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by night_link
on 2005-09-14 08:40:02
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| Like Lady Rin says, it just is. |
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BAD
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i believe it's only bad when u do it outta wedlock. that's all. the elders especially are really conservative on this matter, well my country, Malaysia shares the 1st place with some countries in world statistics for having sex most seldomly... neway, it depends on your point of view tho, can't really say that it's goddamn dirty or bad, it's just natural for living things to reproduce.  |
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on 2005-09-15 04:15:00 (edited 2005-09-15 06:07:29)
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Uh... O_o what? uh, yeah, we're talking bout s** here right? [blushes] Well, depends on one's beliefs and point of view. I personally think it BAD if you're having intercourse with someone who's NOT your husband or wife. It is BAD if you do it in a public place [inside the car, comfort rooms... etc]. It is not just right. Call me old-fashioned or conservative, i don't care. ^^v    |
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on 2005-09-15 05:39:52 (edited 2005-09-15 05:40:53)
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Ayeca I am also old fashioned, when it comes to relationships, love and sex. I think you should wait until you're married, I wanted to, only it didn't happen that way. I met Ranger and we made love that first night we met, I never thought I would do that and I've never been to bed with anyone else. Was that bad of me? Was it bad period? Why do you think sex is bad Rainy?  |
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*insert ayeca's post for agreement*
Veni, Vidi, Vici.
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on 2005-09-15 05:57:46 |
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@Lady Rin I can't judge or tell you that you're bad just because you did something that I dont agree of. Who am I to tell you? The good thing is HE is now your husband [am i right?] Well, blame it on your place's temperature. Must be really hot there in the dessert. ^^v |
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| I'm just jumping in here with my opinion, my apologies if this has been said already. Has anyone watched the discovery channel lately? I mean you can see very few animals on this planet doing anything that resembles love. So in the eyes of nature sex is ok. In the eyes of society, sex is ok if protected. Sex is more the physical aspect while love is more the emotional aspect. To me, sex is bad in excess b/c by law of odds you're gonna catch somethin' real bad and that will probably ruin it for the person you come to love, if you can find that person. So to all the fellas out there, remember you don't have enough blood supply to run both heads at the same time, so THINK FIRST. |
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on 2005-09-15 23:17:53 |
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Ayeca said I can't judge or tell you that you're bad just because you did something that I dont agree of. Who am I to tell you? The good thing is HE is now your husband [am i right?] Well, blame it on your place's temperature. Must be really hot there in the dessert. ^^v That's is a very wise thing you said, "I can't judge..." I don't either. And yes Ranger is "He who is my husband" for a very long time. *silver laughter* Only you should know while it does get very hot here when we met I was still living in England and he was stationed there. So if temperature had anything to do with it it was to keep warm. *giggle* To whoe you how naive I was when he left he took me in his arems and jus tkissed me and said "Little girls it's time you were in bed". I honestly thought he was going to put ne to bed and tuck me in. That's all. I actually thought he was gonig to leave. I'm glad he didn't. Love is more than sex, sex doesn't really need love. Does that make sense. Just remember this. We are all born innocent virgins. |
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i believe many people in the world still believe that sex is a sacred thing and should only be legal if its done in marriage relationships. if you think differently i'm not opposing it, if you think the same i don't disagree.
God's in his heaven. All's right with the world.
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by chizuru_chan
on 2005-09-16 07:19:59
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Does it hurt..?
Life starts simply , why change them?
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on 2005-09-16 12:45:08 |
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Oh dear, I'm not sure Gendou will let me answer that. Email me dear and I'll answer your question. |
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 Kioko Uratsuma
on 2005-09-16 18:21:22 |
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Oh My!!!! :| Sex is one of the basic needs of man according to psychologist. But it is very sacred ritual so we must RESPECT IT   |
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on 2005-09-16 18:36:10 (edited 2005-09-16 18:36:25)
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Rin/Ranger: you can post a reply here if you want. I trust you to be mature. I have no problem with people discussing adult topics so long as they are sensible about it. I personally wouldnt post anything on here that I wouldnt say to a 13 year old, but sex is something people whould be mindful and aware of as soon as (if not before) puberty. Undeniably, it is part of human nature, and is essential to all (multicelular) life. Actually, I think sex is one of nature's most genius systems. Sex allows a species to share genes the same way knowledge is shared among a group of people. Just...slower. And with more accuracy. Although, the average teenager is more concerned with their girlfriend/boyfriend's jeans than their genes. Haha. I made a funny! 
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Gendou, thank you for your trust. I shall do my best.  I never expected a question like that to come up and I shall try to do my best in answering it clinically however I do love loving Ranger. *giggle* Although, the average teenager is more concerned with their girlfriend/boyfriend's jeans than their genes. Haha. I made a funny! - Gendou Gendou before I met Ranger all of the boys I ever went with only had one goal. To remove my clothes and get me into bed. Ranger was my first real kiss. He was and is my first and only love. He shall be my last as well. From your point of view it is quite all right to not only be curious about sex but too ask as well since it may save some girl from becoming pregnant before she is ready. Part of the pregenancy problem is because young girls don't know about sex and how easy it is to get knocked up. :) I also know too well about the differences and attitudes between cultures and religions regarding sex. Please understand Ranger and I are more liberal that most parents in regards to this and we felt it was in the best interest of our own childrent that they should know at an early age, 14. Also don't forget that I don't know where most of you live so I don't know about the general attitude towards sex and what young people should know or not know or are not told in your culture. Chizuru_chan asked, "Does sex hurt"? I shall try to answer your question directly as best I can. Sex if done properly is a wonderful full of physical sensations like nothing else in existence culminating in orgasm. The only physical pain there for a girl is the moment she loses her virginity, just a pin prick, as her hymen is broken, that's all. For a boy, not that I know of and Ranger is shaking his head and laughing at me while I try to answer this. Just remember your first time to be gentle and to take your time and to wait until both of you are physically ready. Girls tell your BF or whoever when you are ready, don't let him guess, especially if this is his first time. Oh dear, I don't know what else to say without feeling embarrassed myself. I shall say that both you and your partner shall reach a stage where you are both "wet, lubricated" just like oiling a nachine to to reduce friction which is what you want to do. That means entry is easier for both of you. If you cannot do this easily don't force yourselves because it can become very painful for the both of you, especially for the girl if a boy continues and he does not take care. If a girl is in pain she will sometimes tell you. Girls it is your body and you have control so tell him how and what you feel. Let him know if it is alright to contuinue or to stop. And if you want him to stop then tell him. STOP! Be patient, take your time and don't just do each other, love each other, show your emotions sinc ethis is the closet you shall ever be. Boys: Have consideration for your partner. It is perfectly alright to ask if you may continue or if you are causing any discomfort. She may not have any experience and may be looking to you for some guidance. The opposite may also be true. Ranger very gently led me through that first night and it was incredible. I think he thought he was going to break me like a china doll. Well, he did break a part of me *giggles* *embarrased* I also realize the neither one of you may have any experience. there all I can suggest it to experiment. However I can give yo one piece of advice there. If it doesn't feel good, stop what your dong and do dsomething else for awhile then go back to it. There is no rush. Sex to me it is the ultimate expression of love and togetherness and love. I know nothing abotu it when I met Ranger and knew nothing else other that what we experienced together. Until one night 11 years ago.that was when I learned (I had heard) that there is a side to sex that that is horrible and brutal and that is rape. I was almost raped in a parking lot of a place I thought was safe. Ranger almost killed my attackers and while they were not totally sucessful in their attack the feeling of just being touched, hit having my clothes torn off and being assaulted by them was enough that it was several months before I would let Ranger touch me and make love to me again even though I was never actually raped. Boys, Don't ever force yourself on a girl. If she says no you stop, immediately,. If you continue even a little bit that's rape. To continue can mean leaving mental scars for a long time. It can also ruin your life as yiu have become a sex offender and in the US the names of sex offenders are published. I found this more than a little difficult to write and I hope that answers your question somewhat. If possible there is a book Ranger bought for us called the Joy of Sex. If it is available where you live you shuld get a copy and read it. If I have offended anybody in this post I apologize. Gendou if you feel this is an inappropriate answer you may delete it. And now since you have awakened my libido, the part of you that want's to make love I am going to go put on a pretty nightie and take Ranger to bed. Sweet dreams to all of you, I shall return in the morning.  uncorrected |
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by desertranger
on 2005-09-17 20:18:16
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I am amazed she wrote that.  |
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I was worried when I heard about Rin's assault, good thing Ranger stopped it. Kudos Ranger, Knight of Princess Rin. Anyways dont get ideas from crappy doujinshi and hentai. And remember if I find out about it or catch someone in the act, they are on thier way to the emergency room. I dont think I have to lecture anyone on gendou forums, were all decent people, right...stare...jiiiiii. PS. You say sex offenders names are published? Does that mean I can find names of sex offenders who live in my city?  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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| hmmm interesting...very interessssstiiiinnnng...... *fades away into the mist* |
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on 2005-09-18 06:29:06 (edited 2005-09-18 06:30:07)
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Thank you for your thoughts Jomunga. It seesm that whenever I have get into serious trouble Ranger is there or he knows about it and sends someone. On that night I had more to drink than usual, three glasses of wine instead of 1-2 and I went out to the car to wait for Ranger. I didn't know I was followed however Ranger did know. Apparently he also knew I was, or was going to be, in trouble because when he came out he was carrying a maglight that he used as a weapon. It is one of the more horrifying memories I have. Perhaps even worth a comment in the supernatural thread or somewhere since I have know idea how he knows when I need help. A number of years ago a little girl, named Megan, I think she was a 12, was assaulted and raped. I'm don't remember if she survived her attack. Her parents pressed for a new law now called "Megans law". It publishes the names of convicted sex offenders and makes them available to the general public. Normally you have to go to the sheriffs department and can check out the list for sex offenders in your area. Some states like California make this database available online so you can see who lives in your area. It is amazing how many sex offenders live near schools. Unfortunately Megans Law does not make a difference minor crimes like upskirting or someone caught with busy hands in public or statutory rape (consensual sex with a minor). So anyone in that list is marked even if it was a crime commited 30 years ago and that person is now free and living a clean life. It has also brought abotu a spate of viligantism as people check out the registry then go after the offender. I part I agree with Megans law. However like anything else in the world something meant to protect is now being used for evil in it's own right. It seems that if you are a repeat murderer freed and walking the streets to kill again it's acceptable. However if you are a sex offender age 16 who was jailed for statutory rape you are marked for life and subject to the whims of your neighbors. That meana sex offenders are chased from their homes or not allowed to move into a community because of information gleaned for the database while the police sit by an allow this to happen. It's a very iffy situation filled with pitfalls for both sides and unfairly treats people who do not deserve to be registered and who are. Frankly I think if you sexually assault someone you should go to jail for life. I aloso think that people who uses this database out of fear and paranoia should be treated to a little jail time as well. Try these links for more info. http://caag.state.ca.us/megan/ http://www.registeredoffenderslist.org http://www.sexcriminals.com/regs/1169.html |
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on 2005-09-19 05:58:44 |
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I was very naive at 20. If you are a teen you should learn. |