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alvin promised me to visit me everyday because to him, i'm ONLY his bestfriend..... about kristine and kelvin.... kristine absolutely HATES kelvin and kelvin absolutely LOVES kristine..
^v^ "Kawaii!!!!"
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Hey, Kimmy... I know how u feel. I used to be like that when I moved to another school when I was small. Everything was so lonely... I dont really know the reasons, but something was empty. But that didn't last very long. Because I became friends, or more like best friends with this very wonderful person. U know, u can always be his friend too. He will accept u as his best friend, no matter what people think of u. No matter how ur friends betray u. He, won't betray u... for sure. U can trust him for whatever reason, and He'll make u feel complete. And u can just feel free to talk to Him at any hours, any minute, any time in ur life. He'll be there forever, waiting for u to come to him. Hey, Kimmy, His name is Jesus. Are u a Christian? It's okay if u r not. I'm not telling u to be one, and I'm not preaching u either. Being just a Christian is not enough. U have to know Him deeper, and be His best friend. Hey, the reason I'm telling u all of these, is because.... well, it's just, that u sounds so lonely, and I think Jesus is just what u need in ur life. Just call him, "Jesus, I wanna be ur friend." He's not there for u to worship him...etc... But He's there, to be ur best friend. U can talk to him, about everything, and it's just like having a really good best friends. And u know what, if u really believe in Him, He'll anwer u, just like 2 best friends communicating. And what's best? It's not just a short term best-friends, relationship... If u just be His best friend, then it'll have no end... And unlike other people, who sometimes only pretending to care, or tired of listening to ur problems... Jesus is not like that. He'll listen about everything, every depression that u have right now, and He'll heal u in a magical way, that u can never imagine. Just give it a shout, and u'll know the difference. I tell u this, just because I was just like u, and I experienced a dramatic change in my life, after He became my best friends. U might as well give it a chance. And if u want to talk more about this, just e-mail me... I'll always going 2 reply, and willing to talk about ur depression, n problems.  |
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Hi,Kimmy.. i think that happens to anyone.Sometimeswe can feel lonely even there's many people around us. And about your friend kelvin and kristine..i think the best way to do is talk to them personally.ask kristine why she hate kelvin.and ask kelvin if he had made mistake to kristine.maybe we can find a solution from there And don't be shy or scare to tell how your feel to alvin(you like him right?) tomorrow can be late.tell him now or you can be regret...
~The fear of Lord is the beginning of wisdom~
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| hello... kimmy... life is simple, boring and lonely if you didn't try to spice it up, telling yourself to do certain things everyday is not gonna help but make things worse... not everyone suits this kind of life style... friends are important is life... no one could ever live alone... but well... you said you are rich... hmm... not all people is after your wealth.. there must be somebody who true to you... what you have to do is just open your heart... life isn't perfect... but is good to have a friend who can sharing your problems with, doing crazy things with... i'm still looking for someone like that... is hard sometimes, but there is always hope... you may try to do something you love or like everyday... make it different, perhaps change your image, or change the way you decor your room, anything to make you feel new... i dunno whether my suggestions is help or not... i sometimes will also feel that way... everyone do... is depends on how you overcome it... if you need someone to talk, you could always send me message... haha... i'll be very happy to know you... hmm... i got msn and yahoo messenger, the id for both of them are nyx_daynight... if no, send me an e-mail will also be fine... so... i hope you can finally find a true friend and enjoy your life fully...^_^ |
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life is empty without goals and dream.. may be that's what u need. and finally, there are many people in this world who are poor and hardly have any ture friend. so dont feel too bad about your life=) be strong |
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Sometimes when my life seems to be less than fair, I’ve always read this: The FootPrints in the sand One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him, and the other to the Lord. When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life, there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life. This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. "Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why, when I needed you most, you would leave me." The Lord replied, "My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints in the sand, it was then that I carried you." It helps me quite a bit, and I just want to share it with you… 
“I am the wisest man alive, for I know one thing, and that is that I know nothing.†|
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two facts: 1. there is no god 2. you are not alone there are plenty of reasons that motivate people to live happy healthy lives. passion for work, other people, and science. some people are driven by passion of their faith in god. the later is a remnant of our human history, kind of like the appendix in the gastrula-intestinal system. (wow, i just compared religion to your colon! lololz) 
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Okay I help Kimmy, now time to post my own loneliness. Sorry for the imminent rant. My problem is the fact that I find myself very unique to a way I can't find people like me. There is one thing I want and need that I don't have. A girlfriend. However I am picky. I need someone as crazy about love as me. There are not that many people in this world as deticated as me to love. I need a girl whos doesn't mind, no, wants a person constantly around them; even waiting outside the bathroom for them, never letting them out of site or reach. I wouldn't work anywhere that required me to be apart from each other. I can't get rid of lonliness unless I find someone for me. Yet I find it hard for anybody to love me or for me to love anybody. It would be so easy to just get a random girlfriend, however I wouldn't be at all any less lonely unless I loved her. Can't seem to find anybody who can possibally take in as much love as I dish out. I am a person dedicates everything to his love, does anything to please her, does all he can to ensure her happiness, and will stroll through hell to be with her. The problem is few people want such an over obsessive, protective, paranoid, and insanely loving to a ridiculous degree person. Who in this world is willing to make a promise to love me for all of eternity, to merge their soul with mine, to throw everything away for me, to march through hell with me, and to devote themselves to me as insanely and unrationally as I do to them? My dreams, ambition, goals, meaning to life, only come when I get a girlfriend. How many people on earth are as nuts as me? Despite all that they also have they also have to like my over the top personality, stupid anime jokes, annoying pride, crazy enthusiamsm, and numberious other flaws that I can't seem to get rid of. Friends, family, religion, etc can't decrease my loneliness at all. It really takes alot out of me to keep living alone. I only am alive because there is still hope, thank god I am patient. I have to agree with gendou on the facts, however despite the fact I am not alone, it never dimishes away my lonliness. I am sure I said this all before, but I needed to get this off my chest. Again, Sorry for the rant.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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Jomunga, if i was a girl, i would be your girlfriend :D
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Ahhh how sweet...in a way. Too bad Gendou is taken. Here is something that I asked myself just now. If I were to fall in love and then figure out that she was a he, would I still be in love. Let me just say the answer may disturb some. Watch out Gendou, you are fiddling with something dangerous. Nachatte. I must say now that I am completely strait or I will never hear the end of it. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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by phoenyx214
on 2006-01-31 01:30:58 (edited 2006-01-31 01:34:16)
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@ Kimmy Get used to that feeling, sometimes when all is said and done you only have yourself. Lonliness can make you stronger, and because you know how it feels to be alone, you can only be a better person for it teaches you compassion. @ gij I agree that LONLINESS is a CHOICE. If you were to choose between lonliness and superficial fake tuppeware use and abuse relationship/friendship... I'll take lonliness anyday. To describe the lonliness I have felt sometimes is similar to "plummeting down a cliff, with nothing to hold on to and your heart feels like its being stabbed, and your stomach consumes itself... like you're going to throw up but you can't. And you scream... but the only person that can hear you is yourself" I would rather suffer this than put up with peoples niceties, their pretentious and obnoxious facade and superficial-ness... makes me cringe.... @ Jomunga We have the same problem.... Im a girl!! How old are you and what is your preference in looks?? hehehehe |
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guys another problem: i think i love kelvin. i've talked to kristin and kelvin and they've moved on but.... i think i LOVE kelvin now i love 2 people and they are magkapatid(sibblings) what should i do? kelvin is my classmate and alvin is 5 years older than me! i love alvin but kelvin has been my crush for 7 years! (i'm talking to kelvin right now)
^v^ "Kawaii!!!!"
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| to Jomunga: well... i think the way you dedicate for your love is truly great... at least... except a friend of mine, i never meet such a guy would do anything for his love... you are definitely a great person... there will be a girl who truly appreciate you and love you for the way you are... because... i believe there is somebody for someone outside there in this world... no one would be alone... glad that you are patient... and i hope your love will appear soon... good luck to you... ^_^ |
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@Jomunga... oh yes, I understand what you feel. were on the same boat! I sometimes ask myself why I don't have a girlfriend. sometimes I envy those who has their partners especially when valentines day comes near...I also feel that my life is still incomplete and having a girlfriend will solve all of those problems. I myself know lots of girls in my school and sometimes my friends try to link them to me but I can't feel true love about those girls...maybe its true that there's only one for you who will love you and will be your companion through thick and thin. will I be like this forever? I hope I could find the right girl for me... @Kimmy... whatever happens you must pick only one girl but remember that whatever your decision is there is always someone who will be hurt by your decision... @phoenyx214... if loneliness is a choice then I wouldn't choose it...loneliness always happen in your life. you can't choose what your loneliness would be.  |
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by eternaltorture
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jomunga: if you like a person that happens to be a guy, hmmm...i really wonder what you would do.... i hope you find a girl that is crazy about you and love you as much as you does.....cause there aren't many men in the US that is like you!!!!----------ant that's a good thing.... |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-01-31 10:23:28
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OMG!! Jomunga- "I am a person dedicates everything to his love, does anything to please her, does all he can to ensure her happiness, and will stroll through hell to be with her. The problem is few people want such an over obsessive, protective, paranoid, and insanely loving to a ridiculous degree person. Who in this world is willing to make a promise to love me for all of eternity, to merge their soul with mine, to throw everything away for me, to march through hell with me, and to devote themselves to me as insanely and unrationally as I do to them?" OMG! THAT IS ME!!!!!!!!! oh O_O more..... "How many people on earth are as nuts as me? Despite all that they also have they also have to like my over the top personality, stupid anime jokes, annoying pride, crazy enthusiamsm, and numberious other flaws that I can't seem to get rid of." OMG! STILL ME!!(except the jokes and pride-I think....definetly the jokes) O_O Holy....crap....O_O....scary... Anyways....on to Kimmy, Who makes you more happy? 
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ei, you know what jomunga, i am a girl and i would be your girl friend, since gendou can't. hehe... just kidding. i'm not and had never been crazy about love. being crazy is a big problem. it gets bigger if you go crazy about the idea or the feeling and not about the person. i don't think you're a great guy or that you could be a good boyfriend because of the reasons stated. somehow i find you too idealistic when you shouldn't be because you're talking about love (oh my, i don't know what i'm saying). or maybe we could settle our differences if you have time. who knows? you could teach me your way of loving someone. still kidding. it won't work. aside from the fact that i'm not yet thinking about it because i have other priorities, i don't think you could accept me for what kind of woman i am because you won't bother to understand me, you would only care to understand yourself and your search for the ideal girl. plus, i wanted to be free as often as i could. i don't want my guy to protect me. i want my guy to be protected by my love. (boy, some spirit is using me to write such things. what the hell am i doing here?)  |
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Yes,I also have a problem understanding Jomunga's Idiosyncrasitc(I just don't understand it, it defies logic) screen of life. To not love is a blessing,not too many people know this...but that doesn't mean we can't meet halfway about beliefs... @gij,don't worry,you sometimes write odd things on Gendou,listening to people constantly worship the weapon called love could sway your mind(I.E. your enviorment sways your mind) but be deligent,never let another person's views change yours unless your KNOW they need to be changed.(which is quite hard in itself) |
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on 2006-01-31 23:34:45
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@ Project Koganei... Have you heard of the 80's song "owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart....." I've been faced with people that stick to me because Im useful to them, convenient, and yet they never seem to be of any benefit to myself (personally). You put up with gossip, backstabbing, prejudice, they measure you, put you down when its convenient or to make themselves feel better.... if this is what you would choose over being alone.... you have my sympathies I value my freedom of self, and fight for self integrity more so than putting up with all of the above. That is my personal preference yes. |
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phoenyx, its all in my profile. I've posted what I like, I read some of your posts as well. Now Kimmy has more problems. Okay, doctor Jomunga will perscribe anime. Hana Yori Dango(yes as 13 says its English name also) and Marmalade Boy. Similar situations. Also Koganei said you must pick one and the other will be hurt. Currently Kelven loves someone else so I think he won't be the hurt one. However, you can try going for them both. Hey strange things happen in love, you could marry two men! If you don't like the concept, then choose one. Yes, being in love with two people is confusing. Rather than listenig to my nonsense rambling, watch the animes and then think about them. Hahahaha, my good pal Sero. A likewise crazy, the closest person to me I have ever found. Remember the first day I saw you on Gendou? I said you and I will get along great. How veteran we are, already having nostalgia from past threads on gendou. Sero are you my long lost brother? I have doubt my about my current brother. Ahh Kotuso's reinforcements. You say I would love the concept of love more than the person. That however I already asked my self. "Are you sure its the person you love and not the concept behind it?" Well let me just say this...see you at the "what is love" thread. For that is where this argument belongs. Also I posted a whole buch about this in other threads as well, I am sure I repeated the answer I will give many times. Jomunga eats your avatars. |