stick by them. To change what is, in your mind, right and wrong is not something that I or anyone should do, but again that's my concept not yours. Do what you think is right and nothing more, that's all that needs to happen. Don't spend your life living someone else's ideas, live your own. |
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on 2006-05-31 20:14:04 (edited 2006-05-31 20:14:20)
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| Really, who gives a damn what they care? The power doesn't belong to them. They don't deserve it and wouldn't know what to do with it if they did. The power over the self belongs solely to the self. If you want to help them, then do so. If you want them to help themselves, then have them help themselves. Ir you want a friend, then you find one, because you have that power. |
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(stupid post) sigh Well I'm back in case any one noticed I was gone. Not much has happened on this thread at all. I was dumped, she just wants to be friends. I sank into a depression afterwards and my self-esteem dropped. Now after a while I am just normally depressed. I found a big torrent of Ali Project's music and that helped me out of some depression. Anyways I have just about givin up on an idealistic romance. Tomarrow my sister comes home and is going to try to hook me up with some of her friend's sisters. I know this person and I knew she was trying to flirt with me before. The thing is I ignored her before because she isn't a virgin and is one of the typical "girls" from my school. Really not my type. But I just can't be picky anymore, I am probably never gonna get anything better. She is at least good looking and friendly. My sister may know some others but I doubt there be any as good the girlfriend who dumped me. She emailed and told me to come back and start posting again. I didn't really feel like coming back because it depresses me. But I feel obligated to at least post my current status. There is alot I could say but I am not in the mood to say it. I need advice or help or whatever.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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While I am not happy that you are depressed..."Anyways I have just about givin up on an idealistic romance." is something no one should have to learn the hard way. You know what I have to say about Romance,the d evil's work I tell you. Romanticism itself is evil,it makes you depressed,say "I don't care" about anything but your realtionship and causes lost sense. I lived my life trying to avoid Romance,and I will. I don't want to be "Taught" about the cruelty of Love,preperation is my ally. My advice is to learn and not repat |
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on 2006-06-01 19:16:20 |
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*plays "Friend is a Four Letter Word" by Cake* I swear, I read "typical" and went "eww..." Not my type either, they make me want to induce vomiting. I don't think you really want to just settle for somebody. That sounds like a quick fix. A bandaid won't help you when you have a gaping wound. Stitches hurt like a bitch, but they get the job done right. I say ditch the typical bitch, not worth your damn time. I guess you should really ask yourself "Is idealistic one really worth fighting for, hurting for, even?" Sure, it may never work, buy CANNOT deny that it might. *switches to "Nugget" also by Cake :P* Learn to buck up. You can't tell the future, you have no powers any of us don't have, and we sure as hell can't tell, so remove this "probably never" from your thinking. It's bullshit. Did you predict you'd find the girl you HAD? Ever in your dreams? If not, the fates may well surprise you again. You don't know, so you just can't be discouraged by a failure. You can't. |
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Bah, replies already. One of the reasons I was depressed is that the motivation to live left. I am back to the drawing board now. I really thought my life was turning around. It isn't romantism that makes me depressed, it is the lack of it. I can't tell the future but I can certainly predict it. Realism isn't appealing at all, but it is reliable. Besides, this girl may turn out to be more than expected. I can always end it before it progresses. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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on 2006-06-01 19:44:52 (edited 2006-06-01 20:05:50)
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Well, yeah, you can always give things a shot. I really hate hoping for more out of people quite often. Predicting the future is telling the future. What I should say is you can't even GUESS what's going to happen. If you could, there really would be no point. Fuck, tomorrow you could be dead. I live for that kind of suspence :P I don't EVER want to know what's around the corner (despite planning everything meticulously) I think indifference is worse than pain. I'd MUCH rather feel pain than feel nothing at all. |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-06-01 20:33:31
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jomunga, its not the end of the world if someone wants to be friends. id rather be friends then not know them at all. and yeah....if we knew the future...life would be boring <_< to other peoples, boo <_< 
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If what I predict of the future happens I may just have to take back everything I have said. (Time to make new sig.) Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-06-01 20:46:16
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like they say "be careful what you wish for"
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on 2006-06-01 22:22:08 |
| Oh gods, that's too true. |
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Behold! As I eat my words! *Munches down words What I had predicted came true. bwaahahaahhaa Me and my girlfriend are back together and I will now rule this universe. Yes there are plenty of obstacles, but I will do my best to overcome them. In yo face! Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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shucks...I thought I had finally gotten one. *Kicks empty can across street,Grim reaper pats him on shoulder* |