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on 2009-05-06 12:09:27 |
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the hell, no. That "love" never last long. It will fade away eventually. It only happens in fairy tales.    |
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on 2009-05-06 12:36:06 |
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Even if I wanted to say "no" to this question, I'll be a bit stubborn and answer that maybe I do believe after all. How can I prove it? Kinda hard, long dumb story, I hate thinking of it the most. |
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on 2009-05-09 07:44:21 |
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My simplest response to this is "no". I pray that I will not be perceived as a loveless, godless heathen. But I will explain: I am a man of facts. I will speak from experience (which is very subjective) and do my best to get my point across. I do not expect people to readily accept my word as gospel truth but I will try to make as much sense as possible. If you see a flaw in my logic, then please do speak. The concept of "love at first sight" is difficult, at least in my perspective, to truly determine. It is easy to justify that such a claim simply by showing a relationship that worked out after fulfilling the requirements of "love at first sight". However, my point here, would be 'how can we say for certain, that without a doubt, what we feel at this instance is truly love'? Just because that you felt a pang in your heart or whatever symptom it may have been AND the relationship worked out means that it was in fact love you felt at that given moment. It could just as well have been infatuation, lust, alcohol or whatever factor that eventually led into genuine love. I am not ruling out the possibility, mind you. But I'm a believer that true love is something that doesn't happen at a glance. I believe that love is something that is planted through whatever method then nourished and taken care of. After which, that seed blossoms into the most wonderful emotion of all.
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I don't believe in love at first sight, but lemme tell you something interesting. Even after over four years, my girl can STILL make my heart race and my stomach jump (give me butterflies). If that's not love, I don't know what is... |
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on 2009-05-10 21:10:30 |
| dood, that's so sweet T___T ♥ |
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on 2009-05-14 00:49:37 |
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I have to say I do believe in Love at first sight. Now, this is -very- debatable, as something I hear often is the only thing that makes you feel love at first sight are looks and such, and it's more lust then love. But I disagree, only because there are times when you meet or see someone you've never met, or maybe even talk to a person for the first time when meeting them, and you get a feeling that you know they are special. Some say it's lust and not love, some say there is no love, and some say there is of course no love at first sight. But, for me, I think I live to believe there is because it proves there's something beautiful/special out there for everyone, and they just have to see it. Yea, Ok, Shuyin shutting up now x.x; |
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on 2009-05-18 19:19:44 |
| yes and no when i first fell in love it was more like a crush..but this year i saw my freind jesse and fell in love with him at sight..we,ve been going out for six months now and even if he makes me mad i cant stay mad at him the way he smiles the way he laughs.we make connections easily and we also can be weird we have a good relationship butim going to have to leave to washington and i live in california so i wont be able to see him and it hurts...uh sorri too much info |
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on 2009-05-18 20:43:25 |
| I think it's different for everyone..well for me it is absolute NO~..coz what's to like in a first glance? Most probably looks..coz if the guy/girl is good lookin,then what's not to like eh? :D |
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on 2009-05-19 06:57:32 |
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Yea it's different for everyone... but i think it's not easy to love someone at first sight..if interest maybe yes.. for me it's impossible to love someone at first sight... 
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I don't really believe in love at first sight. You might think that someone looks interesting/cute at first sight, but can we really call this love? I don't think so. I think that a relationship might start after "seeing" someone that looks interesting/attracting to you if you talk to her/him, etc, but I don't think you can really fall in love (a serious long lasting love) without knowing the person. If you do, it seems a little superficial to me, because it is based on your vision of the person (which would most likely be biased, since you don't KNOW the person yet). Moreover, love is tricky and complicated. Sometimes we might think we are in love, but it might be a mere crush or some deep and inconscious need to "find someone to avoid being alone" (I know what it is, I've been through that before XD). I think that nothing serious can be build through looks and apparences alone: there has to be a connection, communication. It might start by thinking the person looks interesting, but there's no guarantee it'll work or it's serious. Little anecdote on that subject: When I started college, I spotted that funny looking guy that looked interesting and that seemed to subtly follow me around once or twice (might've been me though XD;). I felt something funny the first time I saw him, a strange feeling inside that made me want to talk and meet that person badly, get to know him. The guy was in my program, so I thought I might see him more often, that I had a "chance" to meet him. Turned out we never had any classes together, and I barely saw him anywhere. I did see him sometimes here and there, and everytime I had that funny feeling, but I never talked to him. During my second year of college, I discovered one of my friend from the semester before was going out with him...and the guy turned out to be a real jerk! He completly used her and then dumped her when he didn't need her anymore (and she was hurt because it was serious for her). Later, a friend told me he knew that guy and that he had a screwy personality. I was shocked, and kind of glad I never talked to him after all XD -End of personal experience rant- 8D;
I want to breathe, let me be your air
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on 2009-05-22 22:45:06 |
Love at first sight huh? I dont believe in that..Maybe you like his/her face..or she's cute!!his cool!!..But it's not love right? And you dont even know whether he/she is really your type..-.-.. 
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| hmm... yeah. I agree. I won't believe it until I experience it, myself. But I do believe in obsession at first sight. |
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on 2009-05-27 19:22:16 |
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no. not at all. that's crazy, no offense to those who believe
-ranheaven
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on 2009-06-23 09:09:40 |
I don't believe in love!  |
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on 2009-06-23 17:30:20 |
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probally i guess.. XDD my "love at 1st sight doesn't end well.. TT_TT the pain..>.< the horror..>.< |
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on 2009-06-23 18:00:30 |
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Well, I believe love at first sight all depends on the person's personality, for example I'm not a love at first sight type of guy, but instead I would either hang out when them go out on a date and see if I get that spark from love, if I do I would go deeper into the relationship. |
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by ShinnAsuka
on 2009-06-28 05:07:48
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Well, personally I do believe in love at first sight... It happens, really, but just like a flower that blooms quickly, it would quickly wilt as well... Unless the proper amount of love and care is given to it, where only then can the flower bloom and the spark of relationship can grow into something lasting... When you see someone that just simply took your breath away, it's not yet love in the fullest but still a gem that when polished with would sparkle beyond the stars that line the night's sky. To put simply: Love at first sight is a chance, take it, face it and love would finally be yours |
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on 2009-06-28 08:51:03 |
I don’t believe in it. I think that love is something that is more likely to build up over time. You may feel attracted to someone at first site but it’s only physical as you can’t possibly know them. As you get to know them you may lose interest or gain interest. I think it is also impossible to not know how much you love someone until something threatens your relationship.  |
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on 2009-06-28 09:09:03 |
Yes, I do. I mean it's not something that could happen everday, but i do believe it could happen. 
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| I kind of do. Love at first sight is more of a rare thing now than it used to be, because now there are just too many social barriers between people in majority of cases. |