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i am having the best day ever!! 101% on my math test AND advent children is on boxtorrent, its a good day! seki: as the person who originally created this thread, i wish i could have just delted his post, but i disided to get pissed and tire my fingers out...as for music, try Gregorian Chants...i LOVE them, they are VERY peaceful, callimg, i meditate to them...check them out! once, i got really mad and took my grandfathers knife and took it to a box...the box flew apart and i felt better...(my gradfather (mother's side) was a tank driver in WWII, he picked up a knife of of a dead german soldure and gave it to my father as a "congradulations for marring my daughter" presant. then Dad gave it to me...the thing is more like a short sword than a knife, its like 1 1/2 feet long! its kinda like a macheti....and it is VERY effective agenst cardboard....heh  |
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by night_link
on 2005-09-12 11:45:00
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I tried the knife and the cardboard box once... the knife bent... at least it wan't wanted anyway... I'm not trying to be funny here. I like it how you described it that unless you are hugged you want destruction on everything in sight Seki. I'm picturing it and my reaction would be to let go of all hate before you hurt that person or thing (I'm talking about if a pet was nearby, but most likely, it would've taken cover already). It would've dropped in an instant for me. But for me, a lot of people are just adding to the problem wheneverit happens to me. I'm still trying to think of something though. If yelling with your bed covers doesn't work and you can't let it out inside or outside the house... Washing your face with cold water? Or maybe the cold atmosphere outside can work... |
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Try destroying things that are hard to destroy. It take you a long time to rip a large book in half. A knife and a cardboard box is always a good combination.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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| Yeah, I do that Old Man Kai, when I'm in the latter stages of anger music kinda calms me down. But what do you do when you are in the initial stages of anger, when you are ravin mad, that unless a chick comes and hugs you, you wish to destroy everything in sight? sometimes i get those, and I cant let it out in anyway which is a problem. I cant start yelling in my own room with door closed, nor can I bang the chairs or hit the cupboard down. I always just need to release that anger but I really dont know if I can do what everyone suggested when I'm in the initial part of anger. |
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ahm, well, i don't know if any of you would be interested in looking at it, because as a warning: it is my journal. and i am very honest in it. i don't know, maybe it's a good way of you guys getting to know me, but i'm just warning you... my xanga's username is neru_no_kitsune.... so, yeah... hehe.
nya........... hehe.
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| andreyev does have a point though, there are much more people with bigger problems than anyone else in this thread.... |
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by night_link
on 2005-09-10 22:33:41 (edited 2005-09-10 22:38:11)
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| Seki I was going to say music... Don't forget music to calm yourself. Also I seemed to have missed a lot since my last comment. I'm sorry, I don't have too much time to look back but can anyone explain to me what is happening? |
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| oops, didnt see it. Thanks oldcrow. Nejigirl, wat's the address to your xanga? |
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The post is still there, Seki, it's just further down the page. When I read your post, I checked to make sure.  |
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hmm.... i don't pay for my xanga!!! oot. i just saw Red Eye. Everyone come and see it with me again, it was really good!
nya........... hehe.
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| wat happened to andreyev's post? I would have wanted to see what he actually wrote. Gendou, did you take the post off? |
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Andreyev, what's your problem? It's like you came on to this thread specifically so you could tell everyone that they're worthless and should all die. In short, we live in America and not the Sudan so we should all be happy and what's our f$%ing problem anyway. Well you know what? None of us want to hear it. If you don't have anything positive to say to anyone then why the hell did you post on this thread in the first place?! Everyone should be happy-happy, huh? Tell me, did you even bother to READ the thread to find out WHY people are posting here in the first place? I'd bet that you didn't, because if you did I fail to see how you could still keep that moronic attitude of yours: you'd have to be the world's biggest asshole. On the other hand, judging from your post you very well could be the world's biggest asshole, and I wouldn't be surprised. I'm tempted to make an "andreyev sux" thread, but I have a feeling that Gendou-sama would take it down. So I'm just going to hope you read this and realize what a jerk you're being. |
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ok andreyev, first off, i just want to say. your an asshole, do you know that? you are quite litterally telling all of us to die because we are depressed...do you realise that (thearetically) if any one of us commited suicide, our blood would be on YOUR hands? (at least in the eyes of God) you are calling us weak. i take EXTREEM offense to that. i believe that we are strong because we have the courage to seek help when we need it. then YOU come along and hit us all below the belt with THIS! i have seen some pritty stupid posts on this forum...but THIS takes the cake. i belive that YOU are weak for kicking us when we are down! I suppose that you consider yourself one of these "strong-hearted men?" i suppose that you consider myself and my friends here "Crybabies?" well i would love to see just how much willpower you have! I can imagen how embarising it will be to lose to a "crybaby". i don't think you have any dignity, kicking people when they are down, you make me sick! we try to change the world, but this world is beyond saving...the people of this world are so obsessed with physical things that they forget what it means to be human...YOU are one of thoes people! "NO!" you say? well you mention: i see billions of people starve, those who don't have anything to eat, don't have any money, don't have any cars and driving licence, those who suffer khwarsiorkor, or marasmus, those who have to sell their bodies just get some money to spend on food, they are far better than some crybabies i just happened to know. well, i would gladly give up my food to thoes less fortunate than myself. I do not have money, I do not have a car or drivers license, the people that are poor, starving, homeless, sick and dieing are BLESSED! they suffer now so that they will not have to in heaven. i would GLADLY change places with them! See, you are too blinded by material matteres that you neglect to see that WE ALSO SUFFER!!! not form material poverty, but from emotional poverty. do you think we ASKED for this? do you think i ASKED for this depression? did nejigirl ASK for an alcoholic mother? did any of us AKS for our problems? NO!! but we come here because sometimes our burdens become too heavy. we need to lean on one another, just like a starving family shaires its food, we share our minds to make life more berable. the truth is, we HAVE opend our eyes to the world! we see the horres of this planet, we see the horrers of our own lives, be they physical or mental. just as your example of those who sell themselves for money for food, they depend on others of survival, WE depend on each other for OUR survival. YES living in a rich country HAS made your mind twisted...you consern yourself to much with material needs that you neglect the emotional ones... excuse my language and anger, friends...but it MUST be said... |
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whaw....56 posts sience i posted last....im glad my thread is helping people!!! i think most of you know my method of reply... Wolf: im glad that you understand why some of us need this, yes it DOES help to read the ENTIRE thread...i created this as a haven for people who need a little uplift and advice from the world...and its working...im proud of it. Negigirl: calm yourself, your only 16, you don't need to know what you want to be RIGHT THIS SECOND...(heh right oldcrow?) Chosen One: you joking right? open your eyes man! the world sucks, your just too caught up in the "happy fun time" *shrugs* he'll learn... Luckin: whao...just whao...sorry i cant help you, i just really dont feel like reading big posts...no offence...ill read them when i have time. Kazuki-kawaii: your friend sounds alot like one of my friends situations...if your worried that he might hurt her...talk to her about it. otherwise leave her alone. Sai: Glad to help man! andreyev: ill deal with YOU later (next post) well, my parents have now officially said that i am "ours until your 21, so youd better get used to it!" i thought the emancipation age was 18 in the US? AND today they wouldn't let me go to the movies with my friend because there wernt going to be any parents present...when i protested (im almost 17!) they forbade me form going to the movies until further notice...ugh. i REALLY wanted to see "the Excorcicm of Emily Rose"....oh well, on a lighter note, i purchaced the cloath for a new cloak...AND i found this really cool looking dagger at the store...now all i need is $20...heh |
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Get a freakin punching bag. Nothing works better and its fun. I use mine every day and they last a long time too. Or go to the gym. Dont release your anger by cuddling a cute animal. It never ends up well. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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by night_link
on 2005-09-10 13:06:48 (edited 2005-09-10 13:07:04)
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Seki, I usually write and now sometimes I draw (not just anime, but whatever comes to mind) whenever I'm in that frustration. It's hard and wierd, I know, but I have to put the frustration somewhere else. Umm... I know people's methods differ from everyone else, but I had to stop punching things now since I already broke too many things because of my emotions. |
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| btw, have any of you get the feeling where inside you have the urge to yell out as loud as you can in frustration or want to cry til tears flow like the river in feeling depressed? How do you get rid of that urge? So many shit stuff happens to me before and I always felt I wanna yell or cry but having been raised in my family I just couldnt do it or I aint allowed to inside the house (and outside pplz would think you are weird or a freak so no matter where I cant let things out) |
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For anyone who are interested, my blog address is http://spaces.msn.com/members/darimus/ Nejigirl, wat's the address for you xanga? Btw, two of my cousins use xanga too, but you have to pay for it (otherwise no uploading photos) so I didnt use it. Coz for MSN users, the blog is given to all members for free. |
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Kazuki, good to know you will make a right decision. ...what the hell is a Xanga?? |
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to put it bluntly, MOST (i emphasise on MOST) blogs are just scratching posts for people to whine.
Veni, Vidi, Vici.
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