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by luciolahexns
on 2005-09-27 00:29:32
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nightmare, I say giving up is a good thing. The best thing a person can do is admit defeat when they're defeated! I have given up because guys do not have the sense to look beyond appearances. That... is just a fact of life. No matter how he pretends to accept a homely girl, he's always -wishing- she'd change. I know I can doll myself up and look fscking fantastic afterwards, but it's so much effort every DAY, only to pretend to be something that isn't natural. So, I gave up! However, what's your definition of old fashioned? Are you old fashioned in the sense that you're a chivalrous gentleman? I know plenty of girls who want that in a guy your age. Are you sure to be checking the libraries and not the night clubs? ;)  Diciples of the Greyhound |
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heh, no offense ment by this Lady Rin...but how are you going to help me? are you going to drive all the way up to michigan or something? see the reason why i am giving up is because...well, where am i going to look? there are no girls at my school and mom doesen't let me lieve the house...i dont THINK there is anything wrong with being old fashioned, but its just not practiced anymore. so girls just do not care about it anymore...as far as i can see, a girl would rather be with a guy that is willing to have sex or make out with her every time they see each other, than with a guy that wishes to actually care about her...it makes me sick, it makes me cry, but it is the truth...there is nothing i can do about it. my time MIGHT come...but i dont know...maybe it won't, there is alwayse that possibility. and you said Ya met her husband on the internet? thats kind of interesting, where was he from? i would think that long distance relationships wouldn't work to well. Chick-Yasha: look on the bright side, at least you can get your cable back. (i still dont get why your sister gets a phone and you do not...) ketsuki: WHATEVER YOU DO DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES TAKE IT BACK!!! you love her, you convfessed your love to her, whatever happens, happens... you cannot take it back! Luki: that is pritty sad...i know some pritty homely girls (chick-yasha for example) if you have a good heart and a good soul, i really dont care much how you look. but yes, i will admit that i would like a girl that was beautiful...but that would be only a small factor compared to her heart and soul...thats what is important! the trouble is, alot of homely girls try to hide who they are behind makeup and pearls...that is such a shame... By the way, that is exactly my definition of "old fashioned"...but no girls makes the effort to try and see that...they all just base it all on looks. (don't get me wrong, im not fat or anything. (quite the opposite) i just never considered myslef "hot" or "sexy" or "cute"...i think its a self esteem issue. your self esteem suffers greatly when your depressed...) if anyone want to read it, i even took the time to type up the exact reasons why i will never get a girlfriend...if people want, ill post it here.  |
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by night_link
on 2005-09-27 14:34:06
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| nightmare, wait. Once you get out of your place, there are some things that go by your rules. You said so yourself that old fashioness isn't practiced anymore. |
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA thants a good on Kai, it takes quite a joke to make me laugh now adays! |
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um....i never said i loved her, i said i liked her. i personaly dont believe in love. to me its just that to people are attracted to each other either by looks or personality. people nowdays are only about looks. yeah looks are important, but it doesnt have to be runway models, but you cant look like a begger on the sid of the streets and expect for people to look at you. you have to take care of your self and i dont mean that girls who have tons of makeup on look good, there is no need for makeup cuz that only hides the natural beauty they have. what attracted me about kitsu-chan is the way she is, she is honest, brutaly honest, she doesnt wear any makeup as far a i know, thats good, she is funny, one of the few people who really bring a smile to my face (i dont smile), its just the way she is that makes me wanna be with her. but if does feelings eill make me lose a close friend, then they gots to go. if hell freezes over, i might be able to go see her. and i forgot what i was talking about. "i lust fro the things i cant seem to touch." |
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on 2005-09-27 16:49:19 |
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No I won't come to michigan, it's too cold. I can help by giving you some advice perhaps, or places to look. I don't know, I feel I can in some way. \ I sonmetime wonder what old fashion means. A girl who cares, want's to hear poetry or the words "I love you". Doesn't believe in sex before marriage. I don't know exactly. I do think it has to do with our values, a willingness to understand and help others. Your right there are a lot of self centered girls out there. Women too, there's one in our area who constantly chases Ranger. She doesn't care if I see her nor does she seem to care about herself as most of the time when I see here she's been drinking. girls suffer from the same problems boys do. Don't shut them out just because you are not succesfull now. I'm a little confused this afternoon. Excuse me.  |
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by luciolahexns
on 2005-09-27 16:52:31
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nightmare, I've got fantastic news! (and it doesn't involve car insurance.) there are LOTS of girls out there who don't want to make out every chance she sees her guy. I, for one, hate my current S.O. who thinks that's what it means to date... *rolls eyes* (What's worse is that "no" doesn't mean "no" and subtle hints don't work AT ALL.) it's depressing, it's like that's all there is to life?!!? it PISSES me off that guys are so shallow around here! so my news for you is that I know there are other girls like me out there, and there have got to be one or two in Michigan - just wait, she'll find you! don't ever change your mind, though... I can tell you from experience that the girl you're looking for is the best kind of girl to have. That being said, if you were older and I lived in Michigan, I'd give you a call! But you'll have to track one down up north, seeing as time travel and Michigan is just not in the cards for me. Good luck in trying to find your non-nymphomaniac girlfriend! Diciples of the Greyhound |
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Old fasion is hmmmmm Falling in love, holding hands, saving the first kiss, sex when both made a promise of eternity(doesnt mean marriage, but you must know that youll be together forever.) Spending every second together you can. Im sure there is more to being "old fasion" than just that. Make up is all right when they do it to impress friends or raise self esteem. I dont like the use of make up just to make you more attractive to guys, unless its thier boyfriend. Im old-fashion guy, so why not there be old fashion girls. Anime made me old fasion, so maybe shoujo otakus are what you should look for. I dont know how many there are in Michigan. You see so many old fasion style girls in anime, so its bound to rub off on people.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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heh, like i need car insurance... Rin: thank you for the offer, i need all the advice i can get right about now... Luci: thank you...wait, where do you live? jomunga: heh your view of old fashiond is a good one...and yes anime can rub off on people. ok, i think i know my problem...the reason i don't think i will be able to get a girl like that, the only thing that makes me believe that they don't exist...is ... I HAVE NEVER MET ONE!!! that is to say I DO NOT GET OUT ENOUGH TO MEET ONE! i think that that is my main problem...i can never meet any (save for the net) like my parents wont even let me join an anime club...heh it alwayse seems to come back to them...ugh am i going to be screwed like this forever? so you see, for me, it is only a dream... ugh, the morons at school foiund my myspace...this is going to be crap...i HATE it when people make fun of me... |
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by luciolahexns
on 2005-09-27 20:17:10
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Heh... I live a leeetle bit too far away to be considered 'in the race.' Diciples of the Greyhound |
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i wont tell kitsu-chan anything, i wont even call her anymore. im tired of it. i (just like nightmare) give up. i joined the club. i feel pain that i havent felt in a long time. me and her used to always talk on this site that we were both on, but as of now, i quits it, and as for seeing her at school, it wont happen either, i only got one class left to graduate and after that class is over, i will leave school, i wont stick around just to hang out any more, i wont stay in her class anymore, i wont go where i know she goes, and if she evers wants to talk to me again she will text me (like thats gonna happen.) and i just found out that she is in this site too, i was going trough my stuff and found this note i had written where it reminded me that she was the one that told me about this site. isnt that just great?! (notice the sarcasm) so if she ever read this she will know how i feel, but i dont think that will happen. I FEEL PAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. "I LUST FOR THE THINGS I CAN'T SEEM TO TOUCH." |
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by desertranger
on 2005-09-28 11:02:30
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Falling in love, holding hands, saving the first kiss, sex when both made a promise of eternity(doesnt mean marriage, but you must know that youll be together forever.) Spending every second together you can. Im sure there is more to being "old fasion" than just that. That's Lady Rin. I also had a problem getting her to marry me. Not between us but between her family amd me. I did not give up. Don't give up. Girls are fun, kissing is fun, love us fun and sex if fun but you can't do it alone. I wasn't looking for a second wife, I wasn't even looking for a girlfriend, I wasn't even looking to get laid that night. Then there was this girl. Very cute, very pretty and OMG she talked to me. She liked me enough to allow me to take her home. I didn't realise at the time how much she liked me. Stick yo your guns and don't give up. |
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by night_link
on 2005-09-28 12:15:38 (edited 2005-09-28 12:17:17)
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I can understand your desicion ketsuki, but what happens if she does want to talk? I'm not saying to stick around your whole life and see the results, but if she did want to talk, you'd be the one that ended the relationship by giving up. Sometimes people take longer than usual to make up their mind about something. Do you remember before how you asked people for their opinions as to whether to talk to kitsu-chan and you still couldn't make up your mind for a while? On the other hand, if she thinks that your guy's relationship is over, then that's that then. I'm just saying wait a little longer ketsuki. From what you've posted about you and kitsu-chan's relationship, I know this isn't a relationship you can make sudden choices about and regard it as over or whatever so quickly. |
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by Ryousuke_sama
on 2005-09-28 15:38:40
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| Before, I said something 'bout liking my dad's niece. I late found out that Karen {my cousin} liked me too and didnt mind the fact we are cousins. Problem was we live in different countries. She was thinking of coming to where I am to study at uni, and then we can go out. But she doesnt know when and now she cant wait for me anymore and the whole thing has been called off. I'm so disappointed that I couldnt be where she is. Damn, Karen's the first girl who said she likes me (not as a cousin). |
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by night_link
on 2005-09-28 16:04:35 (edited 2005-09-28 16:05:12)
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| I'm sorry to hear that Ryousuke_sama. But later things might change for the better so that it might work out later. But what countries are you guys in? |
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by Ryousuke_sama
on 2005-09-28 17:13:18
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| My cousin is in China, and I'm in Sydney. Karen says she likes me enough to risk our family being angry with us, but not enough to wait around for me to come to her or her to come to me for ever. Well, she's 14 yrs old afterall. She also said someone she had like before but didnt like her then is now going after her, so she said she cant wait for someone she cant see any more. Patience can be a virtue and a vice, coz I have all the patience in the world coz I'm older than Karen while she doesnt have it. |
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patience, patience is something i sometimes got. im old but im also a child, very confusing. i think that your cousin is still to young to want to wait. long distance relationships never work. trust me, i been in a lots of them cuz i moved so many times, but yeah, they never work. i got on about ten minutes ago, kistu-chan is online too, she hasnt said anything, i dont know if to talk to her. i want to, but then i will say something stupid, i will screw up so its better if i dont say anything to her until she talks to me. even though i think our friendship will never be the way it was. i love this pain that i feel right now, it makes me realize that no matter how old i am, im still a child in the inside. |
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forget kitsu-chan, i just had a fight in my house, with my stepdad and he just kicked me out the house, but my mom doesnt want me to leave, he is just fucking stupid, he dont know that i got a lot shit on him that could land him in jail, and he pushing my bottons way to hard, and normaly when something like this happened i would talk to kitsu-chan, but now i gots nothing. this feeling its better then before cuz now im pissed, sad, and im enjoying it way to much. i know im wierd and thats fine with me. |
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that dumd bastard went to sleep. he dont got the balls to tell me anything. and about kitsu, i stopped, like i said, i quit, if she wants to tell me anything she knows how to reach me, so if she hasnt i know is cuz she dont want to tell me anything or she has nothing to say to me, either way, i dont regret telling her, im gald i did, so whatever happens happens. and she is on this site, so i hope she dont read any of this, and if she do, oh well. i was so ready to beat the shit out of my stepfather and the bastard went to sleep, now i gots all this energy flowing trhough my body, its just fucked up, i was so ready. (by the way, i dont like to fight, but when i get pushed i push back. im not a violent person) |
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by night_link
on 2005-09-28 21:08:33
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| It's only natural ketsuki about anger. I'm a fighter only when I want to be. I had my experience of that against my dad too. Sometimes I couldn't feel physical pain that way. But don't let it get in the way of your sleep. |