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Re: Life vs Suicide
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by Night Wolf
on 05:31:44 pm 09/08/08
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I don't see it as bad because if "X" is so miserable that it can no longer find a reason to live then I see no problem in X killing itself because it would finally be free. In my case, I hate alot about my life right now but there is still some reasons, I'm not even sure of them all, for me to continue living. I'm always asking myself why I bother but then I just think of a few reasons and I'm still here. Like if I just offed my self right after posting this what would happen to my dog, I'd have left the only thing that truly loves me and never doubts me alone, and it may sound strange that I'd say that about a dog but my dog is always there for me and we just have that connection of true companions. Actually it disgust me when people always throw the god card down and are all "Oh killing yourself is a sin don't do it or you'll go to hell forever!!1!!11" because 1.I don't believe in god and 2.I try my best to respect other peoples religions but the god card always seems to be thrown down and it drives me crazy after awhile |
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by AnIiMe_MaNiAc
on 09:01:21 am 09/10/08
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some people suicide because they dont have a goal or purpose in life. they are unhappy with their life. they are blaming themselves or parent or someone and something that is making their life difficult. true suicide does end your torment but only for temporary as there are more to come after a nap( life after death). think my friend, why end this life as it is only once? why end this life as there are many wonderful thing to learn, to know, to see and to experience it? and futhermore the most important is that , out there , there is Someone who truly care and love us. and that is God, Jesus Christ. my friend, you just need God and all of us need it too. God has God's own plan for us. God has planned it before our birth. God love us as we are. God is seeking us as we are seeking God. trust God, my friend. Jesus Christ will always be there for us. pray...say that "Jesus Christ this moment, i really truly want to feel you. please oh lord, let me feel your presence. please let me understand you more. please forgive me for my sins. please help me in my life as i am powerless to live this life. in the name of Jesus Christ i pray. amen." i am sure God will reveal HIMSELF to you who seek and pray to God with all of your heart. and tell your friends as this will help them. God loves you all my friend.
HAII! LET'S BE FRIEND!
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1st of all whether suiciding is bad or not is not based on religions, its just plain bad and dumb simple as tad BAD and DUMB. I'm barely 20 so i cant say i'v lived thru life and stuff but yar stuff gets hard or boring. But its realli juz how u see em and deal with it. I'v got retained in school for like almost an xtra 2 years due to various reason but because of that i'v meet and encountered many other interesting stuff and ppl. While often u might unwillingly stray from your path. That path could juz lead you to a even brighter future. ^^ |
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Re: Life vs Suicide
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by
 
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"life is a precious gift"- have you ever received an ugly sweater from a great aunt, ABC gum, or a totally useless item[ie a gravey bowl] people give us things all the time, doesn't make it precious or wonderful. I know we have alot to be thankful for, and beleive me, I feel guilty thinking morbid thoughts with a full stomach. Yes, telling people you are gonna kill yourself is a cry for attention and sympathy, but many people kill themselves for what they think is a legitimate reason. Everyone has different levels of what struggles they can take, some are more strong willed than others. Some Find life too hard to bear, do you think someone would off themselves on a lark? Death isn't some decision you make offhand like. when people reach the limits of what they can take, they see death as a refuge. There are far worse pains than that of a rumbling belly.  |
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Definition of Emo: By an Emo Okay, people usually emos commit suicide because nothing in there life is going right, or they have done something unbearable, or maybe even because their life is unbearable. Many people think it is stupid to die because life isn't going right. It is obvious that life can be turned around almost all the time if it is bad. Basically, people do suicide if they can't turn their sad little lifes around or don't actually want to. That is where Emo comes in. Emos are people who milk having a crap life. They channel their thoughts into poetry or music, and that can sometimes keep them content. Emos start of as normal people then go straight onto emo or first have a punk or screamo stage. Either or, they become emo. Emos then have three choices: change back to normal person, Be emo but only for the music and clothes not personality (me!), or become a depressed emo-tional kid who whines a lot. Option two kids snap out of emo soon usually but option 3 kids only have two left over options: Suicide or life. If they do want to turn their lives back to normal because they can,they live. If they do not want to, then life becomes unbearable and they well, commit suicide. Concluder: Suicide is unnecessary if you can and are willing to turn your life around. People who do not want to do so or cannot do so, die.   |
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Re: Life vs Suicide
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on 12:09:41 am 10/14/08 (edited 12:10:31 am 10/14/08)
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if a person suicides.. he or she will make it hard for everyone else.. like their family and friends.. it's really depressing.. it may seem right by the person affect at the time.. but if they did care about other people, they shouldnt commit suicide. Because if they did, won't they make other people unhappy? Won't they give other people what they didn't like in the first place? .. therefore.. by committing suicide, won't they become what they hated in the first place?? also, they have to look for what is wrong, and resolve it.. if they cannot find whats wrong..(nobody knows you better than yourself) then they're not truely sad and emo.. i don't wanna say(type) this but.. i think emos hav ADD 
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by FurudeRikasama
on 03:39:51 am 10/14/08
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Suicide is interesting. I think that it is a cowardly way out of life, but you also have to consider that the person committing it has a lot of courage to hold a knife to themselves or jump off a building. It doesn't change my opinion that suicide is a crap answer to life's problems. I would never consider any situation "worthy" of suicide. It's no way to free yourself from your issues, because then you might become a ghost and be stuck here; still with your problems, but unable to tell your friends or anything about them because almost no-one can see you. And as far as religion goes, isn't it against Catholic [sorry if I'm wrong, I'm not to good on my religious rules] religion to commit suicide? Won't you get sent to purgatory/hell? I might not believe that, but some people do. And those people disregard their beliefs and commit suicide anyway. Ah, I would make this post a bit longer, unfortunately I have school. I hope I got my opinion across clearly... -Rika Furude |
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on 10:50:02 am 10/14/08 |
And why does everyone think that a person commits suicide solely based on problems that he/she has power over? Why do people think that you can control every aspect of your life? Somethings are always out of your control. Not saying nothing is beyond your control but I'm getting frustrated with people saying that you can just turn your life around and everything will be peachy. In no why is life ever that simple.  
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on 01:26:14 pm 10/14/08 (edited 01:30:12 pm 10/14/08)
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you have me agreeing with you! but, really, i don't think you'll make much headway against the ecumenical anti-suicide social programming people are subjected to.  |
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| i totally agree with what your saying because one time i considered to do suicide but after thinking so much about it i thought it wasn't worth it and that it was stupid to throw away my life when i know that things can be better if i do something sbout it instead of moping all day. and now i'm much happier than i was back then. also i think it was wise of you to slap your friend to knock some sense into him. |
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It is said that slave owners commited suicide more often than slaves. I wonder why people in better positions kill them selves more than the ones in worse. Like the rock stars that have fame, money, and wemon but decide they can't take life anymore. What is the point in suicide any way what do they think it will posibly improve? Almost all the world religions say something bad will happen to those who kill themselves. I have to admit though, the thought has crossed my mind. Not anywhere close to serious enough to do it but my reason is curiosity and not missery. I do wonder what is on the other side but nomater what I do I will find out so why rush? Anyway, I feel no pity for those who kill themselves. Only ignorance will lead someone to beleive they are miserable and those that are truely miserable will tend to fight for a way out of their situation. dEATH IS WHAT AWAITS US ALL. THERE IS NO NEED TO RUSH IT. |
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Life sucks for everyone even the richest man in the world's life sucks. Killing your self is a b!tch move. Find away to solve your problems and if you can't find someone to help you. I find that reading scify books really helps because the hero always finds a way to over come the obsticals.
Bad girlfriends last a week, but herpies last for ever
-uncle Richard
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Re: Life vs Suicide
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People who chose suicide as their way to solve things is not honorable, and actually never was.... .... except for heroic purpose, of course. Feel free to correct me, in this case I am not writing this philosophically. Just base myself from my human emotion. Do not hasten death with suicide, lives will run out eventually. Try to live on and fight, it's bitter, but it is the only option there is.  |
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Re: Life vs Suicide
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by Devourer-Of-Tomatoes
on 01:59:04 pm 09/27/09
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Killing self is like a soldier who being shot to death while he's running away from battlefield. It is a disgrace to all who fought besides you. Everyone have problems, If you think you have the worst in the world you're completely wrong. There are people who face a lot worse situation and live to tell the tale. |
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Re: Life vs Suicide
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by hawaii 150
on 12:52:23 pm 10/11/09
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| Killing oneself cause they're unhappy I think is crazy. If you're unhappy, try to do things to make you happy. If It's hard for you to do it, tell someone else about it then maybe they could help. Telling someone about your problem or -- if you don't have one -- just letting things out of your mind helps much, unless it adds to your unhappiness. If that is so, you'll need professional help and some medicine for that. |
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Ok, having dealt with, and helped, quite a few people with suicidal issues, i have a few things to say... First, those of you saying that its stupid that religious people commit suicide because it is their beliefe that they will go to hell: When so much bad things are happening to you,for so long that you no longer remember the time when life was being good to you, you begin to doubt the existance of this so called supremely forgiving god, you start to think that there is noone looking after you... Just like how we would not know darkness if there is no light to compair it to (this is another discussion i will talk about if someone asks), without a god, thud no heaven, there can be no concept of hell. Therefore, you no longer care about your religious beliefes, and you go ahead and commit suicide.... Second, to those of you who are saying suicide is stupid, it is cowardly, and calling those who are contemplating it idiots: All this is doing is attempting to scare them, make them think twick about what they are doing, make them think that people will think less of them if they do it. THINK!, from their perspective, noone cares about them as it is, noone will notice they are gone, and noone will therefor think less of them. Do you not think the world has scared them enough as it is?! I know the intentions are good, but honestly, it is possible that these comments may actually drive them further into depression (because now you are just one more person who is calling them bad names). They come on here for help, and get greeted with "your an idiot"..... wow, thats gonna make them feel a whole lot better... For those of you who are here seeking help, those of you who are here because you are starting to have second thoughts abou life, or who are having their 53rd thought about life, i am here to talk. I have been through alot in my life, and what i havent personaly been through, some of my friends, ones i previously helped, have been through. I talk from experiance, and if i cant understand what you are going through, i bet you i can pass you on to someone who can. Your not alone, and theres always someone willing to listen to you, and soneone who understands exactly what you are going through, you just have to keep searching for them, they are out there somewhere. YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS WORLD |
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Re: Life vs Suicide
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by
 
on 07:09:34 am 04/27/10 (edited 07:26:30 am 04/27/10)
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I have considered suicide which comes as a surprise to most people who know me for my bubbly outgoing personality. The girl that goes up and hugs a random stranger and smiles all the time. Surprising right? Well sometimes it's not. I have written a suicide note before and on two separate occasions I have tried to jump yet I couldn't bring myself to do it. Standing there on the edge and looking down to where I would land below I began to really think. Like really think. Like I'm talking about deep thinking people. I mean I just stopped and asked myself; "Is it worth it?" Part of me said yes because it would end all of this pain. I wouldn't have to be hurt anymore I could be free of it all with no worries. It was a nice thought... The other part of me said that it wasn't worth it. I had still a lot of things to live for. Things like being able to hang out with my friends, falling in love, graduating high school, moving away from mom and going to college, becoming a teacher, getting married, having kids, and the whole works. Am I really that selfish of to want to end my life? Just because something bad happened to me and my life seems like a living hell at times is it selfish to want to end it all? To just give up and stop trying? One part of me said yes it was selfish. There are probably other people in this world that have a lot more problems than I did and some of those problems could be a lot worse than what I was going through. But they probably were trying to make it through not give up. The other part said no. Giving up and just letting everything go I would be free of any earthbound problems. No more parents fighting and things being smashed. No more being afraid to fall asleep at night and having a step father come in the early hours of the morning to molest me. No more resorting to sleeping in a mummy sleeping bag to protect myself. I'd be able to finally well "breathe" in a sense of the word. Maybe not quite the physical way but I'm sure you can understand what I'm trying to say. I realized that if I committed suicide that it would hurt more people that know me and and are very close to me. They would blame themselves for not seeing all the signs that I gave off. It wasn't fair to put them through something like that. I began living my life the way it should be. Cherishing each minute that I'm alive. Being able to take another breath in and letting it out. Being able to meet so many people and becoming good friends with them. Just being able to be alive I realize is the greatest gift because it allows us to experience so many things. I know that some things that come my way may drag me down and I might feel like I want to kill myself but all I need to do is just ask myself these four simple words; "Is it worth it?" *Bows* Thank you if you took the time to read this. It is a very powerful subject for me and I know the feelings that can come with these types of thoughts and they affected me and my life in so many ways. I hope I was able to offer anything by writing this.    |
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Re: Life vs Suicide
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Life is tough... That what life is... There is no easy way to accomplish your goal Its all about your effort either you succeed or fail in life If suicide, it would be the same as 'give up' in life In our religion, we were restricted from suicide. Otherwise we would sent to hell TT_TT    |
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life is tough suicide is tougher i might sound mean but those who consider suicide are being very selfish because even if they think they will affect no-one, their family would still be hurt in some way i dont know :/ i just think people should embrace the most precious gift of all and that is, life
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Suicide is the easy way out. I'm the laziest person I know and my life sucks but I will never commit suicide.  |